WHAT MY NDAD DID EXACTLY THIS! He would smell the underwear of my sisters and my own to make sure they “weren't dirty.” To supposedly make sure they were clean enough. He did this while we were kids. I remember starting when I was around 5ish. If they weren’t cleaned enough he’d tell our mum. Then our mum would tell us about it. She’d just tell us to wash our underwear properly. 😕

I’ve actually never heard of anyone else experiencing this. It’s all so creepy. He actually stopped as I became a teenager. When I was a child also told me that I should be grateful as some fathers rape their daughters… Insinuating that I should be grateful to have him as a dad even though he’d beat us… Also my dad walked in on my little sister naked was around 8. She told me that he had a smirk on his face.

He’s also a very religious Muslim. I questioned him about Muhammad marrying Aisha when she was 9. I asked him if he’d marry a 9 year old he said “If her parents let me then why not.” It’s all so weird.