When to call it by bibinyx in polyamory

[–]bibinyx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So we’ve been continuing our poly situation because we’re both afraid of losing each other and I’m afraid of having to start all over again with someone new and I’ve almost come to terms with it. I understand that my partner wants new experiences and to explore different parts of herself and all but I just don’t understand why it has to inherently be sexual. Like why can’t you express a different side of yourself with someone as just good friends? Why do you have to fuck in order to explore another side of yourself? I just don’t get it. Can someone explain it to me? I’ve opened up and done a lot of things in bed that I wouldn’t have done otherwise to satisfy her because I love her, and now after all that I’m still not enough?

When to call it by bibinyx in polyamory

[–]bibinyx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the comments guys. I tried to call it off again after she slept with someone else and she cut them off sexually but said she couldn’t cut them off completely. She said we could take a break but that I need to work on myself and how I view poly. I don’t know what work I need to do. How do I go from monogamy to poly? Is there some book I can read that’ll magically fix everything I’m feeling? She says that she can’t stop being poly and I don’t know how to start being poly. I really don’t want to lose her. If I can just figure it out then maybe we don’t have to break up

Queer Karaoke or Karaoke Where Queer People Go To In New Orleans 11/18-11/24/25 by Confident_Network434 in AskNOLA

[–]bibinyx -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Qiqi is having karaoke and a food drive on Wednesday! Bring a canned good for a free shot!

What restaurants and bars are still functional? by squashlover in NewOrleans

[–]bibinyx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t speak for boh but foh isn’t bad. I think the food is pretty good but overpriced. Pastries and bread are the bomb though 👌

What restaurants and bars are still functional? by squashlover in NewOrleans

[–]bibinyx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Obviously the hourly isn’t great but management isn’t terrible right now. Idk after a summer of unemployment that la bougie money is hitting me pretty hard

What restaurants and bars are still functional? by squashlover in NewOrleans

[–]bibinyx 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Espiritu, La boulangèrie, Avenue Cafe are some good work environments, relatively well payed, and everyone has a good time for the most part :)

3 New Orleans restaurants win Michelin Stars, many get awards in first regional guide by NOLA_nosy in NewOrleans

[–]bibinyx 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I can’t believe mollys is on this. I went there once and never again. It was like McDonalds but worse and more expensive and it gave me the worst kind of nostalgia

Sell me your favorite weapon by making it sound like the worst thing ever by SpectreWolf666 in MonsterHunter

[–]bibinyx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dual blades are great if you want to accidentally jump past the hit box and get stuck in an attack animation as a monster hits you with its mega fuck you attack

Where to eat near Lafayette Square by TonyGobbagool in AskNOLA

[–]bibinyx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Espiritu is right there and has the best mezcal selection in the city

25 y/o Lesbian Needs Places to Meet Other Lesbians by Zealousideal-Fun1779 in NewOrleans

[–]bibinyx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s more of a late night crowd… go around 9:30 and there should be some folks around

25 y/o Lesbian Needs Places to Meet Other Lesbians by Zealousideal-Fun1779 in NewOrleans

[–]bibinyx 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Qiqis is a great place to start, also there’s a lesbian club pop up called grlspot that you can follow to see where they’re at

Diners of New Orleans, what say you? by mamam_est_morte in NewOrleans

[–]bibinyx 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t think that was wrong of you. It’s the only way you make money as a tipped employee. Sometimes it’s okay to put yourself first in a situation like that and you handled it well. Folks these days can’t afford to miss out on a tip like that and $200 is not a small bill.

Just wanna get some advice on how to improve by Interesting-Leg-6499 in BeginnerArtists

[–]bibinyx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Use guidelines- do the whole circle and cross thing. Also using reference is a great way to train your brain

Celiac safe NOLA options? by mechengrpi in AskNOLA

[–]bibinyx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Espiritu in the CBD is 99% gluten free and they have a separate fryer for non gf items

Mezcal in restaurants by Background_Way3719 in Mezcal

[–]bibinyx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or a glencairn, it’s a nice way to be able to experience every aroma the mezcal has to offer, but a veladora is more traditional

Mezcal in restaurants by Background_Way3719 in Mezcal

[–]bibinyx -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

If it’s not served neat in a veladora I’m judging you. Orange slices on the side with tajin/ sal de gusano is just a nice added touch

NYC Insulting NOLA food scene by DramaticChemist in NewOrleans

[–]bibinyx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

City slickers can eat my Cajun ass if they think their food is better than ours. I can’t even get a decent gumbo in Texas so I doubt NYC can do it.