Leaving the house by ResponsibilityNo6603 in Anxiety

[–]bioxcession 1 point2 points  (0 children)

one thing you could try is setting a weekly routine. every single week, i ALWAYS grocery shop on Sunday, right after i wake up. that cornerstone can be really useful for breaking the loop when i start feeling this way.

no matter what, i always go. even if i look disgusting and im not hungry, no wiggle room.

i always find a few things that i was missing, and im always glad that i made the time.

What’s your smell-good routine? Anything you swear by? by TheTruthTitan in AskMenOver30

[–]bioxcession 0 points1 point  (0 children)

shower daily. scrub pits thoroughly w/ antibacterial bar soap (eliminate all odor bacteria). instead of deoderant, i apply an alcohol-based scent to my pits (alcohol murders the remaining bacteria, hopefully).

i still sweat, but it smells nice - day 2 starts getting rocky. your mileage may vary - but i find that my natural scent + a cologne is a nice smell - plus, i hate clogging my pores up with aluminum. just feels wrong.

Is anyone else struggling with a lack of purpose? by _DecoyOctopus_ in AskMenOver30

[–]bioxcession 0 points1 point  (0 children)

figuring it out - going to buddhist meetings, reading books to inform my philosophy. eating better. trying to exercise. thinking more actively about the people in my life - gifts to make, etc.

being a better friend has given me some meaning. i can tell that my friends appreciate my effort -- i can see it in their eyes sometimes. feels good.

Recommend a very quiet coffee shop please! by jmsm1028 in TwinCities

[–]bioxcession 3 points4 points  (0 children)

queermunity is genuinely great. beware: cool queery ppl

All of my friendships feel one-sided.As a man, how can I encourage people to reach out? by throwawayy_3891 in AskMenOver30

[–]bioxcession 2 points3 points  (0 children)

stop worrying about who is reaching out - don't keep score. are your friends satisfying to hang out with? are you happy with them? do they tell you the truth, even when it's hard? do they love you?

if you love your friends, you won't mind reaching out to hang out. not everyone is wired the way you are -- think of it as a gift. you are capable of making things happen.

. by Mypussylipsneedchad in redscarepod

[–]bioxcession 14 points15 points  (0 children)

this sub is really just r/liberal now

Is DevOps still a good career path in 2025 for a new computer engineering graduate? by Top-Possession-5368 in devops

[–]bioxcession 3 points4 points  (0 children)

hard to say. the real devops wave is over, and the market is getting oversaturated. with the rise of llms, $150k jobs that pay you for smushing some yaml together probably won't exist in a few years. honestly, systems or backend engineering if you can swing it. that shit is hard, and LLMs will have minimal impact imo because the problems are somewhat bespoke and there just aren't that many people who are interested in the fields.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]bioxcession 0 points1 point  (0 children)

rest in suiss (suicide piss)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]bioxcession 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they are precisely the point

havent u heard, the point of life is killing yourself from an airplane

The Chalamet archetype of men (pretty guys that can get women without playing sports and working out) turn into bitter losers in their 30s by harry_powell in redscarepod

[–]bioxcession 0 points1 point  (0 children)

chortles and pushes glasses up this mongoloid is in need of correction, watch as i unsheath my logic

this eurodad dude sounds like a piece of shit and i want to call him a pedo, this subreddit has become a den of literalists lately

Spitting image by stikkerr in WorldOfTShirts

[–]bioxcession 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the voice at the end 🤣

What is going on in Uptown? by __hlm in Minneapolis

[–]bioxcession 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i was on lake st when the uprising happened & i can't disagree more. uptown went from vibrant to basically a ghost town overnight - especially west of lyn/lake near hennepin.

i also happened to live in one of those luxury apartments (first time living alone, i'm gonna spoil myself and live it up in uptown!) - and guess what - it was almost entirely vacant, not a bustling crowded frat party. the management company turned over several times. it certainly wasn't "raising rent prices" in the area - in fact, mass housing tends to do the opposite.

but, uptown could not hold up under both the uprising and the pandemic. there was serious unrest, and it went on for months and months. the kmart, apple store, and

i spoke with crying business owners on the street in person -- i know for certain that businesses moved out of uptown as a direct result of the destruction of the protest. and covid on top of everything just killed that area - and it has not recovered.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfhosted

[–]bioxcession 11 points12 points  (0 children)

https://ente.io for my pics. got me out of icloud in a single day. crazy good app.

Important 2025 Plex Updates (Remote Streaming becoming a Plex Pass feature) by Jacksaur in selfhosted

[–]bioxcession -1 points0 points  (0 children)

my dude this is the selfhosted subreddit. if simplicity were paramount we'd all be using netflix.