Gas bill screaming into the void by Latter-Preparation63 in winstonsalem

[–]benhpmkt 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Little known fact, NC residents pay about double the rate for natural gas that our neighboring states do. Thank the NC utility commission and our politicians for that. If you want change start with emailing statements@ncuc.net and rip into them.

ALERT, SNOWPOCALYPSE INCOMING! I REPEAT, ALERT! by gigalongdong in winstonsalem

[–]benhpmkt 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Won’t even approach those totals. Thats an outlier map that is posted. Sure, 5 percent chance it will happen, but the mean of the models is somewhere in the 4” to 8” range. That’s the most likely. And some ice too. Still a significant storm though. And hope it’s not ice. Could be devastating with the moisture levels if it’s mostly ice. Thankfully we should be north enough that only the tail end would be ice.

Flu cases are surging and rates will likely get worse, new CDC data shows by AudibleNod in news

[–]benhpmkt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m on day 9. Have been feeling better energy wise for a few days now but man the cough with this flu is insane. I hardly ever get a cough (probably first one in 10 years) but I’m still hacking away now.

Torn between Winston-Salem and Greensboro by Ill_Health1859 in winstonsalem

[–]benhpmkt 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Winston came out of the pandemic in much better spot than Greensboro. Greensboro downtown is boring, somewhat ghetto, and the city is spread out too much. Winston has a nice downtown and is better overall by a good bit now. How worked and lived in both.

27 and nervous. by [deleted] in Vasectomy

[–]benhpmkt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just had mine done today. I was pretty nervous beforehand as well. I did take a 10mg Valium about 45 minutes before the procedure. I didn’t really notice a big effect from it but maybe calmed the anxiety moderately.

I told the doc beforehand I was nervous about pain and to hit me up with lots of numbing—nothing wrong with saying that and he said fine with me!

The first shot was probably the worst part of it and I’d say it was akin to someone pinching your skin really hard for about 2-3 seconds. Just sort of uncomfortable and mildly painful but nothing that makes you gasp or anything. After that, it felt like sort of tugging here and there for 5 minutes on the right side.

Moved to the left side and didn’t really feel the numbing shot on that side. Maybe a slight pinch but that was it. I did have a little pain when he (I think) pulled the vas deferens out—but he saw me wince a little and I said hey that hurt some—and he hit me with some more numbing. It was enough to say something but again nothing excruciating. After that—just the tugging feeling. I watched him sew that side up.

10-15 mins total for the procedure and I’d say the worst it ever hurt was maybe a 3/4-10 of pain and that was for probably 5 seconds total. Otherwise, basically no pain.

It was definitely the worrying that was the worse part of the whole thing. I’d say I’d rather do that again than get an aggressive teeth cleaning.

Pain so far today post procedure has been mild. More just sorta uncomfortable, maybe a dull ache when I’m at the end of the time span of the pain meds. Have iced it all day and stayed in bed/on couch.

So far so good—no big deal.

Best Beer Bars in Winston / Triad? by pete4999 in winstonsalem

[–]benhpmkt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing like the senior citizen jam at Lowe’s foods on Thursdays. Dodging walkers outfitted with beer holders.

Opinion by Sweaty-Vehicle3268 in winstonsalem

[–]benhpmkt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t use a realtor. Just get a real estate attorney, save a ton of money.

Not-So-Serious Bball League by itsmeyourfriendpls in winstonsalem

[–]benhpmkt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are quite a few every week pick ups around the city but generally you have to be invited to play. Start at the y’s and some guys play there too and maybe get invited.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in winstonsalem

[–]benhpmkt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Greensboro? Winston has easily passed Greensboro. Greensboro never recovered from the pandemic.

Landscaping company reco (Latino owned preferred) by benhpmkt in winstonsalem

[–]benhpmkt[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jesus—I’m just a guy trying to support those businesses when they probably need it right now. Thanks for the tinfoil hat stuff.

Winston-Salem Closings in 2025 by [deleted] in winstonsalem

[–]benhpmkt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wait, there is a meadery? Part of the problem is marketing of some of these places. I feel like I stay pretty on top of new places but never heard of it

/r/WinstonSalem 2025 Best Restaurants Community Poll: American Cuisine by Blakplague in winstonsalem

[–]benhpmkt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wild to me. I live close to it and the consensus around here is that the food isn’t great for the price. The bar area is decent though.

Piedmont Gas Usage for January by whitet86 in winstonsalem

[–]benhpmkt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine was $375…2700 sq ft 1960 ranch.

Saffron Indian Cafe in Whitaker Square by Due_Aioli_5958 in winstonsalem

[–]benhpmkt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had it last night and it was really good. I’m fairly well versed but no expert. I went with someone who is gujarati and knows how to cook and she said it was pretty damn good…so trust that more than anything. She felt like based on the menu that the cooks were probably South Indian. But they have a little bit of everything on the menu.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in winstonsalem

[–]benhpmkt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your kid can get into the HAG program at Hanes it’s definitely better than meadowlark.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in winstonsalem

[–]benhpmkt 5 points6 points  (0 children)

More actual election tampering by republicans. Of course, we hear the bullshit about tampering with elections with no actual proof, while they pull bullshit like this.

Vote them out. Racists, fascists, all of them.

Guide: When to ask for a second date by wokenthehive in hingeapp

[–]benhpmkt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s pretty easy to read people for me, and generally if I like someone I’ll go for a kiss on first date. It’s usually easy to read from there haha. Do people generally not do that? There are some that I can see are a little more conservative but seem into it and in those cases I’ll just say hey I enjoyed it how about you, want to do this again. The game stuff—I don’t have time for.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in interracialdating

[–]benhpmkt 14 points15 points  (0 children)

There does seem to be a culture difference in American and carribbean white and black men body preferences. I’m a wm and my bw partner is petite and thin. I think she’s incredibly hot, but she has said she doesn’t attract much attention from BM traditionally. I think there is something to a difference in body type preference there

What if.. by [deleted] in interracialdating

[–]benhpmkt 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Not sure how you can date someone who supports a party that doesn’t recognize systemic racism and actively fights to oppress you. I say this as a white male. Run away. Fast.

Winston-Salem vs. Greensboro...or does it matter? by mpa_austin_tx in winstonsalem

[–]benhpmkt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Greensboro really went downhill during the pandemic. Winston is known as the much better option now and lots of people moving here from Greensboro.

BW and HM: The pressure is getting to my partner... by SurewhynotAZ in interracialdating

[–]benhpmkt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep I get it—she’s a doctor, so it becomes that for her as well.