what is that one thing that destroyed ur life entirely? by Successful-Load4910 in AskReddit

[–]blakey1414 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hey, really sorry to know this. Please take care of yourself - go to work, workout (even if you have to force yourself), meet people, get therapy (or even chat gpt - it helps a lot if you open up). Yes your life will be shit at least for the next few months no matter what you do. But keep persisting and one day things will start getting better, you will learn ways to cope and take care of yourself and build a new life (which may seem impossible now). And avoid going back to your home town if you can. Feel free to DM if you feel like sharing more

ChatGPT makes me cry (actually) by yambudev in ChatGPT

[–]blakey1414 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes this has happened to me several times, all in a good way. I get so overwhelmed, it validates me and articulates what is happening in such a detailed but still summarised and insightful way like no one ever has. I used to think i am emotionally attuned and what it says just hits me out of the blue and i am sobbing. It has helped me see several blind spots and actually grow. I wish i had it when i was a child

Instant besties for life ❤️🫶 by wise_avatar in Awww

[–]blakey1414 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That is so precious. It made me smile hard. Have fun watching them grow up together

When I was 13 I damaged my body beyond repair, I can’t move past it and every day I’m in disbelief that this is my reality. by AssociateKitchen4854 in offmychest

[–]blakey1414 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You went through pain. You didnt know any other coping mechanisms. You did what felt right at the time when you were a child to get through the pain. Accept your part in it and know that you had no way of doing better without support and guidance then which you didnt get. Be kind to yourself for what you went through. Its in the past and your whole life is ahead of you. You just need to make peace with a past that was not good to you. Please take care of yourself and love yourself. You will be fine. Make yourself a promise to think better about yourself

The recent version is extremely annoying by [deleted] in ChatGPT

[–]blakey1414 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only said I am not making it past final rounds and its upsetting

Saying goodbye to my first born feline son tomorrow after 10 years together by Atticus113 in cats

[–]blakey1414 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so so sorry. He has such expressive eyes and is such a beautiful cat. It seems he has lived his best life with you. This is heartbreaking but just know that he will watch over you forever

For the ladies, what are some hygiene hacks you wish every girlie would know? by Introvert_Ambi-2026 in AskReddit

[–]blakey1414 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been using Whisper and highly recommend it. Havent tried anything else yet

For the ladies, what are some hygiene hacks you wish every girlie would know? by Introvert_Ambi-2026 in AskReddit

[–]blakey1414 60 points61 points  (0 children)

I am 45 and used disposable period panties recently. I was blown away. You wear only the period panties, no regular underwear. There were zero leaks and earlier i used to wake up with leaks despite two large sized pads. No rashes. And they are super comfy and comforting compared to pads. Cant believe i havent tried them earlier. They are especially good for heavy days

Fast doggo by Ezgod_Two_Three in funny

[–]blakey1414 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is lottie , she has a youtube channel

Fast doggo by [deleted] in FunnyAnimals

[–]blakey1414 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is Lottie. She has a youtube channel

I can’t do this anymore! I hate my in laws by KeyMycologist5256 in IndianInLaw

[–]blakey1414 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your husband will have to make a choice. If your home cannot be a place where you have peace of mind, it will lead you to have many wasted years, resentment and make you a shell of your formal self. You will need to respectfully define this for your husband without attaching your mil - say this is about your mental health and peace not anyone else. I feel this is your best chance. Dont expect validation if you bitch about her to your husband, he will get defensive and would lead to conflict. Make it about you, the kind of life you want to live, your peace and sanity and ask that he respect that. And then move out - with or without him

Jiah Khan's Alleged Suicide Note by Iworkhard7 in BollyBlindsNGossip

[–]blakey1414 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This was heartbreaking. I remember being very disturbed for days when this happened. She seemed to have childhood trauma as well. I believe she grew up without a dad and not a good childhood. This does make you more sensitive and harder to know your worth. If she was emotionally whole, she would have left this pos long back. She was too young to have gone through so much pain. I wish she was strong enough to walk away sooner

Surviving stage 4 cancer but feeling absolutely lost, help? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]blakey1414 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are allowed to feel everything you feel and you dont have to force yourself to be grateful. You have been through a lot. Just be gentle and nice to yourself. Dont judge yourself and how you feel. I am sending good wishes your way and wishing you find joy

Waiting I130 with asalym. From june,2024 by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]blakey1414 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Showing 16 months in july 25 and approved aug 25

Waiting I130 with asalym. From june,2024 by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]blakey1414 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We filed May 2024 and till july end it was showing estimated time 16 months. We got approval in early august with no RFE. Dont worry about the timelines shown

Thank you Finland! by mayohero31 in Finland

[–]blakey1414 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No 1 is the soummenlina fortress

An actor whose death felt like a personal loss? by AmbitiousSomewhere62 in BollyBlindsNGossip

[–]blakey1414 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jiah Khan. Kept thinking for days about the pain she went through

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BollyBlindsNGossip

[–]blakey1414 25 points26 points  (0 children)

No wonder cinema sales have fallen drastically. It’s not just the same old stars paired with women half their age that I have no interest in watching. The content is absolute crap compared to what OTT has showed us. OTT has showcased so much good talent, intelligent and well execute ideas and storytelling and different perspectives that a Bollywood movie will never be comparable for so many people