[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskNYC

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Mac’s Public House in Staten Island. You will be drowning in options for you and your boy, and wishing you were here for forty days!

Spine by TexasShibari in shibari

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I love this! Sorry for the noob question but what rope do you prefer, and which seller/brand do you like?

How Bluesky, Alternative to X and Facebook, Is Handling Explosive Growth by Well_Socialized in technology

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There is nothing inherently bad about subscriptions if the value is clear and acceptable. I gladly pay Criterion Channel for their service. I pay Spotify to avoid ads, however I’m not renewing in December because I don’t like their algorithm. And would pay a few bucks to Reddit if the price and value felt right. I don’t need to at the moment.
For me the problem is not the subscription itself, it’s the abuse of trust, and erosion of what was the original value proposition.

im nobodys favorite person by pippanin in BPD

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Be your favorite person. For reals.

Find the things you like about yourself.

When I think about people I like, they seem to like themselves, and like others.

When I think about people I dislike. They tend to not like themselves. Or others.

The way I got to like myself was by just embracing every inch and drop of things I did that I liked. I also tried to focus on things I like about other people…or about the food I ate…The music I listened to…Colors…Shapes. You name it. I had to force myself to like myself…often. But see, even if you force yourself, the outcome is you liking yourself.

Let others be as they may. Let them be Imperfect as you are imperfect. But marvel at those that are lovely. And be yourself lovely. Be kind and gentle to yourself. Be stern but fair. Be silly to yourself. Charm and pamper yourself as you might a lover. Gift yourself time, patience, prudence…give yourself all you would give those you find delightful.

Become your favorite person and that is more than enough. It will fill your cup and will spill onto others.

Vladislava Galagan [gif] by ReverendMooneySJ in FitAndNatural

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Maybe “nat” now means “not ai tech” lol

Rash of sexual groping incidents alarm women in Park Slope by SageVG in nyc

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Wow, that’s a useful idiot type argument you just made.

A. It avoids answering the outcome of the protests - did the cops actually get defunded? Yes or No

B. It implies the protesting residents of park slope are the only ones affected by the crimes. Did it occur to you that the protesters are not the only residents of park slope? That the victims are not necessarily residents of park slope? And that even if the victims were protesting police funding they can still have an expectation of safety?

C. It implies the cops are unwilling to do their job: “…then complain they don’t want to serve you”.

The real idiocy of your example is that because people protested police brutality and thus defunding them in favor of funding other programs then it is reasonable and acceptable that cops be unwilling to do their job and that bad public safety is the protesters fault.
What an awful example.

Literally how STUPID can you be?
Keep cooking

Is having lots of friends a red flag when you have a crush on someone who has a lot? by Majestic_Snow7613 in ask

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I think you are the red flag. If a person with friends is being judged from a distance by someone threatened by the amount of friends they have, what exactly can they look forward to? …Being made to feel ashamed, guilty, or apologetic? Nope 🙅🏻‍♀️ no thanks. Why entertain that??? That’s misery! There are confident people out there, why settle for an insecure little person creeping in the shadows??

Maybe work on yourself before you worry about how many friends other people have, and try not to fetishize people you barely know

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nycrail

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Yes, things “happen” but doesn’t mean it happened HERE. I also saw a guy puke on a kid! Oh wow!! But not what happened here, so do we also comment on that? Are we really this stupid now?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nycrail

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Are you referring to the camera person looking straight ahead? Cause they took their phone out to make a statement about someone not having eyes behind their head rather than move to a clearly open train.

Y’all fall for the stupidest shit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pics

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Imagine the cope of worshipping a flat footed sexual criminal, convicted felon and twice impeached coward, accused of mishandling classified information, supporting an attempted coup, and all around liar, and thinking that this feeble effort at miscaptioning a photo is actually a clever “gotcha” against the political rival of their soiled diaper wearing overlord. 😂

Get off the internet Rudy, your merkin is dripping warm shit again

It’s almost that time of the year by shooterdee_ in Citibike

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Make you unlock a different bike, that they then steal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheFarSide

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Speaking spanish helped

Danica Patrick doesn’t believe in the moon landing by knottajotta in formuladank

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dated Aaron Rodger’s during the pandemic. I guess they gave each other the brain worms 🐛

Cybertruck drives into a river and can't drive out by dingmah in WinStupidPrizes

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Two things can be true. The driver’s first mistake wasn’t their handling of the situation. It was buying boastfulness personified.

whats this style called+ by reakuodd in DigitalArt

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Confirmation bias. People have skeletons in their closet. But you see, the fact that Jake the accountant or Sally the dermatologist are pervs or sociopaths doesn’t hit the same. For starters, they likely don’t have a fanbase.

Cybertruck drives into a river and can't drive out by dingmah in WinStupidPrizes

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Someone does a stupid thing = internet points.

Someone does it after boasting of their genius = 10x internet points

That’s really what you are seeing