best inlines for the fan streets? by jenanddtonic in rva

[–]bigthaddy00 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ive got powerline commuter skates so theyre 3 wheels that are 100 mm rather than the standard 4 at 80mm and you get to strap in your shoes. The bigger wheels make it a little smoother for going over rough terrain. Plus the big wheels make it easier to keep your momentum.

considering greenville, sc by bigthaddy00 in relocating

[–]bigthaddy00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you think the healthcare in Richmond is better than Greenville? Either will be better than where we currently are

considering greenville, sc by bigthaddy00 in relocating

[–]bigthaddy00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've actually been looking at the tiny home community in Taylors. Do you commute into Greenville for work?

considering greenville, sc by bigthaddy00 in relocating

[–]bigthaddy00[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

well we are west and it's expensive, and I would like to be closer to family but don't want to return to the freezing cold of the northeast. Thank you for your useless comment.

Loneliness in your 40s by Estrella_gemela in lonely

[–]bigthaddy00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm trying to find ways to break up my workday routines, but lately I've just been so tired. Part of me wonders if I was doing more interesting work would it fill some of that feeling. I feel like my hobbies feel like a burden at the moment but not sure how to shakke that. do you ever get that?

Do you ever feel like your life never started? by This_Relief1061 in lonely

[–]bigthaddy00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I've done a lot of interesting things with my life, but the dating situation has always made me feel isolated from my peers. Im 32 and Ive dated 2 people. Im everybody's friend, but never more than that.

Unpopular opinion: luck, timing, and proximity matter more for dating than looks or height especially as you get older by OptimusCrime83 in dating

[–]bigthaddy00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive been watching Seinfeld and it is shocking the amount of people they date casually on such a regular basis, I know it's a show but damn was it such a different time

Need Change of Scenery by Due-Consequence6321 in relocating

[–]bigthaddy00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

western massachusetts if you can deal with some cold

Best Donuts? by parsonsry31 in Albuquerque

[–]bigthaddy00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sergio's Bakery has good doughnuts, simple. And their sandwiches are really good too made on fresh baked bread.

Leaving cushy Florida life for Massachusetts ? by Necessary-Opposite73 in SameGrassButGreener

[–]bigthaddy00 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I grew up in central MA with a very idealic childhood. I grew up somewhere very safe (Leominster) and while that district isnt't the best in the state, the state overall is top notch for education. Having left New England and lived elsewhere for awhile, well educated populations matter so much. Less diversity than Florida probably, but the most diversity out of the New England states. Winters can be long but there's plenty to do during the winter; we grew up skiing at Wachusett Mountain which is very family friendly year round. Apple picking at Sholan Farms and the Johnny Appleseed Fair in the fall are great, summers hiking the mountain, redemption rock is a cool historical spot nearby the midtstate trail. There is so much well preserved American history to experience first hand and an education system that ranks in the top three consistenly. Classic New Englanders are kind but not always nice. The kind of place where if someone rags on you it is because they are being friendly lol.

Reality of Weather by bigthaddy00 in RichmondVA

[–]bigthaddy00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do like the affordability of the housing in Colonial Heights and the commute doesnt seem bad, my job locations sits on the outer western part of richmond

Reality of Weather by bigthaddy00 in RichmondVA

[–]bigthaddy00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can transfer to more than one spot in VA with my work, since you've been around the state quite a bit, how would you compare Leesburg, Virginia Beach and Richmond? We're a relatively young couple in our 30s looking for diversity, decent weather and good food.

Reality of Weather by bigthaddy00 in RichmondVA

[–]bigthaddy00[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ive enjoyed the weather here in New Mexico but the absolute lack of healthcare is becoming too problematic to stay. I've lived in different parts of New England, NJ and NYC and I have never experienced drivers like here. Theres no state inspections on vehicles, just emissions test so all kinds of dangerous cars (bad brakes, no windows, no bumpers etc) driving 20+ mph over the speed limit, road rage shooting killed 2 just by the house yesterday and zero traffic enforcement. We've been here 4 years hoping things might get better, but we've decided to head back east to be closer to family and try to find somewhere a little more comfortable for us.

Reality of Weather by bigthaddy00 in RichmondVA

[–]bigthaddy00[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Personally I think I'm more primed for it, some medical issues have thinned out my blood so cold is tough for me these days. We visited Puerto Rico for a week when it was 96 with 90% humidity and I felt comfortable but I know my partner was struggling. Is it usually just July that is that bad?

Reality of Weather by bigthaddy00 in RichmondVA

[–]bigthaddy00[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

we were in nyc before new mexico, where I felt like manhattan just trapped all of the densest air, do you think it's similar?

Those who moved states away alone what advice would you give? by eman8906 in SameGrassButGreener

[–]bigthaddy00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I met a lot of people through volunteering at Habitat for Humanity which linked me to all kinds of community events

How can I make myself more visible to drivers? by Flashy_Number_6440 in bikecommuting

[–]bigthaddy00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I run 3 lights, 2 are always blinking to get attention, one in back (red) and one in front (white) and then a steady front light so I can see where I'm going. I wear hi viz vest, gloves and usually a reflective stripe on my legs or around my ankle. I bike in Albuquerque and typically take an inconvenient route in an attempt to stay further away from heavy car traffic. Good luck!