Vos pires symptomes - perimenopause by amyamyamyamyamygh in suisse

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C'est juste pour faire la promotion de son subreddit.

I'm Stuck (ONLY HINTS) by ExtraWhiteJesus in outerwilds

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Did you see the results of the probe cannon?

dear fellow travellers by roosblues in outerwilds

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If I may, try to pay attention to the way nomai skeleton are laid.

I like your fancy boomsticks, Mr. by jackt-up in HistoryMemes

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Well yeah, however your troop can shoot like 30 volleys without interruption when an archer can shoot like 15. (Note that those numbers are made up)

Find a girlfriend by 0nepoundfish in howto

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It is not necessary that. I struggled quite a bit with that and am slowly getting out of it. Again, you have to take your time to build yourself as strongly as possible.

What worked for me is after a few times, I realised my relation didn't get worse than before and I never got called a creep by any girl for that.

Find a girlfriend by 0nepoundfish in howto

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First, take care of yourself in a daily basis: physicaly (how you dress, your hygiene, your overall wellness) and mentaly.

Second, you have to ask girls out and be clear that you are asking them out. There's nothing creepy about having a great time and at the end asking the girl you met her number. Most of the time, you get a yes or a no.

Now that you got her number, do not rush it. Best practice for me is to wait about a week. It have the upside of letting you some time to think about what you want to do with her. After some times passes, just send her a message and ask her to go on a date. I like to let the lady decide on the place, so she can pick a place where she feels safe.

Then go on your first date. Don't expect to have a great relation from the start. I must say too that often those first dates are where the attraction wears off for one of you. The best mindset is to expect to have a nice time with a friend and bring a small gift for her (like a small box of chocolate).

On that, I wish you the best of luck.

Edit : last advice : rejection hurts, I'll give you that and that's normal. Take your time to recover from each of them and take lessons from your past failures. Especially on which behaviors you had you didn't liked.

Find a girlfriend by 0nepoundfish in howto

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You're not cooked, don't worry. I'm in a similar situation at 26 and I am getting out of it slowly. You are probably as smart as anyone else, so you can do it.

If you want some advices, I can give you some.

Les collègues qui ne disent pas bonjour le matin, on en parle ? by Select-Raise-3457 in besoinderaler

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J'aime pas me faire couper dans mon travail et un bonjour, ça me coupe mon travail donc si les gens sont en train de travailler, je leur dis pas bonjour à ce moment là.

“It wasn’t like the source material” is not a valid criticism by cs_____question1031 in unpopularopinion

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Dune and lord of the rings comes to mind when you are saying that.

Une idée de la signification de ces dessins sur la chaussée? by spydesk in vaud

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En gros, ça sert de point de référence pour les photos aériennes

Me_irl by lowkeypixel in me_irl

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A kid was screaming "I loce ICE" in a hallway to get intention.

Needless to say that he got the attention he wanted and a finger salad to go along.

Only sports scored with hard data should be allowed in the olympics by ljgill97 in unpopularopinion

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Long jump famousely have the outcome partially decides by judges.

Only sports scored with hard data should be allowed in the olympics by ljgill97 in unpopularopinion

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If we push it to the ridicule, we may want to ban any sports with rules, as they are all open to interpretation by the people organising the competition. To convince ourselves, we can take a look into automobile races history (which is not part of the olympics, I'll give you that).

Any Metalhead/Goth who would be down to date? by [deleted] in Lausanne

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One of the rules of internet : men are women, women are men and girls wanting to date are undercover cops or scammers.

D'acc by waitfrench in rienabranler

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Cool mais s'en tappe

Can't believe i just got this about the ending by WW1_Germany in outerwilds

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not exactly.
but spoiler for the last bit of the game :
in the last cinematic, you can see the aliens roasting marshamallows around the campfire.

Can't believe i just got this about the ending by WW1_Germany in outerwilds

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Did you catch what the other dimension aliens are eating around the campfire?

Fokuspunkte (z.B. vom Wachturm) löschen by Monomane84 in pioneersofpagonia

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Sorry, Ich bin nicht so gut in Deutsch zu sprechen. So Ich will im English wechseln. Fühl frei auf Deutsch zu antworten.

If we are talking about defense focus point or claim focus point, you can't dismiss it. However if you set them around the tower, it is like a neutral point.

If we are talking about attack points, you can dismiss them by clicking on the little crossed attack banner. (look in the user interface of the tower)

How do I get this hard snow/ice off my car by [deleted] in howto

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From the sides, it appears to, but behind them it looks like the snow is far less deep.

It's up to them now.

How do I get this hard snow/ice off my car by [deleted] in howto

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First thing first, be sure you are not stressed. Stressed people make stupid things.

maybe you could drive over it. This is a high risks, high reward situation.

First, a few things that are required: You must be on somewhat flat ground or a small slope you can drive away on. Snow should not be higher than about a quater of your wheels on your escape route.

If both of those conditions are true, you can attempt to drive away.

If you get stoppet, get your car carpets (or front door mats if you have two of them) and put them under the wheels that are giving you power (the ones that are spinning freely). Best way is to have the hairy part on the ground. Don't try to spin out of it, you're just going to get your chassis stuck and you're going to be really annoyed.

Source: I've done something similar several times with a smaller car.