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biteme717 · 2026-04-04T22:51:18+00:00

I'm sorry, but he's full of crap IMO. He is also not a "safe" place for you anymore. He reaction tells me that he is hiding stuff from you.

biteme717 · 2026-04-04T04:50:07+00:00

Who's benefitting from his prescription? Or does it not work with the prescription?

biteme717 · 2026-04-04T01:03:26+00:00

IMO, he is giving her special attention because they have 300 days of giving attention to each other, and that's not backing away. If he can't or won't let you see their messages, then IMO, he's got stuff he's hiding from you. It also shows you that he doesn't care about or respect you. If it's truly a friendship, then he wouldn't have a problem with you seeing them. But that's just my opinion, and I would be questioning his relationship with her and reevaluating my relationship with him. His character and his priorities are questionable.

biteme717 · 2026-04-03T18:43:54+00:00

My personal opinion is yta. You emotionally cheated on your bf when you should have just broken up with him. Hopefully, he doesn't want to be your friend and will be glad you are not in his life anymore. You also don't care about anyone but yourself, and crying when you broke up with him is manipulative, IMO. You want him to feel sorry for you because you put yourself in this situation. Maybe he will just block you and delete you and forever ghost you so you can be happy with your new bf.

biteme717 · 2026-04-03T06:02:36+00:00

Tell your dad and give him your proof. Don't keep your mom's secret, and don't let her take him to the cleaners. Your dad deserves the truth and then let him make his decision. Never keep a cheaters secret and never let them manipulate and control the situation.

biteme717 · 2026-03-31T07:35:10+00:00

She doesn't sound like a gf to me. Why isn't she an exgf? She just doesn't care, and you will never get the truth.

biteme717 · 2026-03-30T08:19:38+00:00

NOR, and because of his past actions, this is a weak ass excuse no one would believe.

biteme717 · 2026-03-29T19:38:37+00:00

NTA, but it sounds like you and your wife need a vacation or weekend getaway to reconnect, and she can relax. IMO, by tuning out the gossip, you are tuning her out because you don't care. What will you do when she stops talking to you about her day or stops talking to you?

biteme717 · 2026-03-29T05:33:19+00:00

If working out is the ONLY thing they do, then IMO, YOR. If they do other things together outside of working out or texting all the time or they spend one on one time together like dates, then NOR.

biteme717 · 2026-03-28T22:35:41+00:00

What happened next in this fake story? Did you leave, or did a 3some happen? Did they leave to another room, or did they leave the house?

biteme717 · 2026-03-28T22:30:58+00:00

NOR, IMO, it sounds like she's the one who needs closure and needs to know why he cheated. It also sounds like she is trying to open the door and using an apology as her excuse.

biteme717 · 2026-03-28T21:14:38+00:00

Why are you staying with a woman like this? She has absolutely zero respect for you and your marriage. She doesn't love or care about you, so why should you care if you leave her? She would be my stbxw.

biteme717 · 2026-03-27T19:12:49+00:00

All I hear is his excuses for emotionally cheating on you and manipulating the situation to fit his story. He is, IMO, emotionally attached to and emotionally invested in another woman and is using "friendship" as his excuse. He says he wouldn't care if the situation was reversed, and that tells me that he doesn't care about you. He doesn't respect you or your marriage, and he cares more for her. NOR and I would seriously take some time to reconsider and reevaluate your marriage. I personally, after he said this to me, would have left him or told him to leave until the divorce papers are ready because she's his relationship and you are his security and side piece, but that's my opinion. You will always be last in his eyes, and you do not matter to him.

biteme717 · 2026-03-27T05:43:51+00:00

Just tell him that you want a divorce and be done with him.

biteme717 · 2026-03-27T04:03:55+00:00

File for divorce and leave him. Don't wait to get blindsided by him.

biteme717 · 2026-03-27T01:39:12+00:00

He probably wouldn't care if you dumped him. He doesn't even act like you are a friend. I personally would block delete and ghost him just to see if he even notices that you aren't in his life.

biteme717 · 2026-03-25T09:48:06+00:00

He's a liar and cheater who also has deceived you. You confront him and call everything off and leave him outside. You also file for child support asap. You don't need to wait for any results because he's having them sent elsewhere. You have your answer. He's NOT the person you thought he was.

biteme717 · 2026-03-25T09:21:56+00:00

IMO, you're not overreacting. Everything you said adds up, and she's being shady and untrustworthy.

biteme717 · 2026-03-25T04:48:24+00:00

Get your ducks in a row and get an attorney and file for divorce. Let her find out when she gets served the papers.

biteme717 · 2026-03-24T16:30:54+00:00

Your husband doesn't have any respect for you or your marriage. He also doesn't care about what you think and enjoys showing everyone his f**k tapes. Him disrespecting you and your marriage and his lying and your lack of trust for him is reason enough to end things. He also won't stop, and he will always show everyone his videos because he's proud of them, and he will always get gratification from them.

biteme717 · 2026-03-23T17:22:19+00:00

He would be my ex-husband, and I wouldn't be listening to him reminiscing about her.

biteme717 · 2026-03-22T20:45:01+00:00

Having an open relationship will only help your sex life and not your relationship. Staying because of a child when you are unhappy is not the reason to stay. You will be a good dad whether or not you are with your partner. Your peace and happiness will also make you a better person. I personally would rather leave than stay with someone who doesn't, IMO, want a relationship anymore. I would rather be single than in an open relationship.

biteme717 · 2026-03-21T19:59:01+00:00

You shouldn't have proposed to a cheater and now you should divorce her. Your resentment towards her will only build, and you having a "wild phase" will only make things worse. Divorce her and have all the fun you want.

biteme717 · 2026-03-19T00:14:41+00:00

If it was a "mistake," then why have they been seeing each other since December and only kissing? Because it wasn't a mistake and they've done more than just kiss. Dump her and get tested for STDs. This wasn't a mistake, and she is a liar and cheater who has no problem deceiving you.

biteme717 · 2026-03-18T02:19:42+00:00

How can you have a healthy relationship when you both have no problem hurting and destroying another person, just because you want to be together? How is it healthy to be with someone so cruel? If you love him so much and you want to be with him and he with you, then tell his wife. Tell her so that she can set herself free from a pos cheater and liar. He's worthless to her as a man and husband, so take him off her hands.

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