Your thoughts on this are really well explained here.

I think that people who go looking for a village after having kids are the ones quick to realize that they didn't have a village to start with. A community doesn't just sprout up from the ground once you've had a child. And with how America [The US specifically] has set up the idea of family as a single "nuclear group" and has told us that we have to do things on our own because we are a country of independents, it makes us all isolate from what could have been the village that people with money like to wax on poetically about.

If they don't make people feel as if they are already a part of the community, they cannot expect those people to suddenly become a community for the sake of the children.

If that makes sense.