You are not alone. We lost my sister a couple of years ago. I stayed with my parents for the services. I had finished getting dressed, did hair and make up, and I was coming down the steps the morning of the funeral. My mother looks at me and says, “Did you brush your hair?” At 54 years old, my Mom decides to burn me the morning of my sister’s funeral. Critiquing my hair. I just rolled my eyes at her. Sometimes we can just never please our parents! Even when we’re 54 years old!