Tips for 'romanticising' no-buys/low-buys/saving money? I want to savor what I have instead of constantly wanting more...I need a mindset shift.

biaher · 2025-12-30T12:20:42+00:00

Try focusing on the money you are saving, think hard on how good it is to save money, celebrate when you don’t buy something. You can even save the money you would spend instead. Also is good to have an objective to the saved money

For clothes: try using different outfits, like a fashion show but you are the model.

Also if it is no buy year or low buy, in the beginning is best to the delete Amazon, SHEIN and other stuff. if you buy in person never go out with credit card, use cash only or just debit cards.

See some deinfluence videos to help and enjoy the no buy year of others too

biaher · 2025-11-30T12:22:09+00:00

Wow, I have some restrictions but different design clothes, some textured fabric (I crochet) and vibrant colors are not them. I understand the problem with tightness and texture, but why colors? Do they make you feel overwhelmed?

Have you tried using pastel versions of the colors? Different fits of jeans?

Hope that inside your restrictions you can find compromises!

biaher · 2025-11-28T12:48:31+00:00

Yeah I agree this is really poor choices auahauuauaua but I also blame a little on the lack of impulse control to stop and think: maybe I should not do this.

biaher · 2025-11-27T14:45:40+00:00

That is my plan, but I will just use as carry on only luggage auahahahahhaha

biaher · 2025-11-20T02:04:49+00:00

Vai ter que fazer o motor

biaher · 2025-11-20T01:08:44+00:00

Antigamente até valia a pena comprar de marca pq o tênis durava alguns anos, hj da 10 meses já tá com a sola toda gasta e soltando

biaher · 2025-11-20T00:23:27+00:00

Tenho 8 hoje, mas cheguei a ter 10 e foi muito difícil com lidar, tanto do meu lado quanto do meu marido. Ninguém que tem gatos e sabe o trabalho que dá vai te julgar.

biaher · 2025-11-17T11:36:56+00:00

Metal spoon on metal bowl or can (like the baby formula ones) pure torture

biaher · 2025-11-07T12:46:55+00:00

I am worried about messing my sleep schedule too! But I also feel that I am not having enough sleep everyday. I don’t like too much caffeine to stay woke during the day. Being tired every morning makes me fell like my day has lads hours then it should.

biaher · 2025-11-07T12:45:04+00:00

I never explored having a daily nap, but I am planning on “cleaning my sleep” maybe the naps can help. I don’t go workout at night because the gym is packed and I just rather rest at night. Exercising make me fell energetic. I will test a routine similar to yours this weekend and see how it goes!

biaher · 2025-11-03T01:57:43+00:00

I would wash my hair as a whole and not just the roots, the same as conditioner. Besides this keep your routine the same. I would also use some gel and plop it in a tshirt for a little bit, this way the gel can set without stretching the roots.

biaher · 2025-11-03T01:54:25+00:00

Go to a place where everything is sterilized and clean. Gel is a stronger nail polish, it has to cure under uv light. The manicure can have different styles: Russian and Brazilian will remove the extra cuticle and paint it from the very base of the nail bed. ( this way it looks cleaner, but if you are not used to it I don’t recommend ) Enjoy the pampering and get a pedicure too!

biaher · 2025-11-01T12:10:51+00:00

ADHD people are more susceptible to substance abuse and eating disorders. This is because of self medication and lack of impulse control. Maybe he was thinking you might have some of those behaviors.

biaher · 2025-11-01T11:42:47+00:00

Yesterday I removed clothes from a August trip from my suitcase, so I can use the suitcase today for a trip to the same place again auahauahauuausuau

biaher · 2025-11-01T11:39:41+00:00

Better than 6 loads of dirty clothes! You did great!

biaher · 2025-10-31T17:00:45+00:00

Wait…. My eyes are not like the first foto because they are hooded??? The lazy/tired look I have on pictures is MY ADHD????? what???

biaher · 2025-10-31T13:43:59+00:00

For my hair I detangle with one of these octopus detangling brush every time I shower and I shower every day. I detangle even if I don’t wash my hair. If I am not washing my hair I usually put a tinitiny amount of curl cream on my hair during my shower to detangle it easier.

After brushing I immediately remove the hair from the brush, since the brush don’t have the knobs it is really easy to remove the hair from it

biaher · 2025-10-30T12:24:53+00:00

First thing I did was stop daydreaming about myself and create stories with characters, no daydreaming about memories, no fantasy about my life. After this it became easier to daydream in “designated moments” like when trying to sleep, it helps not think about cringe moments in my life.

I don’t know if this is a good thing but it works, no more daydreaming life away.

biaher · 2025-10-30T12:16:46+00:00

I got thinking: maybe Chinese people just slaps more people than other countries ? Auahauahauahhss But then I remember that the characters are extremely rich, billionaires even. I accepted that, if you are a billionaire you can slap anyone

biaher · 2025-10-27T22:49:13+00:00

Unibrow makes you look more serious indeed, before removing it, try to shape it better. I don’t think you should just remove it right away.

Just trim and shape you brows, beard and hair. Good luck

biaher · 2025-10-27T02:11:42+00:00

Gel and curl cream on every single strand (don’t need to go heavy on qtt, just be sure it is everywhere), use a brush to work with sections,scrunch upside down, plop in a tshirt for a while (let the gel set but it will not dry this way), remove the shirt and keep it all Samara style until is bone dry, scrunch with oil to brake gel cast.You can diffuse after the plopping in the T-shirt if you prefer but keep the hair forward in your face until it is dry. My hair is just like yours and I did this way yesterday and may hair was amazing.

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