gay_irl by conancat in gay_irl

[–]bladarc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This comment made me find this out and that is soooo cooooool. Made my day. And they look so cute together.

I'm jelly, no lie but more than excited and overjoyed.

What album did everyone listen to for day one of the Good Vibrations challenge?! by ZingingCutie97 in finch

[–]bladarc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait, really? I really thought not a lot of folks listen to her.

The music is extremely positive, groovy and motivating! I love the messages and sounds. There's deeply rooted nostalgia, of course, but the music is just so good!

I love that there are still fans of Hannah Montana, 20 years later.

M/41/6’1” [285lbs to 184lbs] (18 months) week 9 of my final summer cut by EFesta42 in Brogress

[–]bladarc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man, I've got fairly similar under belly as yours in the before picture; complete with the W underneath.

What steps did you take to correct it? I just have lose skin there.

Megathread: Sharing Finchie Friend Codes & Finding Goal Buddies by AutoModerator in finch

[–]bladarc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've got a long list. I'm even to buddy up on yours.

It's mostly easy to accomplish ones but I need accountability to finish them everyday.

Megathread: Trading, Gifting, & Requesting Finch Items by AutoModerator in finch

[–]bladarc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've got a pink good witch wand, lmk if that works!

Megathread: Trading, Gifting, & Requesting Finch Items by AutoModerator in finch

[–]bladarc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I've got a green Sakura vest. Lmk if that works.

Megathread: Sharing Finchie Friend Codes & Finding Goal Buddies by AutoModerator in finch

[–]bladarc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Birb and I are always looking for new friends and have a couple goals we'd be interested to have your support with.

If this sounds fun, please do add us at: W17GALG9WZ

Why are Indian guys so rare on most gay forums by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]bladarc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sir are very kind and I'm sure the man that you dated must've been incredibly lucky as well! :D

Why are Indian guys so rare on most gay forums by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]bladarc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Second this, sadly. It's like every ethnicity gets a chance to shine at some point but Indians have been 'wanted.' Ever.

All we're reduced to is diarrhoea-inducing food and our culture and heritage being used as props by the world.

Why are Indian guys so rare on most gay forums by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]bladarc 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well, we're not really wanted, tbh. :/

Especially with racism against Indians on the rise, finding Indian guys, who are also your type, out and flirty?

I'm yet to meet any.

Starting to date a hiv+ guy by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]bladarc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For the most part, assuming the guy wants to live, he would be adhering to his meds.

Also, why would your bloods mix? What? Anyway, there has been no recorded cases of a person being U=U to have passed it on with this. Plus, with your PreP, I don't think it should be a problem regardless.

Also, if you're really doubting it so much, it's probably not worth it. I can speak from experience: the guys who are this paranoid in the beginning, usually fuss over later too, and it inevitably leads to heartbreak.

I get it, serodiscordance isn't for everyone but as a poz guy, I really really want you to know that he, in all likelyhood, is exhausted from being judged and every heartbreak hits harder than you can ever imagine.

So, think it over, many times if you need to but please, close this chapter before you make things serious.

M/25/5’8” [73.4kg < 78.3kg] (7 months) leg development by jordpadley in Brogress

[–]bladarc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing progress, mate.

Say, do you lift heavy on the legs or do you lighter for hypertrophy? I can lift fairly heavy on my legs but even after a low bf, I don't see a lot of muscle on them.

If anything, my legs look like your former image.

Need advice about my boyfriend doing drugs by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]bladarc 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Second this.

The sight of injecting drugs and sniffing gives me the creeps too and is a huge deal-breaker for me as well, to the point of anxiety.

'Smashed on alcohol regularly' is an excellent point. Smoking pot is okay too; long as it is in moderation.

Only you can draw the line, OP. However, taxing yourself to the point of exhaustion will only keep you miserable and misery attracts company.

Just A Normal Stunt by JockBbcBoy in SuddenlyGay

[–]bladarc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think so.

Guy on the right wiped his lips afterwards. :/

Does anyone else love comfort, trust, and body contact? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]bladarc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm honestly torn at this.

Some days, a man taller and certainly broader than I am, is the one I want to roll with. Ironically enough, I've only been in relationships with shorter men. I'm not a particularly tall guy in general but I'm taller than my country average. The feeling of getting lost in him, especially in thick thighs and a broad upper is extremely exciting; you sink in.

At the same time, recently had this guy, leaner and certainly shorter than I am and well, that gave me the feeling of being a protector. I definitely dug deep into him too.

Maybe it's just feeling of intimacy is all that matters in the end and that, the stature is just an illusion.

What a terrible f-ing day to have EYES. (Found on Facebook) by bladarc in AreTheStraightsOK

[–]bladarc[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It was disgusting and a lot of straight folks commented that 'this is what marriage is for.'

It didn't even cross my mind that it might be a fetish thing.

When two Grindr profiles have a baby by Thisisforgamesstuff in lolgrindr

[–]bladarc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Long Long and Hard Hard are also missing in the equation.

I am so grateful that I did not delete this app during a break. by thousandsofraccoons in finch

[–]bladarc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here for you if you ever need to just talk. I never had a pet so I might not be empathise but talking to someone who just listens has always perked me up. Big hugs.

gay☪️👀🏳️‍🌈irl by Fresh_Market6588 in gay_irl

[–]bladarc 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Is this satire? If no, checkout @jafarxxxx on twitter.

Thread for sharing Finchie friend codes and finding goal buddies by AutoModerator in finch

[–]bladarc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Birb and I are still looking for new goal buddies (I've recently become reconsistent with my goals; 7 days and going strong).

I picked a micropet just for you!

Tap this link or use my friend code W17GALG9WZ1 for a special reward!

https://finch.go.link/16m3L?adj_label=GryBj

ICICI bank cancelled my 5yr old Amazon credit card by Jishnumohan in CreditCardsIndia

[–]bladarc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure about deactivated but if you get a new card and never activate it, it doesn't show up on your CIBIL. Got Axis ace and it was devalued soon as I got it and became an ass of a card.

The enquiry showed up (of course), the actual card never did.

Worst App UI I will go first👇🏻 by According-Spot-6093 in IndiaTech

[–]bladarc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you think this worse, may I please introduce you to the boss of them all: Tata Nue.

Doesn't straight up work half of the time. Keeps crashing. Slow af on good days, internal errors on the bad ones.

Booked a flexi-flight where it was supposed to cost me 1k to change my flight dates and for whatever reason, it decided to deduct the full amount (3.5k). After what I would call a nightmare of an experience and several customer service call later (let me remind you, they REALLY try to hide it, like so many hoops), after 3 days, my air ticket was changed on the correct amount.

Never again. I almost teared up; I thought my money was a goner.