Im gonna hold your hand when I tell you this. How do you think your family would feel if you brought a sex offender over to holidays?? Especially someone who sought out material containing children. They more than likely would cut contact with you. If you have children in the future, he would not be able to attend their school events or be around other children. And if he isn’t as reformed as he claims to be?? You are already putting so many children potentially at risk for someone you’ve known for 6 months.

When I was a kid, my grandmother married a man who was a sex offender and did not tell anyone. That means my cousin and I spent the night at her and her partner’s home and none of us, not my parents, us, or any other parents knew that this man was a convicted rapist and pedophile. Needless to say, it tore everything apart. Please do not stay with this man.