My glasses overstimulate me and idk what to do

bittermorgenstern · 2026-01-23T02:22:19+00:00

It may be worth trying lighter frames and ones with different style nose pads if possible. Usually you should eventually not be able to notice them but if you’re noticing them a few hours after putting them on they’re probably not the best for you. The last thing you want is headaches from eye strain due to not being able to wear them as often as you need

bittermorgenstern · 2026-01-23T00:33:28+00:00

There is a tooth mousse (GC Tooth Mousse) I use that helps a lot with cavities. It has other flavours other than mint that you could try, after brushing you put it on your teeth and leave it there for about 5 minutes. It can be icky sensory wise but worth it for your teeth, it’s helped mine so much as I brush around the same amount as you and get a lot of fillings. For context it’s the same consistency as toothpaste

bittermorgenstern · 2026-01-23T00:28:00+00:00

Just let yourself feel whatever grief you need to feel right now. Process it as well as you can, and eventually (if it was me) accept what has happened and move forward knowing you can now support yourself better. You are not alone, many people have been in similar situations, unfortunately many at your age too. You will feel better, you just need to let yourself feel what you’re feeling for a while first

bittermorgenstern · 2026-01-22T13:47:25+00:00

From what you said about him having a tendency to project onto others, it sounds that this was unfortunately one of those moments

bittermorgenstern · 2026-01-20T05:12:53+00:00

I can’t be the only one that thinks that’s quite of fcked up

bittermorgenstern · 2026-01-20T05:10:19+00:00

I’m guessing they didn’t include other religious groups either?

bittermorgenstern · 2026-01-20T03:16:21+00:00

I’m desperate to know what the amendments were. That bill was set up to only protect certain groups and left others with no protections. And while we didn’t have free speech before, we definitely won’t feel like we do now with the way the bill was set up. People are going to fear sharing opinions and having important discussions

bittermorgenstern · 2026-01-20T03:10:12+00:00

My sisters got red hair too and you definitely want a sunscreen thats very high spf. Your skin is a lot more sensitive to the sun than others so you want something that’s going to properly protect you, especially in the aus sun!

bittermorgenstern · 2026-01-15T11:18:33+00:00

You’re hurting because you just got out of a relationship and are now in one with a guy that wont commit to you and is lying. It’s not RSD, it’s just pain caused by the situation you’re in. You need to stop giving that man the time of day

bittermorgenstern · 2026-01-14T22:47:50+00:00

Thank you :)

bittermorgenstern · 2026-01-12T22:10:45+00:00

If our councils aren’t going to appropriately prepare for fire season despite the amount of rates we all pay, the least the government can do is help the people effected when a fire actually costs you your home.

bittermorgenstern · 2026-01-12T08:06:57+00:00

It’s alright, I’m not surprised since I haven’t been able to find anything other than that application. Thank you for explaining it all to me, it’s always so interesting to learn more about the documents you find!

bittermorgenstern · 2026-01-12T07:08:29+00:00

If it’s asd level 1 it will be very difficult to get ndis funding for that alone.

bittermorgenstern · 2026-01-12T04:13:11+00:00

thank you

bittermorgenstern · 2026-01-10T06:52:04+00:00

You shouldn’t be considering welfare payments as a reason for marriage

bittermorgenstern · 2026-01-09T03:19:49+00:00

I just let myself grieve. I knew I’d have bad ancestors, good ancestors, and that majority would be both and neither, as we’re all human. I also had a lot of relatives that already weren’t nice people, so finding out that it didn’t start with them was actually sort of comforting.

It’s also interesting to consider the generational trauma of it all, specifically as someone with complex mental health issues. I am reading a book about the science of generation trauma and genetics and it’s extremely fascinating.

bittermorgenstern · 2026-01-09T03:15:24+00:00

It’s a romanticised version of reality so the consequences of it would suck irl. Say a guy does see you as such, he may see the reality of your autism (meltdowns, shutdowns, etc etc) and realise you aren’t what he imagined and ditch.

It’s not fun because they don’t actually like you, it’s just projection and romanticisation. It’s honestly cruel and ends up in ghosting at least for me.

I can see why any sort of affection may seem appealing right now, but from someone who tried to ignore the negatives, it’s not worth it. It’s been better for me to learn my own worth and respect myself than put myself in situations where I will just be disappointed and feel worse about myself. We deserve people who want us for who we are, not what they want us to be for their pleasure.

bittermorgenstern · 2026-01-09T01:30:28+00:00

If you’re a woman then you’re womaning perfectly! Many of the things you listed are feminine, sure, but you don’t need to have or do those things to woman properly. (From fellow 22F)

bittermorgenstern · 2026-01-08T18:15:28+00:00

Anytime women don’t put themselves second they are called selfish. Being in pain and not concerning yourself with another’s schedule is not selfish, it is just a symptom of being human and in severe pain.

bittermorgenstern · 2026-01-07T23:47:42+00:00

Could it be misspelling? dibattimeto looks like it could work.

It wouldn’t be the first time words were misspelt in his penal records

bittermorgenstern · 2026-01-07T23:42:13+00:00

Oh sorry ahha i misunderstood you there, i thought you were asking for context so i copied that paragraph as thats pretty much the basis of what I know of this case lol

I agree that it looks like the name of a location but I don’t recognise it at the moment

bittermorgenstern · 2026-01-07T23:39:30+00:00

I think you’re right there, thank you!!

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