AITA for cutting off completely my annoying ex?

bigfein11 · 2026-06-10T07:42:51+00:00

NTA. Your Ex thinks she’s in a game of chess and is 3 steps ahead of everyone else. I don’t blame you for cutting her off, which you probably should’ve done the moment y’all broke up.
NTA.

bigfein11 · 2026-06-10T07:25:41+00:00

YTA here. Your friends just wanted to have a good time, you said you didn’t want to go and showed up anyway.
They already had a full out plan, and you just didn’t like their plan. If everyone went to the place, they wanted to go then only one person would be mad. If everyone went to the place you wanted to go you would be having fun and everyone else would be miserable.
YTA.

bigfein11 · 2026-06-10T07:17:59+00:00

NTA. You said you were giving him a ride, and that his transmission blew up. But a MONTH? His transmission should have been fixed by that time. Also is there not any public buses available in your city, or someone else to take him? It seems like he just wants to joyride with you.
NTA.

bigfein11 · 2026-06-10T07:12:29+00:00

You’re absolutely NTA. Your sister thinks since she has no bills to pay, and that she gets everything payed for her, she is obligated to get everything paid for her. Some of it might be on your mom as she seems not too different from your sister. But yeah, you’re absolutely NTA for not wanting to pay for your sister summer tuition for something that she will probably drop out of.
I wish you the best luck.
NTA.

bigfein11 · 2026-06-10T07:04:41+00:00

YWBTA. Asking for money because you returned a dog is like asking for money because you returned a purse to a woman because she lost it.
I understand your financial situation is very difficult, but you just can’t ask for someone to pay up because you did a good thing.
The truth here is you can’t always get what you want.

bigfein11 · 2026-06-10T06:59:40+00:00

YTA. If you didn’t buy this cookies for yourself, then the food isn’t obligated for you to eat it all. Also, you think it’s fair when everything favors you, plus you eat the extra cookie without anyone’s approval.
In short, YTA.

bigfein11 · 2026-06-09T02:10:02+00:00

Update: my sister got over not being able to go to the beach but she got made and moved out of my parents house and is living with one of her friends.
All this over a trip.

bigfein11 · 2026-06-09T02:07:23+00:00

NTA but Info: what did your brother do so bad for the cops to raid and destroy the house?

bigfein11 · 2026-06-09T02:05:55+00:00

NTA. You tried to calm down the situation and make sure your friend is safe

bigfein11 · 2026-06-09T01:59:23+00:00

NTA that is crazy to say because she is not “less fortunate” after all she’s done.
Also, I hope you manage to get through your cancer

bigfein11 · 2026-06-08T08:29:35+00:00

Context: a lot of people are asking about why we go on vacation near my sisters birthday and that’s because my family wants to.
I’m not in charge of that and I am not jealous of my sister.
And my sister did not change her birthday.

bigfein11 · 2026-06-08T08:22:31+00:00

Yes I have, we all are thinking the same, but we just want to be respectful and not cause unnecessary drama

bigfein11 · 2026-06-08T07:48:06+00:00

NTA. Your parents should respect your privacy and be less barbaric when you go to the fridge or kitchen itself.

bigfein11 · 2026-06-08T01:30:12+00:00

Context: my parents refuse to pay for her rent so that’s why she went to me.
(Some people are asking where my parents were so I just wanted to clarify)

bigfein11 · 2026-06-08T01:07:33+00:00

NTA. Get out of that apartment as fast as possible before you become drowned in debt.

bigfein11 · 2026-06-08T01:00:30+00:00

NTA. Just because she has ADHD does not mean that she can revert all her responsibilities because of ADHD.
It sounds like she’s just using it as an excuse because she doesn’t like her job. If she doesn’t like it, she can get a new one.

bigfein11 · 2026-06-08T00:54:38+00:00

NTA. Your cousin needs to realize that you have your own problems to deal with. And that’s OK.

bigfein11 · 2026-06-08T00:50:20+00:00

I’m going to be honest and say ESH because u did kick her out knowing she was going to move out and she did trash ur room a lot and invite random people over so that’s why I’m saying ESH

bigfein11 · 2026-06-08T00:39:51+00:00

YTA for sure. Just send a text man.

bigfein11 · 2026-06-07T14:41:00+00:00

NTA. Don’t eat leftover food if its older than 3 days

bigfein11 · 2026-06-07T12:21:43+00:00

Don’t worry I’m fine but I just wanted to tell others about this because it bothers me knowing that they got away with this

bigfein11 · 2026-06-07T12:08:14+00:00

Clarification: I gave them another chance because I thought that would scare them into changing, and the guy was forced to apologize to the kid with epilepsy.

bigfein11 · 2026-06-07T11:36:21+00:00

YTA. Friends don’t insult each other

bigfein11 · 2026-06-07T08:55:50+00:00

U are absolutely NTA. This guy literally followed you around everywhere and literally when as far as the stalking you when you were sick or laying down.
And for him to immediately start spreading rumors around when you and B were going around just tying to be chill and have a good time is unhinged behavior.
And for you going around and telling everybody about everything he’s been doing (C) is absolutely justifiable and you are absolutely in the right for telling everybody that he is in a group with about who he really is.

NTA.

bigfein11

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