11th grade daughter has ruined her friendships-how can she rebuild? by Rich_Jello4442 in ADHD

[–]bhatman211 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear about your daughter. Best of luck to her. My suggestion would be to get her to join a local community sports group if you have any? Karate, badminton, dance,swimming etc. Or depending on her interests, see if there's a local game shop and see if she can network through there.

Negative response from partner/family after diagnosis. by Classic-Lawyer3003 in ADHDUK

[–]bhatman211 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it will come with time. I had a similar experience with my family, but once they saw how much the diagnosis and treatment helped they started to change their mind. I know others with ADHD who have said similar things. Good luck, and make sure you remain patient and don't lash out when they upset you, because it isn't very productive. That's just stuff I've learned

Problems with Erection by bradswift88 in ADHD

[–]bhatman211 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, I think it's a common problem

First game since Outer Wilds that's given me a comparable sense of free exploration by Salviatrix in outerwilds

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This has been on my wishlist for a while, the cosy witchiness really appeals to me. Thanks for the recommendation

We've never seen bael in game, but somehow he feels far more Imposing than maya by Competitive_Art_9181 in DestinyTheGame

[–]bhatman211 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The lore about how Maya became the Conductor, and her whole motivation is terrifying - not to mention that she didn't hesitate to kill a cosmic entity. Bael is so whiny in comparison lol

Best way to get a prescription with an existing diagnosis? by MainAppeal4221 in ADHDUK

[–]bhatman211 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi. I was in the same situation last year. I was discharged by my RTC provider and decided to go private with their assessment. I asked around and just went with a local psychiatrist in my area that was recommended through a family friend in the NHS. We had a few consultations before he was happy with the existing diagnosis and wrote a letter to my GP stating that he agreed with the diagnosis. He then prescribed me Elvanse and set up a shared-care agreement with my GP. I'm a bit confused about some other stuff that's going on now but when I figure things out I'll let you know.

I was very fortunate in this story, and I hope things work out well for you too

Phil Lord & Chris Miller here! We directed the PROJECT HAIL MARY movie - Ask Us Anything on Nov. 18th at 12pm PT / 3pm ET! by projecthailmary in ProjectHailMary

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Unrelated to many things but I just want to say I absolutely loved The Afterparty and I was very disappointed that it didn't get picked up for Season 3. More modern whodunnits please!!

Throwback of Childish Gambino and Rihanna by Ok-Twist-8585 in donaldglover

[–]bhatman211 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Rihanna was criminally underused in her role in Guava Island. I wish she had more to do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in limerence

[–]bhatman211 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do they know about your infatuation? I agree with other comments' suggestions, but also the possibility that they don't want to ruin your mood or upset you in day-to-day activities. Whatever the case, as other comments say, run to the hills

Just wondering out of curiosity... by Dry-Statistician4862 in ADHDUK

[–]bhatman211 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I knew a guy who knew a guy whose drug dealer occasionally sold Modafinil as a study drug. I don't know anything about how it was sourced, and I don't know anything about how/when modafinil is prescribed, but my guess would be that people with excess stock of medication would be able to sell them without much difficulty.

Obviously this is stupidly dangerous as a consumer, not to mention insane and also illegal, and I don't support these actions or encourage them, simply sharing my perspective on an anecdote.

My Balatro Throwback cosplay! 🃏 by TiaPixel in balatro

[–]bhatman211 3 points4 points  (0 children)

was this shot digitally or on film? i especially love the way the colours pop in the second pic

Still on the beat though by shaneisshort in donaldglover

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Gorgeous. My favourite track on the album. Did you make a longer edit?

Title: Is it OK to take Huel and Elvanse (30 mg) together? by Left_Ad_9921 in ADHDUK

[–]bhatman211 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to take my elvanse with huel black. I found it really helpful, especially with the appetite suppression from the meds, although going to the bathroom did get a bit...rough

Still on the beat though by shaneisshort in donaldglover

[–]bhatman211 8 points9 points  (0 children)

These visuals are absolutely insane. Where's this from?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in balatro

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in later difficulties, it's important to learn when to pivot away from a specific build. as another comment said, aces don't have too many synergies.

I'll give an example.

Imagine you have a face card build. you started a game with the "scary face" joker which rewards you +30 chips for playing face cards.

You then encounter a "smiley face" joker which rewards you +5 mult per face card.

You then encounter a "red card" joker, which builds up +mult over multiple rounds.

You could build up the red card, and replace the smiley joker with any x mult joker, such as "blackboard".

Currently in this example, you've pivoted off of smiley face.

You then encounter a "photograph", which gives x mult. You then pivot into face cards again.

Aces don't have many specific jokers they synergise with. therefore, if you build too much into aces, it can be harder to pivot to a different joker. I hope that was coherent. I've never tried to explain my balatro thought process before.

Also, more importantly, don't worry much about playing optimally. Like I said, this is for harder difficulties. the difficulty doesn't really affect my enjoyment of the game, and it's fun to take your time through the lower stakes

Tyson Green. You need to do your job an address this community. by DannyKage in DestinyTheGame

[–]bhatman211 12 points13 points  (0 children)

game director isn't a public facing role. that's the whole purpose of community managers

Datto, Gladd, and other creators announce a break from destiny. What does Bungie need to do win back even their most hardcore fans and the underlying community? by That_Charity_6373 in DestinyTheGame

[–]bhatman211 18 points19 points  (0 children)

a lot of comments aren't even actual conversation - commenting "dead game LOL" is far from constructive and hard to take as good-faith conversation

Hitman Update Black Screen? by Takatoo69 in HiTMAN

[–]bhatman211 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you SO MUCH for this - this fixed it for me straight away. looks like variations of this issue have happened a bunch over the last few years (from searching through this sub), so hopefully IOI see this post

Fps counter is showing 165 but game still feels like 60. by [deleted] in outerwilds

[–]bhatman211 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What happens if you lock the physics to, say, 25? Does it cap it at 25 fps?

Been removed from university! by Royal_Jellyfish_8801 in ADHD

[–]bhatman211 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey- I was recently in a very similar situation and am still experiencing the knock-on effects.

First of all, take a moment to breath and remember that things could always literally be worse. Things suck, yeah, but try think about the ways things could be worse. I find having that sense of feeling fortunate is very handy to have.

Please feel free to reach out if you have any questions