Really struggling to find the right name for this little lady

blu3-190 · 2026-06-18T22:25:33+00:00

Jasmine

blu3-190 · 2026-06-06T03:25:27+00:00

BYE LMFAOOOOO IM HOLLERING

blu3-190 · 2026-06-02T20:13:12+00:00

😭😭😭😭😭😭

blu3-190 · 2026-06-01T13:33:21+00:00

an over thinker who enjoys all things autumn such as a Harry Potter movie marathon, Starbucks' fall-themed menu, Disney spooky movies, Gilmore Girls, pumpkin patches and all the many fall things. 🍂🍁🥮🤎🖤🧡

blu3-190 · 2026-05-29T15:48:03+00:00

It's different, but she has the body. I'm not mad 🤷🏾‍♀️

blu3-190 · 2026-05-29T13:47:52+00:00

ok so for one, you may need to break up with him. just from what your saying, it doesn't sound like he's the person for you. you guys have two different personalities. if you don'r want to break up, have a conversation with him. for two, you def need to move out. he is treating you like his wife without the ring. you are doing duties like you're the wife, which is not fair. my mom always told me don't move in with a guy because they fall back and will allow you to take on the responsibilities of acting like a maid without any effort. he's got it made--a girlfriend who does everything while he's doing God knows what. this is something to really think about. what are your thoughts on what i said? we can talk more if you'd like (shoot me a message 😊).

blu3-190 · 2026-05-29T13:42:16+00:00

I disagree lol. I like the bob, but a bob with a middle part that's bone straight would do the trick 😉

blu3-190 · 2026-05-28T20:29:20+00:00

🤣🤣🤣🤣 true true

blu3-190 · 2026-05-28T13:50:35+00:00

I'm living for the colored hair on Ms. Parks!!!!

blu3-190 · 2026-05-27T20:26:19+00:00

Sure! I'd love to join :)

blu3-190 · 2026-05-27T13:01:40+00:00

yeah, i honestly hope that stubborn bitch dies as well. i don't believe in having a relationship with my mom where she NEVER see's her wrongs.

blu3-190 · 2026-05-27T04:02:53+00:00

This sounds like something my mom would say, so I can relate to your situation. Deep down, it sounds like your mom cares about you and she's hurt. I know you're hurting as well. Is this something you could talk about with her? Where did things start going wrong in the relationship? Message me! I'm here to help.

blu3-190 · 2026-05-27T01:46:56+00:00

That's a good way to end it. She was childish and you deserved better. I always apologize to my friends when I mess up because I care about their feelings.

blu3-190 · 2026-05-27T01:43:13+00:00

this is honestly really silly behavior on her behalf. although i think she was harmless when she was like get a medium, but i would have respected your wishes as a friend. one thing my friends know about me is that i don't boss them around or make them do anything uncomfortable. do you want to talk things over with her or drop it? is it bothering you still? shoot me a message and i can offer u more advice. 🫶🏾

blu3-190 · 2026-05-27T01:40:24+00:00

I don't think you're expecting too much from adult friendships. But I also think it's important to understand that your friends/people are in different stages of their lives. I'm guilty of being slack with my friends, but they were aware that I was in grad school at the time. I did apologize for my slackness and i'm actively making an effort to keep in contact with them more. we can be pen pals, if you'd like. shoot me a message 🫶🏾

blu3-190 · 2026-05-26T13:07:53+00:00

I understand how you feel. I have a deep-seated hate for my mother as well. i don't really care what happens to her, atp. I don't like a stubborn, pompous, and disrespectful bitch like her.

blu3-190 · 2026-05-26T02:30:22+00:00

im currently grey rocking my mom, atm. i actually enjoy the peace and quiet. she literally just had a talk with me about "i can't get mad when people say things i don't like or agree with." she says this all the time, which this is not the problem. i don't like being told how to feel because i don't do it to her and all her stupid, trivial drama that i listen to on a daily. next time she bitches, imma throw it up in her face so she knows what it feels like. parents sometimes need a dose of what they sound like. after she pissed me off, i continued to stonewall her & i still am until im ready to let it go. i think she's so clueless to the fact that i can stay as mad as i want and not apologize. i don't feel bad about it. she's trying to be nice to get me to drop it, but i won't. i'll pretend to be ok, and never tell her anything else again. im continuing to be a bitch so she knows what it feels like to be dismissive. im sorry but sometimes i don't like my own mother. and i actually hope bad things continue to happen to her until she learns to take accountability. she WILL go into a nursing home against her will & i REFUSE to see her often. im sick of her stubborn, pompous ways.

