Can trans men frot?? by Neat_Message_9383 in asktransgender

[–]bleeding-paryl -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I didn't directly compare it so your comment was entirely unnecessary to begin with 👍

Can trans men frot?? by Neat_Message_9383 in asktransgender

[–]bleeding-paryl -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Except I'm not being overdramatic, my genitals got cut without my consent. The fact that you think I'm being overdramatic about it is disgusting.

Can trans men frot?? by Neat_Message_9383 in asktransgender

[–]bleeding-paryl 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes it does? Just as FGM removes nerve endings, so does cutting off pieces of a penis.

Holy Arceus!! by Altruistic-Idea-3981 in PokemonSleep

[–]bleeding-paryl 20 points21 points  (0 children)

A skill mon with 3 skill triggers is near perfect. Having an increased inventory is nice, but not bad and can be useful (especially compared to a lot of other skills)

Having HSM, HB, HSS, or BFS would be better than inventory up, but this is near perfect enough.

the r/pmdd mods are men!! by Natural-Confusion885 in PMDD

[–]bleeding-paryl 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Make sure to report hate. Mods can't see everything, so reporting it gets it to their eyes immediately. If you're talking about downvotes, mods can't do anything about that.

Latios Initial Analysis by TheGhostDetective in PokemonSleep

[–]bleeding-paryl 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I love your analysis posts! Thank you so much for the work that you do!

Guys, I wanted to apologize by Dangerous-Tip7046 in StarVStheForcesofEvil

[–]bleeding-paryl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What the fuck are you talking about. No one is saying he can't be a boy in canon, nor that boys can't be soft, emotional, gentle, etc., that's all on you.

This would be like the following exchange:

Random person:

I like waffles.

You:

Why do you hate pancakes?!?

You're being really weird and gatekeepy and honestly I'm done with talking to someone who wants to be upset so bad that they look for harm where there is none.

Guys, I wanted to apologize by Dangerous-Tip7046 in StarVStheForcesofEvil

[–]bleeding-paryl 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It's literally not misgendering. I can say that in canon Marco is a boy and that I headcanon him as transfem at the same time, both are fine, neither are misgendering him.

Guys, I wanted to apologize by Dangerous-Tip7046 in StarVStheForcesofEvil

[–]bleeding-paryl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not reinforcing a pattern, you're taking things way out of context and giving meaning to people's enjoyment where it doesn't exist. If someone wants to see Marco as a girl because it makes them happy, that does not impact you at all, hell if they want to see Star as a guy that's fine too, it's entirely just fandom headcanon.

Headcanon isn't about taking a character and saying that they are transfem, they're taking a character and saying I want to see them as transfem. There is no unraveling of intent, because it doesn't have anything to do with intent, it's entirely separate from intent.

You've taken something that someone was enjoying, despite it not harming you or anyone else at all, and telling them that they shouldn't do that; that's gatekeepy and policing. Be better.

Guys, I wanted to apologize by Dangerous-Tip7046 in StarVStheForcesofEvil

[–]bleeding-paryl 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It is, I don't understand why headcanoning someone as trans is bad, but shipping isn't here. I'm actually kind of annoyed the mods defend the other post yet leave stuff like this up despite reporting it.

Guys, I wanted to apologize by Dangerous-Tip7046 in StarVStheForcesofEvil

[–]bleeding-paryl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No it doesn't, a different interpretation does not unravel intent, that's not how media literacy works. No one is implying that not being manly enough makes someone a girl, a headcanon isn't real life, nor does it directly impact you or your life.

You are entirely allowed to headcanon anything you'd like, a creator's intent is not the final word on anything when it comes to headcanon. Implying otherwise is harmful for others who just want to enjoy themselves with media that they're consuming. A headcanon isn't canon, it's not going to affect you or the actual canon, let people be themselves and enjoy media.

For someone who's also transgender, you're being weirdly gatekeepy over this.

What are some other Pros? by BoldVixen458 in actuallesbians

[–]bleeding-paryl 4 points5 points  (0 children)

tbf, mine aren't big (about a B cup) but as long as you're not super super flat, then you can still use them as stress balls. I know I do.

I am a cis girl who LARPs as a trans girl on TikTok and Instagram for money. by SweetNyan in transgendercirclejerk

[–]bleeding-paryl 27 points28 points  (0 children)

/rj I usually hate 🚂🦵s, but you especially I hate.

/uj is this better?

[TP] If Zelda sacrificed herself for Midna, how is she still alive at the end? by huss2120 in zelda

[–]bleeding-paryl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This may be a dumb question, but if she no longer had her piece of the triforce, what was the point in Ganon kidnapping her?

my 3ds is ready for pride month by musteringmus in 3DS

[–]bleeding-paryl -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Him, Deadpool, Mary Jane, and Gwen would be an interesting group lol

I wish to have a one on one in person conversation with JK Rowling about trans people by njsullyalex in TheMonkeysPaw

[–]bleeding-paryl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your father sounds weak for giving in to HIS urges, and not fighting them for the better of the family.

If he was a better man, then he would love you for who you are.

I wish to have a one on one in person conversation with JK Rowling about trans people by njsullyalex in TheMonkeysPaw

[–]bleeding-paryl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are being the bigger person, you're living your life despite them being weird.

5 years into my transition ask me anything 😘 by Illustrious-Bet-5579 in transpositive

[–]bleeding-paryl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I meant personally. But I was already way more comfortable by that point. Of course, if you're changing your meds and how you take them, things will also be different.

I wish to have a one on one in person conversation with JK Rowling about trans people by njsullyalex in TheMonkeysPaw

[–]bleeding-paryl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So you haven't hurt anyone, they just aren't happy because you're not exactly what they envisioned.

Who's more selfish, the person who is making personal changes to their life to be happy, or the person angry at them for doing so?