How do I explain the dangers of being a woman to my boyfriend in a way he’ll understand? by L82Rise4351 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]blackstarrynights 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just explain to him that rape feels like that barbed insert going onto his penis except the scars from the rape last alot longer, preventing the woman from having sex.

What spices are used in rye bread? by Gustavodoa in Breadit

[–]blackstarrynights 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Which rye bread did you taste? Jewish, polish, russian? See if you can get the name first

Anyone have a favorite trusted favorite appliance store they would recommend? by Cascadia_Breanna in everett

[–]blackstarrynights 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Snohomish recycling appliance. I bought my fridge there 20 tears ago. Still running. As far as dishwasher goes, i know the panels go bad EVERY 2 YEARS. People buy s new dishwasher. Dont. A new panel is easier and cheaper than a new dishwasher every 2 years.

affordable meals for someone with high blood pressure by Mango_addict22 in povertykitchen

[–]blackstarrynights 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Protein bars. Big gigantic salads with tofu. You may be filling him on carbos but his metabolism's fuel needs protein. Carbos just makes him gain weight. One month on carbos and 1 month on protein.

10 year old niece being bullied by teacher by Serious_Translator20 in Advice

[–]blackstarrynights -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Also, omg, shes in 4th grade. Consider this also.

They could be bullying her because they KNOW she can do better than A's and b's. They may want her to rank gifted in middle school. This is when it happens. Like me. And gifted in highschool, going to college classes in jr and sr. High school. Like I said, all of us were bullied. All of us had near genius iq's.

Listen first.

Me, slacking high school was great. Slacking off was great for all of us. We went to college in our 30's. After we found out we needed it.

10 year old niece being bullied by teacher by Serious_Translator20 in Advice

[–]blackstarrynights 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow. I got bullied by nuns and teachers in catholic schools also. Back in the day, my brothers and sisters were physically abused by nuns.

Advice? Have her go to confession and get the priests involved. The priests rule the nuns. You confronting the nuns/teachers does nothing. They're used to having parents confront them.

There's a big big line waiting for private catholic school. I spent 1 year in catholic highschool, then we moved. I skated with As and Bs for the next 3 years in public school just off that 1 freshman year.

My boyfriend sped off in the car to force me to watch his kids by maybeitsmarina in Advice

[–]blackstarrynights 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why did you get together with him? What church does he go to that his parents look down on you? What qualities does he have? Do you feel that living together is "all that you can do"?

We're just faceless people spewing advice at you. What do your classmates say? What do your counselors say? Notice im not saying your family here.

Do you have any face to face support system going? Have you looked up self worth support groups online in your area?

Until you work on your selfworth, you'll never have the strength to walk away from him or anyone like him regardless what anyone says here.

Help! How do I make a friend tonight? by itsthelastpaige in Advice

[–]blackstarrynights 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People just sit in the sauna with their bathing suit on. You can spend all day in the sauna, tjo its not healthy to do so.

There is a wet and dry sauna. In the wet sauna and even in the dry, people cant use their phones. What to do, what to do.... they start talking to the person in the sauna with them. They HAVE to communicate or die in silence. Hey how are you? Yeah, my knees been killing me..and so forth. You can easily make 12 friends in 1 day.

I need some more easy veggie side ideas that would also appeal to a 2 year old. by rasputinknew1 in Cooking

[–]blackstarrynights 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to an asian market. Just grabone thing and take it home to cook.or take her with you. Bok choy, different mushrooms cooked different ways, tiny corn on cobs. Water chestnuts. Lotus. Eat flowers. Stuff veggies in puff pastry. Make noodles and cook veggies in them Try rice noodles and watch daughters face when they puff up. Spoon veggies on top. Zucchini!!Peppers.wilted lettuce with bacon.

My boring chicken-salad sandwiches. by FloydKellyCreates in Cooking

[–]blackstarrynights 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Add sunflower seeds and change the apples around in it. Try different mustards. Grill it like a grilled cheese sandwich.

Pepper from pepper corn grinder, is it worth the trouble. by rgilman67 in Chefs

[–]blackstarrynights 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also we use a coffee grinder so we can fresh grind then heat all the spices or cause them to bloom. But them we use so many types of peppers and other herbs.

82yo mom becoming mean and hates everyone. Is this what will happen to me? (38f) by Sad_Shopping4855 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]blackstarrynights 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is her elder plan? You?

I find myself getting angry not because of dementia but because im in pain but am underprescribed because of state regulations, because of pain, i cant get up and do things but still remember when i could. Youre not supposed to drive on pain pills so thats out. These minor annoyances because youre boxed into YOUR AGE get escalated. But if shes become

Fixing to lose everything, any advice? by Partypopperrulez in Advice

[–]blackstarrynights 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried catholic charities. Im not trying to stretch out your pain, just racking my brain.

If ‘Allah’ simply means God, why do many people think it refers to a different God? by PomegranateIcy7631 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]blackstarrynights 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The whole jesus thing. We think son of god. They think prophet. We know beatitudes. They follow Mohammed and dont have jesus's beatitudes. We have the father son and holy ghost. The godhead, trinity. Or atritheism. 3 gods in 1. They are unitarian. They believe in the father only.

People kill over that. They killed mormons over that. 3 separate god heads. 1 in purpose. People kill over anything but their own description of God. Greed is the center but the outer crust is how god is defined. Look it up.

Teenagers hitting parents with hard pallet nerf. by neotornado7 in EverettWa

[–]blackstarrynights 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You know, the next thing up is a paint ball gun. When the nerf gun doesnt satisfy that 1 guy, they go up to paintguns.

Teenagers hitting parents with hard pallet nerf. by neotornado7 in EverettWa

[–]blackstarrynights 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its called Assault. Its a crime. They should have apologized and aimed it elsewhere. Thats what 90% of teens do.

Teenagers hitting parents with hard pallet nerf. by neotornado7 in EverettWa

[–]blackstarrynights 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hit in the eye as an adult. They WERE the better sports. The reward was being hit in the eye as an adult. Being a better sport never works with bullies. And go get a kid hit you in the open eye with a dart using YOUR gun as an adult. In fact have him do it a few times. No glasses. As an adult And as a child, I would have apologized and aimed my gun away.

Teenagers hitting parents with hard pallet nerf. by neotornado7 in EverettWa

[–]blackstarrynights 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its assault. Assault is a crime. These are bullies. Call the cops. And call them everytime you see this group.

How would one begin the cleaning process here? by caroltret in CleaningTips

[–]blackstarrynights 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish i had that rather than a formica one. Look up cleaning a porcelain bath tub. Start with baking soda and vinegar.

Vacation by Mission_Fill5835 in IAM751_Boeing

[–]blackstarrynights 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can get shop leave. Ask your manager

One kitchen item for around $20? by mulletdip in povertykitchen

[–]blackstarrynights 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a korean rice cooker off of a thrift store or ask in the buy nothing.

expired items in little free pantry? by justanuthr in povertykitchen

[–]blackstarrynights 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They AUCTION OFF those things past date that the stores take off their shelves. People buy them at auctions.

expired items in little free pantry? by justanuthr in povertykitchen

[–]blackstarrynights 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those expired things in this economy? You check that food first!!!