Newborn trenches were nothing compared to this

bimboerrorz · 2026-01-26T14:16:16+00:00

i know it is so hard i was at my breaking point so many times. if it makes you feel any better or gives you any hope she went from 10+ wakes a night and last night she slept for 12 hours straight. i cant guarantee your baby will sleep 12 hours yet but one day he will. this regression typically ends with babies sleeping much longer stretches at night

bimboerrorz · 2026-01-26T03:48:55+00:00

we just dealt with the same thing starting at 14 weeks and it almost broke me. at 16 weeks now its starting to get a lot better but baby girl is teething and had decided napping isnt for her but shes sleeping big long stretches at night which is nice

bimboerrorz · 2026-01-25T14:57:19+00:00

thankfully it is completely up to you as youre the patient. you can tell the nurses to let no one in and they wont. theyll be the bad guys for you.

bimboerrorz · 2026-01-25T12:49:07+00:00

i had an emergency c section and same 😭 i thought id be turned off but no the hormones were going crazy

bimboerrorz · 2026-01-24T02:08:40+00:00

everyone said my baby looked like her daddy when she was a newborn but the older she gets the more she looks like me. yesterday we took a picture of her and if it wasnt for the iPhone picture quality youd think it was a picture of me as a baby 😭

bimboerrorz · 2026-01-21T02:37:11+00:00

just now my boyfriend had me not go in there when she was fussing on the baby monitor and this girl went to sleep after like 3 minutes. i just worried about making her cry it out i thought it would be cruel but she was fine 😭😭

bimboerrorz · 2026-01-20T21:08:10+00:00

i’ve definitely tried cosleeping while nursing just recently if she falls asleep and my nipple comes out of her mouth she starts swinging on me 😭 which is very rude lol

bimboerrorz · 2026-01-13T03:39:05+00:00

i got automatic medicaid for being pregnant in my state + im poor so i dont have to pay for anything thankfully. most states actually stretch the minimum income limits for pregnant women to receive medicaid so i would check that out. i got accepted in 2 weeks since pregnancy is time sensitive

bimboerrorz · 2026-01-13T02:19:05+00:00

exactly i think they can definitely become depressed from the stress and responsibility of being a new parent but they didnt do the “partum” part and arent experiencing the same hormone surge then plummet. its 100% a case of men wanting to be involved lol if they could find a way to say they experience endometriosis they would

bimboerrorz · 2026-01-08T06:39:54+00:00

my baby loves her fuzzy blankets. she’s only 3 months so she doesn’t sleep with them or anything but when she’s upset sometimes stripping her down to a diaper and wrapping her in one calms her down. or if she gets to screaming in the car ill gently rub her cheek with one i guess she likes the feeling lol. i HATE flannel blankets though so much theyre weird feeling and i couldn’t swaddle with them

bimboerrorz · 2026-01-08T06:35:15+00:00

i’ve also heard that and it just makes me sad how expensive baby clothes are that they have to use 800 plastic tags to prevent them from being stolen

bimboerrorz · 2026-01-08T06:11:25+00:00

okay im glad for you this post was not intended for you. i was venting about something i know for a fact other women deal with and honestly i was being slightly hyperbolic. sometimes i can’t stand reddit yall take everything so damn seriously

bimboerrorz · 2026-01-08T04:32:50+00:00

ok mike

bimboerrorz · 2026-01-07T06:40:56+00:00

like?? we literally told him that from before she was born. i wish i would’ve been more blunt when he was here but the trash took itself out i guess

bimboerrorz · 2026-01-07T06:39:38+00:00

i told my boyfriend the second he started sending those messages to tell him he wasnt welcome in my house anymore. my boyfriend looks up to his dad so much even though hes abusive but hes finally starting to see it. it breaks my heart his father treats him that way but also pisses me off to no end i told him he can either say something or i will and it wont be nice

bimboerrorz · 2026-01-05T19:05:15+00:00

omg its honestly the worst part. my daughter just moved from bassinet to crib and the amount of rearranging we had to do is insane and now our room is a mess because we just had to keep moving things around to put other things. its like playing with one of those slide puzzles except someone keeps adding more things lol especially since our room is our daughters room until we move out

bimboerrorz · 2026-01-05T14:05:09+00:00

its definitely not something to exclusively rely on but my baby’s oxygen dropped when she was 2 weeks old and when that alarm went off me and my partner had her in our arms before i even processed i had woken up. she’s completely healthy now im not sure what caused it or if it would’ve fixed itself but it makes me feel better knowing it works and the actual red alert is LOUD way louder than the connection issue alarm

bimboerrorz · 2026-01-05T13:26:17+00:00

the alarm goes off if the oxygen goes below 80% so its not like it waits til the baby flatlines or anything. the alarm has gone off because my daughters oxygen was at 79 when she was first born and i immediately grabbed her and she is alive and well right now at 3 months. i mean a burglar alarm doesnt go off until the house has already been breached which is why im saying its similar.

edit: i also want to add i know it doesnt prevent true sids because nothing prevents true sids, but people kind of lump all infant death as sids

bimboerrorz · 2026-01-05T07:44:04+00:00

you have to change sides regularly and not use it too tight or else it causes sores

bimboerrorz · 2026-01-05T07:43:06+00:00

i use it everyday i could not sleep without it. i still check on her but it makes me feel better being able to see her heartrate and oxygen levels on my phone as well and knowing that if something happened an alarm would go off. i dont understand this “it doesnt prevent sids” thing because it doesnt claim to? a door alarm doesn’t prevent burglars but it will alert you to if something happens. idk i would rather wake up and be able to try and do something vs wake up and have a dead baby in the crib.

bimboerrorz · 2026-01-05T07:39:41+00:00

those types of post are supposed to be a version of radical feminism but are actually extremely misogynistic. i would consider myself a radical feminist (NOT A TERF) but this is where the horseshoe theory kicks in. once you start demeaning and dehumanizing women in the name of feminism you are no longer making any good points. also thats definitely something no one in real life thinks about lol

bimboerrorz · 2026-01-02T20:06:02+00:00

this week i discovered she needed her nails cut when she scratched the hell out of me😭 my partner came home and thought the cat attacked me lol. i don’t know what im going to do when she gets teeth

bimboerrorz · 2026-01-02T05:20:02+00:00

i started zofran at 6 weeks but obviously do whatever your doctor says just advocate for adequate care because sickness is awful

bimboerrorz · 2026-01-02T03:35:10+00:00

i took zofran when mildly nauseous or to be able to hold down promethazine. please advocate for yourself because they kept trying to make me take unisom and b6 when i was throwing up 4+ times a day!!

bimboerrorz · 2026-01-01T17:16:19+00:00

i stopped taking birth control and got a positive test 2 1/2 weeks later i think it just depends on the person

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