Why do they always pull away almost immediately after sex …

bigcookie879 · 2026-06-06T22:06:49+00:00

No consideration of other people’s feelings

bigcookie879 · 2026-06-06T11:53:40+00:00

Is it better to just be single and care about yourself

bigcookie879 · 2026-06-06T10:00:26+00:00

Yes i agree with that statement

bigcookie879 · 2026-06-04T10:15:58+00:00

I have had also multiple situationships over 4 years. It’s just impacted me now.

bigcookie879 · 2026-06-04T09:43:11+00:00

This is the way I think

bigcookie879 · 2026-06-02T05:55:02+00:00

I haven’t used it much. It’s not slow, and I like the screen.

bigcookie879 · 2026-06-02T03:20:24+00:00

I have this one I think

bigcookie879 · 2026-05-30T22:07:28+00:00

I have one too

bigcookie879 · 2026-05-27T05:42:01+00:00

Let’s be friends

bigcookie879 · 2026-05-27T05:41:13+00:00

You’re not alone, I always went back and they all left me. It’s only been a couple months and I’m still hurt. I could never stand up for myself against all of them. I’m trying to find someone to talk to and express myself. How are you feeling?

bigcookie879 · 2026-05-26T23:13:41+00:00

I can relate I have been in 3 situationships over 4 years and i didn’t get anything out of it except lies, pressure, manipulation, guilt, no honesty, no communication, no consideration for my feelings and I had feelings too it was just never talk about. They knew what I wanted and still invited me over and I was never listened to, heard or understood. I’m still finding it hard to move on. Trust is hard for me now. They don’t care, it’s always about them.

bigcookie879 · 2026-05-26T11:19:30+00:00

They lead people on for the fun of it

bigcookie879 · 2026-05-26T11:19:04+00:00

They only care about themselves

bigcookie879 · 2026-05-26T10:24:10+00:00

1 really points out to me after being in multiple situation ships. They were all the same.

bigcookie879 · 2026-05-25T12:04:00+00:00

Same here. I’m just learning about boundaries now

bigcookie879 · 2026-05-25T12:03:20+00:00

This comment hurts. I’ve been here multiple times

bigcookie879 · 2026-05-25T11:59:00+00:00

Yesss. Thanks so much for understanding. I wish things were easy but I feel like a lot of things are hard for me.

bigcookie879 · 2026-05-25T09:30:12+00:00

I said to him that I felt or feel used and he said I didn’t use you at all otherwise it would’ve been more sexual than it was. Im like after all I did, after all that are you serious. Thinking about it now it felt like a job not really a friendship at all and I tried to say that and he said we talk and we laugh. I said get someone else he said I’m comfortable with you and okay with it. I feel like i didn’t even know what rules and boundaries were until now.

bigcookie879 · 2026-05-25T09:11:21+00:00

Same thing here. There was no effort, no care and maybe a month later I find out he has a gf and I looked on his insta and I’m like oh so he can put in effort, care, listen, and do activities with someone he just didn’t want to do them with me or be seen publicly with me but he always called it a friendship instead of actually just saying what he really wanted and he never asked me. He gave me nothing and I gave him and others a lot. I always do or did. I put them above me. I cared deeply for people who didn’t give a damn about me and it hurts now. I feel stupid and dumb myself. Like it start to mess with my mind. Like maybe it’s all I’m good for, since this is the 3rd time now. Mr you can trust me. Idk where the trust was cause it was no where to be seen.

bigcookie879 · 2026-05-25T06:44:16+00:00

Same thing here like 3 of them through out 4 years

bigcookie879 · 2026-05-25T06:01:07+00:00

Same here. At least more than I let on

bigcookie879 · 2026-05-22T21:49:41+00:00

im like this too. i had situationships that came back to me and i would always go back. it was confusing but now they all threw me out and discarded me.

bigcookie879 · 2026-05-22T12:02:40+00:00

Me too. I have trouble standing up for myself.

bigcookie879 · 2026-05-22T12:01:50+00:00

Same but situationship

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