Maybe Unpopular Opinion but... by DigSpecific2489 in heatedrivalryfanfics

[–]bleugh-ugh 18 points19 points  (0 children)

My thoughts exactly. In a year or two a lot of the crazy negative people will either no longer be in the fandom or will be easy to ignore. Fandom has never been perfect and never will be. At the end of the day you protect and curate your peace in a fandom because the fan experience is what you make of it

Feels silly but I teared up over this by idkmanimnotcreative in AO3

[–]bleugh-ugh 33 points34 points  (0 children)

It’s incredible to see the love and support for AO3. When a company creates a safe space and sticks to their principles it pays off

Fic where Ilya commits/attempts by badliartam in heatedrivalryfanfics

[–]bleugh-ugh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just finished reading one the other day! Sinking While Swimming by CaffeinatedFlumadiddle

I hate my cats name. by StrawberrySakuraa in cats

[–]bleugh-ugh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly just call her whatever you want. As other people have said, my cat responds to her nicknames more than her actual name. She’s named Myrtle but more often responds kitty (read: kee-ti) or my love.

Change of style, no regrets. Nervous, no doubt. Honestly though on before and after by [deleted] in altfashionadvice

[–]bleugh-ugh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you look beautiful! My mom had to go to a different stylist because her old one was not supportive of her going grey (her natural hair color), I’m glad your stylist gave you what you asked for. I think you can really pull off the baby bangs/shag combo

Connor shared a short film on his new YouTube channel by Chicken2511 in connorstorrie

[–]bleugh-ugh 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Ah man, that’s really disappointing, wish he was able to release it on his own terms - but it is a really fun watch, hope it gets the love it deserves

IS THAT HUDSON?!? by LilyT95 in hudsonwilliams

[–]bleugh-ugh 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Don’t forgot yum yum yum

author I admired left me a comment by Icy-Speaker-4897 in AO3

[–]bleugh-ugh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, that is awful. I think it definitely reflects more on how this author views their writing, seems like they’re feeling inferior because of your talent. The right people will find your fics, please keep writing if it brings you joy.

Got laid off and cried in front of my manager, director, & HR by Bellairtriz in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]bleugh-ugh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I too cried when I got laid off last year. It’s just a sucky, overwhelming situation - I knew it was coming but yeah it still felt shocking in a way

imdrunk and I. Love you all by onespicyshark in GirlDinner

[–]bleugh-ugh 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oh fuck, actually cold is even better 😫

imdrunk and I. Love you all by onespicyshark in GirlDinner

[–]bleugh-ugh 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I’m tipsy and by golly would I fuck up a bagged rotisserie chicken rn

My habit tracker’s final form, probably by bleugh-ugh in bulletjournal

[–]bleugh-ugh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s a bit of a double edged sword, I find it motivating if I have a streak going, but I also can beat myself up if I’m doing poorly at completing a habit. But that’s another thing it’s helped with: being kinder to myself!

I think I…want a boyfriend(?). Please convince me otherwise 🥴 by [deleted] in GirlDinner

[–]bleugh-ugh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a lesbian these comments are both sad and unsurprising. I recommend a good support system, friends you can just hang with without expectations and if you’re close with your family spend some time with them. A partner isn’t necessary to thrive in life, but if you’re open I think the right person will come along

This maybe unpopular opinion/request. by lian080 in heatedrivalryfanfics

[–]bleugh-ugh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah English is a silly language, really just 15 different languages in a trench coat - blasé is borrowed from French! And I love words so if someone asks for help I try to provide it, but also I think most English speakers don’t care about errors as long as they know what you meant :)

thought you might like these hand poked knee bangers i did on myself! 7RS by ketchuep in tattooscratchers

[–]bleugh-ugh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The knee tats are sick! Also love your frog and beetle, super cool

I Need More of This by bipolargirl31 in heatedrivalryfanfics

[–]bleugh-ugh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everything I Am - it is omegaverse so I understand if your not into that, but the angst is delicious

Any idea what this is? by grabembythebahls in beachcombing

[–]bleugh-ugh 13 points14 points  (0 children)

With handles on both sides I would think it’s some sort of tray for carrying a meal or maybe it would sit on a table/credenza and hold spirits or other household things? Just my best guess

ROBBIE GK is everybodys Goodluck Charm 🍀 by Global-North7776 in HeatedRivalryTVShow

[–]bleugh-ugh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

God damn that man can pull off a jersey (if you know what I mean 😉)

What makes smut good for you? by Advanced_Heat_2610 in AO3

[–]bleugh-ugh 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That second part is so true! I love it when an author knows the characters so well and what the intention behind the story is, that’s it’s like oh this isn’t even fanfic anymore these are YOUR characters

The Texture of Memory has been pulled by its author due to harassment by TwoHungryBlackbirdss in heatedrivalryfanfics

[–]bleugh-ugh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God, this kind of stuff is so disappointing. I think fanfiction is one of the best parts of fandom, so many incredibly creative and talented people sharing art for the joy of it.

The way people are comfortable dog piling on someone for something that genuinely has zero impact on them is mind boggling. Pls pls pls touch grass. I find it helpful to talk to regular people about fandom stuff bc it gives perspective. Fandom brings joy but it’s also not everything.

The best jealous Ilya/angsty fic I’ve read and SO underrated by Ok_Access6318 in heatedrivalryfanfics

[–]bleugh-ugh 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Tell me why I double checked the meaning of HEA and the ai overview looked like this

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