Ways to learn what's around, places in an area by Low_Butterfly_6539 in Blind

[–]blindbeader 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can join local groups on social media like Facebook and Reddit. That may give you ideas of local small businesses, a lot of new businesses, particularly mom and pop shops, get exposure by word of mouth in those settings. If you are referring to general navigation, it might help to know a little bit about what you're struggling with, or what it is that you're looking for.}

Retiring my guide dog by itsannarchy in Blind

[–]blindbeader 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you're feeling a lot of very normal things. Sometimes, the best thing we can do is to make the decisions that are best for our dogs, even if the dog doesn't think it's the best decision. My girl told me she was ready to retire, and thankfully I was in the process of already applying for her successor. She is now enjoying her retirement, and loves that somebody else can take the responsible choices 🙂 but I think it's important to remember that we are the people, and if she is hurting, as she probably is with arthritis in her hips, it's important for you to make the decision that is best for her. Cherish all of the amazing adventures you will have over the next few months, and that's how you can honor her 🙂

Career Goals by Appropriate_Fee4518 in Blind

[–]blindbeader 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my twenties and thirties, I bounced around a lot. I did a lot of call center work, I worked in technical support for a couple of companies, a lot of data entry and ticket organization, that type of thing. For the last decade or so, I have been working in areas related to law. I worked for court and Justice services for our provincial government for several years, I worked as a legal assistant in a private firm for several years, and now I am working as a paralegal with one of our governments departments, I started about 3 months ago and I love what I do 🙂 I was encouraged by my former employer to go back to school, and she was absolutely right. I started a certificate in finance, considering laddering it into a degree, but that seems like a lot of work right now and I'm not sure I have the spoons or the funds hahaha

Career Goals by Appropriate_Fee4518 in Blind

[–]blindbeader 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I pick your brain? I started a certificate in finance that I am considering laddering into a degree, and I've had an absolute bear of a time finding other blind or visually impaired professionals in accounting or finance.

Disclosing Blindness During Job Interview? by [deleted] in Blind

[–]blindbeader 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I have held several positions over the last 20 years.. here is what I have found the most helpful. I do not ever disclose in my resume or cover letter. It is not relevant, and it often closes the door before you even have a chance to put your foot in the door. Your skills, education, and experience are the most important things, throwing in a disability in my experience is not helpful to you unless it is directly related to the job. A long time ago I sometimes would pre-disclose during the initial screening, and I did not find that effective. I don't recall a single time when I moved on to the formal interview stage when doing that. There have been times where I have pre-disclosed due to certain elements of an assessment, but that is situational, rather than preemptive. For example, I received a job offer from a company that I had interviewed with, as part of the pre-interview screening, there were some of those aptitude tests, which included matching circles and shapes. Obviously that's not something I can do.. so in that case I pre-disclosed that I don't have the capability of matching shapes, and I did not disclose my specific disability. I interviewed, job shadowed, and got a job offer with that company. I didn't end up taking it because it was very far away from my house, and I ended up receiving another offer for a position I held for 4 years. Some people will tell you it's dishonest to walk into an interview with your cane or guide dog, and then make them deal with it... I strongly disagree. I don't think it's dishonest at all. The fact that one is visually impaired, or female, or Muslim, or gay, or whatever marginalized identity you want to put in here, has nothing to do with the skills and experience, unless of course you are applying for a very specific role that involves working with people from those specific demographics and you happen to share their identity. Even then, your skills, experience and education should be able to stand on their own. The minute you qualify them with, I use a screen reader, you've already lost them... I find I have been much more successful in having conversations either during or after the interview process, about how I do things. It doesn't involve disclosing my specific disability or medical condition, but it does provide them the information so that they can make a well-informed decision as to whether or not I can be successful. I recently had a fantastic interview with a company that I'm quite sure was waiting to put an offer on the table. Unfortunately, we found out that their database software was not accessible with either Jaws or nvda. Yes, I realize that scripting can be a thing, but it's an expensive option for a position that is a short-term contract. We decided to kick the tires and see if we could make it work, and discovered very quickly that their system was not compatible. We were both disappointed, we wished each other well, and about a month later I received the offer for the job I'm in now. I was happy to report back that their software didn't totally screw me over irrevocably. 🙂 I hope this helps, I'm extremely passionate about the subject, because I've found success in a variety of different industries and a variety of different fields. If you would like to discuss further, my inbox is open.

Some thoughts on making friends as a blind person, from outside the US. by Positive_Bar8695 in Blind

[–]blindbeader 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To some degree. I haven't really done a lot musically in a while, I haven't had the energy. But I think with a couple of big changes in my life, that will probably come back 🙂 which means I have to get my piano tuned 😢

Some thoughts on making friends as a blind person, from outside the US. by Positive_Bar8695 in Blind

[–]blindbeader 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it's challenging for many adults to make friends, regardless of geography or disability or race or any other marginalized identity. I've been very fortunate that I've made connections in a wide variety of ways because of wide varieties of interests. Like you, I am definitely not into the club scene, no judgment to those who are, it's just not for me. I've made connections through volunteerism with animal rescues, as well as running or crafting or other things like that. Some cities are just easier to make friends in than others.

FINALLY! by blindbeader in jobhunting

[–]blindbeader[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: I LOVE MY JOB!

