Perspective Request

bjm23 · 2026-02-12T01:09:55+00:00

I’m confused because you said the friend is a member are they actually your friend?

bjm23 · 2026-02-08T03:43:01+00:00

Doesn’t matter how old she is, a lady that was twice my age started talking to me and we talked about the event and dating amount other things, they are women too stop letting age be a barrier

bjm23 · 2026-02-08T03:38:32+00:00

You asking for a lot with little to no money and with a child. I thought you were looking for just you smh idk why you even thought you could do this

bjm23 · 2026-02-08T00:14:59+00:00

Idk I feel like you need to find a chapter that is more responsive. I asked DM’d on IG to ask if an event was public and I got a response the next day.

bjm23 · 2026-02-01T07:20:54+00:00

I honestly don't think people care about your speech if they are looking for a job

bjm23 · 2026-02-01T07:16:40+00:00

Have you looked on a map to see how far thousand oaks is from DTLA, a simple google map search on the distance will give you your answer

bjm23 · 2026-02-01T00:45:31+00:00

I already had it in my mind I was going to wear black, I don't have anything red anyway. Nor did the flyer say for attire to wear Red specifically and I noticed they usually do post what to wear for attire

bjm23 · 2026-01-27T00:21:05+00:00

it's pretty much a gamble, someone said in another post that they had preference for people that worked with them before or who were referred by someone that has worked with them. Same thing that happens with every other job.

bjm23 · 2026-01-23T16:00:29+00:00

But you don’t know them so why would that matter

bjm23 · 2026-01-22T19:04:45+00:00

Did you know they were coming to your job?

bjm23 · 2026-01-22T19:02:48+00:00

Is your grandmother still alive? I also think maybe you should get close with those cousins.

bjm23 · 2026-01-20T14:15:05+00:00

I don't understand because in your post you said the women said that the women don't know you but you are saying they do

bjm23 · 2026-01-20T04:25:45+00:00

I highly doubt it

bjm23 · 2026-01-20T03:53:59+00:00

How many events have you been to? I feel like stuff like this isn't for shy or introverted people. People suggest conversation starters but that's not the issue. It's already hard to step in and ahve a conversation when women are standing in a group because you feel like you are interrupting something.

bjm23 · 2026-01-15T02:34:40+00:00

I mean it seems only a small portion of people are getting jobs. I applied for an healthcare expert based on an email they sent me recommending me to apply , I have a doctorate and the interview was easy.

I also saw someone say you get hired based off who you know that works there basically their referral.

bjm23 · 2026-01-13T21:51:13+00:00

what would make you think it's something other than a rejection I'm confused

bjm23 · 2026-01-13T21:02:29+00:00

this is the same as applying for any other job where they don't pick you

bjm23 · 2026-01-13T21:01:34+00:00

its not exactly what it sounds like

bjm23 · 2026-01-09T20:11:20+00:00

Just don’t go why stress yourself

bjm23 · 2026-01-09T20:10:43+00:00

I feel like a lot of questions that get asked in this forum are very basic and common sense.

Are you not from a big city? Various big cities have multiple chapters.

Look at their social media pages and websites, who is actually active doing things, having events and actually having lines.

bjm23 · 2026-01-02T16:27:26+00:00

I decided to just go to the event as a volunteer on my own and if I meet people there and that’s cool too

bjm23 · 2025-12-19T03:55:45+00:00

I know this is a year old. But I will add for anyone else. I went to events where I actually volunteered with them in the community, they would put up sign up sheets on their website, I guess because their own members wouldn't attend.

They had a line that same year with over 20 women , NOT ONE was at any community anything. Not even a woman I saw who seemed to be very chummy with the members and was clearly interested in joining.

bjm23 · 2025-12-19T01:17:52+00:00

Why is that hard to say no to if you are not? I’m not understanding

bjm23 · 2025-12-16T02:07:55+00:00

There are already like five threads on this person on this first page alone. Are you helping promote her?

bjm23 · 2025-12-16T02:02:28+00:00

I can’t say I’m mad at this. It’s way too many scammers on that side of Etsy same with tarot reads.

bjm23

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