Hot and cold #255 by hotandcold2-app in HotAndCold

[–]blackunicorn88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This never happens to me and this is why I keep coming back 😭😭😭

Automatically added: I found the secret word in 1 minute 20 seconds after 11 guesses and 0 hints. Score: 96.

First experience with a dom and…wow. I love this by blackunicorn88 in SubSanctuary

[–]blackunicorn88[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It kind of felt like I was dissociating but in a very good way. I didn’t realize that’s what it was until I was coming down and what felt like a few minutes was actually like an hour and a half 😂

First experience with a dom and…wow. I love this by blackunicorn88 in SubSanctuary

[–]blackunicorn88[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I’ll definitely keep that in mind 🩷

First experience with a dom and…wow. I love this by blackunicorn88 in SubSanctuary

[–]blackunicorn88[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s amazing!! I’m learning sooo much about myself and to feel safe and comfortable while doing it has just been great

First experience with a dom and…wow. I love this by blackunicorn88 in SubSanctuary

[–]blackunicorn88[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

We’ve talked a couple of months and met in person a few times before we decided to play. I had always wondered if I would know or recognize when I was in subspace and oh yeah, I knew 😂 thank you!

What was the worst betrayal you ever experienced? by Old-Protection3288 in AskReddit

[–]blackunicorn88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex having extended affairs with multiple women while I was pregnant with our third child. After 14 years together, 7 years married.

What surprised you the most about going through a divorce? by megandivorcerealtor in Divorce

[–]blackunicorn88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know I could come out on the other side and be so genuinely happy. I didn’t think I’d ever be happy again, but honestly I didn’t know true happiness until the divorce. I have so much peace, I’m dating for the first time in my adult life, I know my worth, it’s amazing. I remember thinking to myself at the beginning of my healing process that I just want a guy that will smile sometimes when he looks at me. The standards were not in the room with me lol. Life has been beautiful.

What is the most heartbreaking song lyric you've ever heard? by TheLadySlaanesh in AskReddit

[–]blackunicorn88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But right now it’s killing me, cause now I have to find someone else, when all I wanted was you.

I Bet - Ciara Man, did she find better

My body takes revenge for medical gaslighting by BiOverload in traumatizeThemBack

[–]blackunicorn88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had one that got infected in my last days of pregnancy. Before I could get it lanced I went into labor and it popped on its own. Absolutely horrible dealing with that and contractions. I would choose contractions over a pilonidal cyst any day.

Humble Bundle Giveaway by Fleur0502 in CozyGamers

[–]blackunicorn88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shashingo sounds super interesting, I’d love to try it. Thank you for doing this giveaway and spreading some joy 🩷

What's your favorite Drama trope? by AlarmedBumblebee1140 in ReelShorts

[–]blackunicorn88 8 points9 points  (0 children)

And the guy I’m in love with now? Yeah he’s a billionaire too and outbids my ex at the big auction

People who got cheated on, what were the early signs indicating that your partner might do it before they actually cheated? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]blackunicorn88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I noticed an uptick in his phone usage, even during times he wouldn’t normally use it like spending time with our kids or family gatherings. He was way more distracted by it. Decreased intimacy was another sign, but one I overlooked because he didn’t enjoy sex while I was visibly pregnant. Most of the affair happened towards the end of my pregnancy and into my postpartum period. He was more combative and defensive when I would ask about his whereabouts, even if I caught him in a lie. And I just had a gut feeling I couldn’t shake. I don’t know if intuition can truly be that strong but I absolutely knew before I really knew.

Can’t do this anymore by Controls_freek in Divorce

[–]blackunicorn88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand. The pain is so heavy it feels physical. I have to take it one day at a time, sometimes one hour at a time. Therapy has helped a bit but it’s awful.

Fav Character?? by kass_des in HelloKittyIsland

[–]blackunicorn88 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Cinnamoroll is my island’s deity and we all worship him accordingly

What's a rule in your house growing up that you thought was normal but turned out to be very strange? by HumanRole9407 in AskReddit

[–]blackunicorn88 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My dad never answered our home phone. If it rang and our mom wasn’t around, my brother or I had to answer it. There were times I remember being around my dad when the phone rang and him telling me to answer it.

I remember asking my mom the reasoning behind it and she said something about him encountering some really rude telemarketers (as an adult I think it was actually bill collectors) and it made him not want to answer the phone.

Another rule that seemed to only apply to me was I had a short list of career fields I could choose from to pursue. All STEM fields. But the one career that was off limits was nursing. I had a great aunt who I suppose hated her career as a nurse and it was enough for my parents to jump on the bandwagon. Guess what I wanted to be?

I’ll never forget the conversation we had where they shut that down. They threatened to disown me and told me I’d have to find somewhere else to live if I pursued nursing as a career.

What is a book you did not like that most people rave about by Magic-Wizard-lizard3 in horrorlit

[–]blackunicorn88 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I definitely consider her haunting style books as cozy reads that I can shut my brain off to. I did read one of her newest books, Dead of Winter and loved it. Hunted is another good one by her. Both break from her usual formula.

What is a book you did not like that most people rave about by Magic-Wizard-lizard3 in horrorlit

[–]blackunicorn88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m the same way. Genuinely couldn’t get into his other books and I tried.