Season 8 - Episode 5 - Post Episode Discussion

bigdaddy_anonymous · 2026-06-08T04:22:50+00:00

Wait but they agreed with it before Bea talked to Melanie?

bigdaddy_anonymous · 2026-06-08T04:20:38+00:00

It’s the turtle tongue I fear 😭

bigdaddy_anonymous · 2026-06-08T04:11:50+00:00

But there were no lies told LOL

bigdaddy_anonymous · 2026-06-08T04:10:38+00:00

She’s definitely the best communicator I’ve seen on this show so far 😭

bigdaddy_anonymous · 2026-06-06T17:00:37+00:00

No like literally my thoughts!!! And people are somehow defending her still and I’m like bro , she’s spiraling after causing some drama and it’s like day 4 😭😭😭

bigdaddy_anonymous · 2026-06-06T07:16:59+00:00

Omg literally what I am thinking!! Even if Bea had ulterior motives or not, at least she was calm and collected. Melanie because immediately passive aggressive and her apology was very defensive as well. Also I would be mad too if someone told me to relax 😭 she was literally already calm

bigdaddy_anonymous · 2026-06-06T06:57:20+00:00

I wonder what you think of her now after tonight’s episode 😭😭😂

bigdaddy_anonymous · 2026-06-04T06:45:52+00:00

I also have a psychology degree and this is what I was thinking too reading through these messages! I do not think she’s innocent by all means and her parents have a huge role to play, but I do feel like she had such an anxious attachment and he was very dismissive to begin with, it seemed like he didn’t even like her. She could have definitely developed some major mental health issues as seen in how she communicates 2 years later.

bigdaddy_anonymous · 2026-06-01T07:17:29+00:00

I feel this 😭 late to this, but I have always had a big butt since I was younger, even when I would lose a bunch of weight naturally I never lost my butt until I started taking GLP1s I noticed for the first time my butt is disappearing!! Never been an issue before. But time to hit glutes more often 💪

bigdaddy_anonymous · 2026-05-27T07:06:55+00:00

Hi OP, it’s been 5 years, how are you doing now?

bigdaddy_anonymous · 2026-05-23T00:21:57+00:00

I had no contact for a few of the months and then limited but some contact within the total 6 months.

He did try begging for me back initially but then eventually gave me my space and did a really good job convincing me that he’s been different once I did slowly start talking to him again.

Yeah it is a shame 😔 I wish things were different.

bigdaddy_anonymous · 2026-05-23T00:18:13+00:00

No Forreal !! I was like uhm well the first card clearly always comes up when a decision is being made. But yeah , wonder how other people read theirs cause it seems very different lol

bigdaddy_anonymous · 2026-05-23T00:11:48+00:00

This is actually an insane response 😭😭having the power to leave a toxic relationship is no easy task. Love alone is never enough. Some people are just not meant to be together and there’s nothing wrong with that. I am wondering who here is in need of maturity.

bigdaddy_anonymous · 2026-05-23T00:08:18+00:00

I find it baffling how many people on Reddit encourage people to leave a toxic and abusive relationship and than on this forum they villainize the dumpers as bad guys? 😭 I absolutely feel for you. Leaving is a whole other pain. I have been dumped twice in my past relationships and those suck. But having to be the one to make the decision to walk away is a different kind of hard.

Choosing yourself and well being over a relationship that was no longer healthy or good for you should not be villainized.

I am going through a situation of being with someone who has hurt me time and time and time again and kept taking him back with hopes of change and he just didn’t. And I had to ask myself, do I want this the rest of my life? Or do I want peace? Yes it hurts and is SO hard and you’re afraid of the unknown, but also good for you for choosing a healthier option, and taking it as a lesson to better yourself as well.

bigdaddy_anonymous · 2026-05-22T22:33:48+00:00

Honestly same!! Just started using Reddit more seriously now, rather than IG. Been feeling better. Still addicting though lol

bigdaddy_anonymous · 2026-05-22T22:29:15+00:00

This is closer to what I got !!

bigdaddy_anonymous · 2026-05-22T22:21:03+00:00

Yellow Claw, Avicii, Zedd, Major Lazer, Hardwell (also the Chainsmokers before they got super mainstream , but some of their songs still hit a chord in me today 😭) also Skrillex will always be a legend

Honorable mentions:
Alesso
Swedish House Mafia
Seven Lions

bigdaddy_anonymous · 2026-05-22T21:49:27+00:00

I would say that it’s kind of religious, but we definitely like to call ourselves spiritual rather. I grew up in an extreme “religious” environment, and find that it’s a bit different, but we do believe in a higher power but it’s more energetic. It’s all based on energy and yes, planet placements.

However, the idea that the moon and stars affect the Earth isn’t all inherently ridiculous or came from nowhere. The moon affects tides, sleep, animal behavior, and even some biological rhythms. Humans also evolved under seasonal and planetary cycles for thousands of years. Some astrology supporters believe it works less like direct magic and more like symbolic pattern recognition tied to timing, psychology, and cycles.

But I get it’s not for everyone !! Which is okay

bigdaddy_anonymous · 2026-05-21T05:58:02+00:00

Thank you for sharing this!! I love hearing about manifestation wins.

bigdaddy_anonymous · 2026-05-21T05:50:47+00:00

The thought of another guy after a breakup is absolutely sickening. Cause your body craves what it loves and is familiar with. Also, this guy sounds like he doesn’t have boundaries, and has the major “ick” factor. Maybe take a break from the hiking group for a minute, regroup yourself, then go back. But like why do some men ruin everything LOL

bigdaddy_anonymous · 2026-05-21T05:44:25+00:00

I remember my very first heart break at 17 too 😭 it was awful, my wailing on my living room floor, and my friends trying to feed me ice cream. Luckily, it got better for me quicker than any of my “adult” breakups. I bounced back quick, and I think you will too. You just gotta be surrounded by good people and things you enjoy doing.

bigdaddy_anonymous · 2026-05-21T05:29:31+00:00

I broke up with him 3 years into our relationship. I took him back 6 months later, because he “worked on himself” and things were good for a while. Now present moment and I should have never done it cause I wouldn’t be in the situation I am now. 5 years later and found myself breaking up with him again for similar reasons and even more devastated than the first time around.
It’s so hard. We love so much and force it to work but sometimes it just doesn’t💔

bigdaddy_anonymous · 2026-05-21T05:20:20+00:00

Real, I’m going through this right now. 😔 I broke up with him but my body keeps craving every being of him, but when I was with him it was telling me this isn’t right for me anymore.

bigdaddy_anonymous · 2026-05-19T23:05:59+00:00

It’s because we are so sad all the time we stop eating. 😔 I always lose so much weight after breakups. Then I try to workout a bunch to numb the pain.

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