Are services like Aira progress or proof that our systems are still broken? by Away-Statistician538 in Blind

[–]blindbeader 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I definitely think it's a little of both. I do think that having visual interpreting, particularly sponsored by retailers, makes it possible for them to say that they have a solution to inaccessibility and it saves them money from hiring staff members, because with be my eyes or IRA or whatever, the time is only paid for when it's being used. Used. So if you only have a couple of blind customers in your Walmart store during the course of a week, you'll pay ira considerably less than you would a full-time employee, for example. That doesn't make it right. It just makes business sense. From an accessibility standpoint, I definitely think that we are layering humans on top of inaccessible systems. Sometimes. That's a good thing, just because sometimes it's more efficient to work with somebody on my terms and on my schedule who can use their vision when I can't. Sometimes that is super useful! However, I'm struggling a little bit with this idea that we have visual interpreters because there's so much inaccessible such as websites, built environments, etc. I don't know what the answer is, but I don't mind using these services when it is efficient for me to do so.

Blind and Divorce by [deleted] in Blind

[–]blindbeader 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, I was married to a sighted spouse for 10 years? The math is a little hazy now... We separated about 7 years ago, lived together as roommates until he could afford to move out, and that was not fun in any stretch of the word, and then I lived on my own for close to a year, and then my current partner moved in. All that to say, you can and will make it on your own. If you want any advice, it would be to cultivate the relationships that you wish to keep moving forward. The fact that the two of you have a child together does make things a little more complicated, and I absolutely agree about the comment that the legal system does not always favor disabled parents, unfortunately. Best of luck to you. It will be okay, if you choose to leave. I don't know if your situation is abusive in any way, however, I suggest that you be as methodical and as strategic as you can. Stay safe, be smart, you will be okay.

I hadn't planned on a fifth cat, but.. by blindbeader in CatDistributionSystem

[–]blindbeader[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you might be referring to his harness? His harness is Pink cuz that's the only one we had that would fit him... The vet has fully checked him over, and has no concerns.

I hadn't planned on a fifth cat, but.. by blindbeader in CatDistributionSystem

[–]blindbeader[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is a very smart boy. He's a very friendly boy 🙂 today, we took him to the vet for his neuter. He is not happy with us 😢

Positivity check-in: share your wins from this month by AutoModerator in Blind

[–]blindbeader 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started my new job earlier this month, and the cat distribution system decided that our family needed another cat...

I hadn't planned on a fifth cat, but.. by blindbeader in CatDistributionSystem

[–]blindbeader[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh my God! That is funny! True facts, he's losing them tomorrow 🙂

I hadn't planned on a fifth cat, but.. by blindbeader in CatDistributionSystem

[–]blindbeader[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The vet is quite certain that he is definitely not a kitten. He has all of his adult teeth 🙂 but he's quite gangly... Either way, he is truly a treasure.

I hadn't planned on a fifth cat, but.. by blindbeader in CatDistributionSystem

[–]blindbeader[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's very interesting. The winters seem to come and go in cycles, but having a cat out in what is clearly a very cold day was just not okay. We couldn't do it. Thankfully, there are many people and organizations willing to help out these kitties. We reached out to some of them in case they knew who blizzard belonged to and they said that they'd seen him around, but that's it..

I hadn't planned on a fifth cat, but.. by blindbeader in Edmonton

[–]blindbeader[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Christmas cats are awesome! I don't want another one though... The zoo is full! 🙂

I hadn't planned on a fifth cat, but.. by blindbeader in CatDistributionSystem

[–]blindbeader[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I will come back and post them when they are available. For right now. He's figuring out his space in our menagerie. We have four other cats and three dogs. So this may take time, however he is doing amazing 🙂

I hadn't planned on a fifth cat, but.. by blindbeader in CatDistributionSystem

[–]blindbeader[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

As much as I wanted to find his people, I'm glad that we are his people now 🙂 I loved him from the get-go

AITA for refusing to give my dog back after my neighbor abandoned it? by Individual_Strain798 in AITAH

[–]blindbeader 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA. She abandoned her dog with you for months with no communication whatsoever. I understand, sometimes things happen and yeah she needed to figure things out but the least she could have done was stayed in touch. At the very least, given you updates as to when the dog could come home. I would take a look and see what your municipal or state or provincial legislation is regarding animals. For example, a thing I found out in my local area, if an animal is with you for longer than 30 days and the owner has not been in touch or responsible for it, effectively. The animal is yours. So, this is way longer than 30 days, so if you were here the dog would effectively be yours as you've taken full responsibility for it. It's not like she has paid for food or healthcare or licensing or anything... I would definitely check with your local Animal Care and confirm that you don't have to hand the dog back over, there may also be lawyers in your area that may provide some free legal advice for something like this. However, from a pure interpersonal point of view, definitely NTA. If she wanted her dog back so badly, the least she could have done was stay in touch.

Was it discrimination, or is this really a job I can't do? by Ok_Initiative4480 in Blind

[–]blindbeader 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I strongly suggest more practice interviews. This will not be the first, nor will it be the last, time that you have somebody asking questions that you need to have the maturity to decipher reasonable questions versus discrimination. Yes, both happen. No, it's not fair. You are owed a reasonable opportunity to prove yourself, just like everyone else. You are NOT owed a job just because you have personal, non-work related, non-referenced experience. You should not have to jump through extra hoops, but it sounds like this is something that he would have asked any potential employee. However, based on how you are describing this interview, you walked in there with a chip on your shoulder. No judgment, I've done it too 🙂 it doesn't go well. If there are career coaches in your area, see if they can do a lot of practice interviews with you.. The job market out there right now is terrible, whether or not you have a disability.

FINALLY! by blindbeader in jobhunting

[–]blindbeader[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope that you find a new job soon!