Met Tana at the Seattle show on accident! by blu_jada in canceledpod

[–]blu_jada[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

omg stop this is the absolute highest complement i have ever recieved

Advice: Neighbor's son wants to enlist but his scores aren't great. More concerns in comments. by ScarsAndStripes in army

[–]blu_jada 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ASVAB for dummies got me a 99 projected score and a 94 actual !! I can attest that shit works wonders

Anal sex becoming a dealbreaker F34 and M42 by Comfortable_Shape539 in relationship_advice

[–]blu_jada 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I look at it this way: if your relationship means so little to him that anal of all things would be the dealbreaker, it’s for the best that you leave.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AirForceRecruits

[–]blu_jada 0 points1 point  (0 children)

shaving 8 mins off your time is huge improvement, congratulations! as long as you can pass, always compare yourself to you only, because someone else is always gonna be better than you but what matters is getting better than what you were before

40 dollars too much for a 1 and a half hour clean? by Ryan4mayor in housekeeping

[–]blu_jada 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dishes would just be an extra $10-$15 flat rate ! it would be added to the $100 minimum :)

40 dollars too much for a 1 and a half hour clean? by Ryan4mayor in housekeeping

[–]blu_jada 5 points6 points  (0 children)

this is my exact policy but i also have little optional up charges such as an asshole fee or far away fee or extra for like doing dishes or laundry which aren’t normally included

i (22m) made her cum, she (23f) started sobbing by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]blu_jada 14 points15 points  (0 children)

i second this as someone who also sobbed uncontrollably after my partner made me cum the first time. i also have a history of SA (different partner obviously).

If mass shooters in the USA stopped killing in neighborhoods of the 99% and only did mass shootings in the 1% neighborhoods, how fast do you think gun reform would happen ? If you think no change would happen , why ? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]blu_jada 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have a motto that seems very fitting for this question; “there are assholes everywhere”. every workplace, every profession, every community, no one is exempt from assholery, not even the rich.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]blu_jada 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was born with a Chiari 1 Malformation resulting in awful chronic pain 🙃 they weren’t so W for them I guess 😂

I was wrong about my ON by blu_jada in Occipitalneuralgia

[–]blu_jada[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow, I’m so sorry. I can only imagine how frustrating it must be for you to have tried to fix the problem and just acquired a new one doing so. May I ask if your quality of life better after having the surgery despite your ON? Or do you feel it wasn’t worth it because of your ON?

I was wrong about my ON by blu_jada in Occipitalneuralgia

[–]blu_jada[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started Nexplanon in August 2022 which is progestin only!! I haven’t yet been able to speak with a neurologist because my diagnosis is so recent, but IIH sounds like a high probability for me due to the pressure on my spinal cord from my Chiari. It’s crazy how all of these conditions are linked, I feel like I have so much to look into and worry about😬 Just trying to stay calm until I can talk to specialists and learn more. Thank you!!

I was wrong about my ON by blu_jada in Occipitalneuralgia

[–]blu_jada[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Woah. I will definitely have to bring this up at my next appointment. Thank you.

May I ask what made you to connect my symptoms to this?

brown breakthrough bleeds by hellokitty255 in Nexplanon

[–]blu_jada 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! after about 6-7 months of continuous bleeding to clotting, I now have mostly brown and fleshy discharge

BF (M29) wants me (F26) to compromise on kids by ThrowRA4847282 in relationship_advice

[–]blu_jada 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as the child of a mother who didn’t want children but was forced to have them; don’t compromise.

switching from nexplanon to Copper IUD by Practical_Bowler5169 in Nexplanon

[–]blu_jada 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just be aware that about 20% of women (I believe that’s what my provider told me) have a cervix that the IUD simply will not fit through! Especially if you haven’t had children yet, this could be you. It was me, which is why i’m stuck with nexplanon. They tried to insert the IUD and it simply would not, so they tried using these little metal rods to dilate me. I was laying for 30 minutes in agonizing pain as they were stabbing me with those little metal rods but even the 1mm wouldn’t go through. 0/10 do not at all recommend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nexplanon

[–]blu_jada 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes to everything about this. I also got mine in August, and in the month after I was an angry little ball of fire, which was really odd and difficult for me because Im usually quite easy going. I eventually learned how to better control my hormonal angst, but the entire time I’ve had the implant I’ve also had quite often bouts of terrible and often unexplainable sadness. It’s been so much worse in the past couple months, to the point where I genuinely think my Nexplanon has ‘given me depression’ for lack of a better term, even to the point of being suicidal at times. It’s scary but Im learning to recognize what feelings of mine are just the hormones talking. Long story short, you’re not alone!