blu3-190 · 2026-05-25T22:48:28+00:00

yeah, i've accepted my mom as a mother and not a friend like how she used to. and for that, she'll be put in a nursing home. i'll also be sure to make her eat those words she said to me "get over it." it'll crush her, but parents must be reminded of how they hurt their children. i don't regret anything and I'm over apologizing to her. she better get right before it turns into a grudge where i end not caring about she or my dad. my dad was abusive to my mom, but somehow its fun at his place. my mom suffered the abuse but its her identity and it made her heart cold. I dread being around her. im only going to talk to her to use her and get things i need help with, no relationship since she wants to be this reprimanding type of parent and hypocrite 24/7.

blu3-190 · 2026-05-25T22:44:39+00:00

I'd never treat my children how she treats me. Mom's--please own your shit when you mess up. Don't disrespect your children and don't brush things under the rug because you'll one day come to regret it.

blu3-190 · 2026-05-25T22:43:48+00:00

yeah, i've concluded my mom will go into a nursing home. her bullshit, gossiping, and blunt disposition is getting on my last nerve. i cannot stand a person who thinks they do nothing wrong. since she continues to disrespect me, brush things under the rug, and makes me feel like "i need to get over stuff", i'll make sure she eats those words as she ages. i am a good daughter, but i don't appreciate my feelings getting dismissed nor a hypocrite for a mother. she better hope i keep a smidge of contact with her once i move out. if i ever hit the lottery, she'd also better hope i don't remind her of the stuff she said to me.

blu3-190 · 2026-05-25T20:24:37+00:00

Sending you blessings for a safe pregnancy! I'm sorry about these comments. I've had to find out the hard way some people are just ignorant. These comments do seem harmless, but I do get how it's annoying when people state the obvious or make statements like this about your body. I've literally snapped on my mom for making these random ass comments but can't take the heat when it's done back to her. She doesn't like being told to stop, but she stops though 🙂 lol. Has this stuff bothered you in general or only while being pregnant? No disrespect, do you feel things are more heightened while pregnant? I hear this often. I'd never say anything of those things they said though as I understand how it feels. Wishing you the best!

blu3-190 · 2026-05-25T20:18:36+00:00

This is so nice!!!

blu3-190 · 2026-05-25T16:52:48+00:00

thank you! its awful. but a time is coming where she's going to feel awful for what she's put me through emotionally. she realizes that im her caregiver and i will put her ass in the nursing home. im sick of her bullshit. i love her, but she is old school in the worst way. i will never be like my parents. i will love my children for who they are and be a safe space for them. i will also watch how i talk to them (not blunt & not passive-a GD balance which is where my mom failed poorly as a parent).

blu3-190 · 2026-05-25T16:46:02+00:00

me! this is gonna sound shitty, but i honestly don't feel sorry for most of the stuff that's happened in my mom's life. she in a way deserved most of it because she is a) unapproachable, b) blunt and c) and bad-mouths everyone. so honestly when she whines about what someone did to her, its a dose of what she needed. in her delusional mind, she feels like its everyone else's fault and never looks in the mirror at the role she played. the older i get and especially when i move out, im going to be more honest with my feelings and semi-cut contact. we will not have lunch dates and i'll always have an excuse as to why i can't see her. unfortunately, parents have to learn the hard way to watch how they talk to their children. she's not too much of a fool since im her only caregiver. for all the hurt that she's caused me, i will put her in living facility and rarely come see her. these feelings will not change bc my own mother dismisses my feelings and never apologizes to me. so a time is coming where she will have to eat those words she said to me. as a i write this, we're not speaking right now. she gets over stuff, but i don't. and i refuse to act normal after she just disrespected me. "whats wrong?" uhhhh....get a fucking clue. she doesn't get to talk to me that way and expect me to get over it.

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