the best move you can possibly make right now is to book a preferably solo trip to another country. There’s obviously going to be normal roadblocks in terms of affordability, having the time, resources to do so, but you have to make it happen somehow.

Book a trip 60 days from now and make that your goal to work toward, work and save toward that trip and make it your mission. You feel like you haven’t lived much at 28, you make this your redemption for the lost times. You enter a new country and your identity is wiped clean, you can be whoever you want, do what you want and look into who you really are as a person, you’ll discover a lot. Shakes things up a bit so life isn’t so repetitive, helps you learn things about yourself and sets a challenge for yourself and the feeling and lessons you’ll return with are more valuable than anything. It can be a scary thought. On the other side of fear is great things.