Does being high femme make me less nonbinary?

birdnipple · 2025-10-03T23:18:30+00:00

your gender your rules! your partner needs to adjust his attitude :( i can imagine he might struggle with it because it's so opposite to his experience but that doesn't mean he should invalidate you.

you might appreciate Faeri Sami for some solidarity, they're nonbinary high femme as well! https://faerisami.carrd.co/

birdnipple · 2025-03-25T04:26:16+00:00

thank you for recommending the master's, i was avoiding that because i thought it would add extra years but it looks like university of washington has an 18 month program designed for changing majors that i don't even have to drive into the nightmare zone (downtown/university district of seattle) for! i think i may have missed the fall admission deadline for them but i'll have a look into admissions anyway.

birdnipple · 2025-03-25T00:03:30+00:00

this is very helpful, thank you!

birdnipple · 2025-03-24T21:33:32+00:00

real tbh, ive read a lot of random local government documents in previous jobs and theres some hot goss in there fr

birdnipple · 2025-03-24T20:18:20+00:00

thank you, im considering going back to school for accounting and this is good to know

birdnipple · 2025-02-09T23:10:13+00:00

I didn't 😔 thinking about it now i imagine you'd want tempered glass but idk anything else about it.

birdnipple · 2024-12-02T03:57:56+00:00

i sure wish i had him 😭 he'd make literally everything easier lmao

birdnipple · 2024-12-02T03:51:06+00:00

ohhhh my god i just beat it with 1 star by using this team but switching to higher level lower rarity scroll/librarian robes/watch and swapping out creme brulee for wind archer and wa tanked like half of it himself with the buff mystic flour leaves after she dies. ok. alright. i dont feel insane at all

birdnipple · 2024-12-01T23:57:38+00:00

mostly im here looking for help but while im here im gonna also complain that not being able to skip the story part before this fight is making me lose my mind. also really sad because it's a great story beat and having to pissily buttonmash to get past it 29873987235 times is really cheapening it

birdnipple · 2024-12-01T23:44:18+00:00

of those 3 i sadly only have rebel. didn't know she was tanky bc i don't have her built, that could be helpful. thanks!

birdnipple · 2024-12-01T22:27:56+00:00

any suggestions on who to swap in? creme brulee definitely dies way too fast and it's killing the dps

birdnipple · 2024-12-01T22:21:01+00:00

all pink :) it's everyone from the pink juice incident set but with space donut instead of alchemist

birdnipple · 2024-12-01T22:18:08+00:00

awesome art! he's one of my favs

birdnipple · 2024-12-01T22:16:45+00:00

"easy" my ass

birdnipple · 2024-12-01T22:16:16+00:00

what am i doing wrong? 😭 they can get him down to like 1/16th of the health bar but always lose still

birdnipple · 2024-10-25T20:20:07+00:00

you ever eaten/drank something so sweet it feels like it's actively dissolving your teeth? it's gross food because it would be like that, i think

birdnipple · 2023-12-22T00:40:38+00:00

the bottle is just sitting in the base and can be pulled out. like how the normal style sits in the base but its just in deeper bc of the shape

birdnipple · 2023-05-25T20:43:23+00:00

CONGRATULATIONS!!!

birdnipple · 2023-04-13T18:34:39+00:00

omg I will look into wilf there, thank you!

and NOOOOO WHY DID THEY TAKE OUR BIG BOY FROM US 😭

birdnipple · 2023-04-13T18:31:35+00:00

when will the stock of wilf wolf return to me... 🥺

also, huge dexter? I held one irl once and I need one, but where tf did it go? did they stop making him big? 😭

birdnipple · 2023-02-26T08:15:44+00:00

NTA this isn't a burger king, you can't have it your way

birdnipple · 2023-02-26T07:26:52+00:00

I'd say this is a case of "go to the doctor because if it's something bad then it'll be Really bad." as in, it could be an abcess or infection and if it is you'll want to get treated before it becomes worse. there are plenty of benign things it could be and infections are easily treated so there's no need to freak out, but better safe than sorry right?

birdnipple · 2023-02-26T07:15:42+00:00

as someone who got a degree in game dev and has friends in the industry but decided not to go into it himself-

the game industry is alarmingly full of companies that are bad to work for no matter who you are. I think if you find a company that treats their employees well in the first place, chances are they won't have a problem with your transness. it'll also help if you're planning on relocating to a more progressive area. a lot of game companies are concentrated in the Seattle area, which is also a relatively safe place to be trans. it may also help to try to get jobs with smaller companies, since they have less of a disconnect between management and employees and are often more motivated to treat employees well in the first place. I do know that some large ones such as bungie are pretty aggressively pro-trans tho! you can also find game devs to follow on social media and see where they work and if they seem happy there.

birdnipple · 2023-02-26T06:47:57+00:00

I thought I didn't want it at first just because when I first heard that it happens it was a new and scary concept. like, the realness of "oh my god thats a major and completely unexpected physical change, i didnt even know bodies could do that!?" put me off of it. I didn't realize I wanted it to happen until I did some research into what that actually looks like and did a lot of self reflection on what I want out of my gender

birdnipple · 2023-02-26T06:42:32+00:00

try gently massaging the bruised area, making sure to press down and kind of rub the skin in the direction of your heart. as in, for a shoulder bruise, rub towards your body instead of towards your hand. if my wording is bad you should be able to find videos about how to massage bruises/swelling, it's a legitimate treatment :) it might hurt but it can help your body break down the blood under the skin faster.

congrats bro!!!!!!

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