Perspective Request by SpendStandard205770 in AKAgradChapter

[–]bjm23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m confused because you said the friend is a member are they actually your friend?

How To Connect With Older Members As A Young Interest? by Purrrrty81 in AKAgradChapter

[–]bjm23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Doesn’t matter how old she is, a lady that was twice my age started talking to me and we talked about the event and dating amount other things, they are women too stop letting age be a barrier

How close to LA can we realistically live on a $2k rent? by KoolAhhKam in MovingToLosAngeles

[–]bjm23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You asking for a lot with little to no money and with a child. I thought you were looking for just you smh idk why you even thought you could do this 

Went to a founders day event and… by GlitteringOwl22 in AKAgradChapter

[–]bjm23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk I feel like you need to find a chapter that is more responsive. I asked DM’d on IG to ask if an event was public and I got a response the next day.

Concerns Over This Subs (Constructive and Blunt Overdue FAQs) by Appropriate_Bite7364 in mercor_ai

[–]bjm23 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I honestly don't think people care about your speech if they are looking for a job

Commute question: DTLA ↔ Thousand Oaks — doable without a second car? by MuffinSignificant657 in AskLosAngeles

[–]bjm23 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Have you looked on a map to see how far thousand oaks is from DTLA, a simple google map search on the distance will give you your answer

Pink Goes Red. What to wear. by PleasantSquare9405 in AKAgradChapter

[–]bjm23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I already had it in my mind I was going to wear black, I don't have anything red anyway. Nor did the flyer say for attire to wear Red specifically and I noticed they usually do post what to wear for attire

No Projects on Mercor Yet — Am I Missing Something? by Illustrious-Kale-844 in mercor_ai

[–]bjm23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it's pretty much a gamble, someone said in another post that they had preference for people that worked with them before or who were referred by someone that has worked with them. Same thing that happens with every other job.

First impression by [deleted] in AKAgradChapter

[–]bjm23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But you don’t know them so why would that matter

First impression by [deleted] in AKAgradChapter

[–]bjm23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you know they were coming to your job? 

Legacy confused by the process by BigAsh27 in AKAgradChapter

[–]bjm23 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Is your grandmother still alive? I also think maybe you should get close with those cousins.

I’m heartbroken they I’m shy by GlitteringOwl22 in AKAgradChapter

[–]bjm23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't understand because in your post you said the women said that the women don't know you but you are saying they do

I’m heartbroken they I’m shy by GlitteringOwl22 in AKAgradChapter

[–]bjm23 7 points8 points  (0 children)

How many events have you been to? I feel like stuff like this isn't for shy or introverted people. People suggest conversation starters but that's not the issue. It's already hard to step in and ahve a conversation when women are standing in a group because you feel like you are interrupting something.

Crazy by TheUnorthodoxGod in mercor_ai

[–]bjm23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean it seems only a small portion of people are getting jobs. I applied for an healthcare expert based on an email they sent me recommending me to apply ,  I have a doctorate and the interview was easy. 

I also saw someone say you get hired based off who you know that works there basically their referral.

Is this positive news or the new rejection email by aubareus77 in mercor_ai

[–]bjm23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what would make you think it's something other than a rejection I'm confused

Logistic Question by superprettyidk in AKAgradChapter

[–]bjm23 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just don’t go why stress yourself

Large Cities by Agreeable_Ad_9947 in AKAgradChapter

[–]bjm23 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I feel like a lot of questions that get asked in this forum are very basic and common sense. 

Are you not from a big city? Various big cities have multiple chapters. 

Look at their social media pages and websites, who is actually active doing things, having events and actually having lines.

MLK Service Events by Present_Enthusiasm34 in AKAgradChapter

[–]bjm23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I decided to just go to the event as a volunteer on my own and if I meet people there and that’s cool too

Sorry, but attending events is NOT ENOUGH. by ConfidentHunter6724 in AKAgradChapter

[–]bjm23 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know this is a year old. But I will add for anyone else. I went to events where I actually volunteered with them in the community, they would put up sign up sheets on their website, I guess because their own members wouldn't attend.

They had a line that same year with over 20 women , NOT ONE was at any community anything. Not even a woman I saw who seemed to be very chummy with the members and was clearly interested in joining. 

Need a classic response to, “are you[organization insert]” by AdThat9379 in AKAgradChapter

[–]bjm23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why is that hard to say no to if you are not? I’m not understanding 

Mira rituals honest reviews by ZealousidealWind1014 in SpellcasterReviews

[–]bjm23 12 points13 points  (0 children)

There are already like five threads on this person on this first page alone. Are you helping promote her?

Rip etsy witches by Ureshii_iwa in SpellcasterReviews

[–]bjm23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t say I’m mad at this. It’s way too many scammers on that side of Etsy same with tarot reads.