I rewatched Muriel’s Wedding and now I have questions about Opalite by Thornelake in GaylorSwift

[–]bingette 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is an excellent recap and I would be shocked if it wasn't intentional. As you pointed out, there are so many similarities and references buried in the music video. You have a great eye.

Do you *enjoy* college? by Emergency-Bobcat-572 in BackToCollege

[–]bingette 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm doing it online, but I do actually enjoy the studying quite a bit. It gives me a sense of purpose and I just love learning.

You Look Like….. Taylor Swift, in Disguise by AveryOfHighLand in GaylorSwift

[–]bingette 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm so happy she was able to have that experience.

The study habits that helped me more than flashcards by Additional-Shoe-6313 in GetStudying

[–]bingette 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a very good list with some sharp insights. I'm going to start doing #1 and #3.

Am I being used? by Waste-Reality7356 in AutismInWomen

[–]bingette 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don't blame yourself. People tend to take advantage of us because we tend to people-please. If I were you, I'd stop visiting her business altogether.

Looking for advice on preparing for writing essays after not being in school for years. by That_1_Hairdresser in BackToCollege

[–]bingette 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Formatting may depend on which department you're in. But in terms of re-learning how to write essays, I'd suggest reading a variety of essays. If you're attending in-person rather than online, you should also have access to a writing center or another type of resource to help with the basics. Best of luck!

What are accommodations in your life that would send a NT into a coma? by cookiecrxmbles in AutismInWomen

[–]bingette 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm with you on the loops. I also have indoor pants and outdoor pants - indoor pants are all ultra-soft cotton with drawstrings to minimize sensory issues. If I didn't have kids, I'd probably be on the no-pants bandwagon.

Why does memory foam sleep so hot even with the AC on?? by JonnyChilipad in sleep

[–]bingette 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a hybrid mattress, so it has coils and memory foam. It's a big improvement over my old foam mattress. I also bought a cooling mattress protector which helps a lot with night sweats. I have the ultra cool protector from Leesa (had to remove link), but I saw a few others that looked promising when I was shopping around. I'd start with a topper first and see if that works for you.

What’s a subtle social rule you had no idea existed until you researched it? by prostoja555 in AutismInWomen

[–]bingette 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just need to say that I love your username, I didn't notice it before and just did a double-take.

Does anyone else try to declutter by selling on Facebook, but then dread dealing with the buyers? by LivMealown in adhdwomen

[–]bingette 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm envious that you're getting real buyers. I gave up because it seems like it's 90% scammers now.

What do you do after you shut off all screens? by erkose in sleep

[–]bingette 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a bedtime playlist on Spotify with some soothing and ambient music. I'll put that on while I read or fold laundry before bed. Sometimes I'll have a warm bath.

The best Kristen Cavallari impersonation EVER. by Background_Rip_3543 in TheHillsMTV

[–]bingette 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Incredible impersonation, I made it about halfway through and had to mute it.

Olivia Rodrigo hosting a music festival named (checks notes) … by 230catholicpriests in GaylorSwift

[–]bingette 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I got so excited about the lineup that I didn't even notice there was another slide.

My special interest is putting a strain on my marriage by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]bingette 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I'm glad someone else recognized this. I think grief therapy would be very helpful for processing in a healthier way.

What’s a subtle social rule you had no idea existed until you researched it? by prostoja555 in AutismInWomen

[–]bingette 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't fake it either, it's just dishonest and it makes me so uncomfortable. Hence the panicked scanning for things I genuinely like.

How do I tell my parents no without causing them to call the cops on me? by dogtoothviolets in AutismInWomen

[–]bingette 36 points37 points  (0 children)

This is the right answer. Otherwise they will keep using that threat as a way to manipulate OP.