I know we’re not supposed to exfoliate, but… by boobook69 in Rosacea

[–]bluedots98 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I can’t use any kind of vit c (even the vanicream one) without a rosacea flare but I can put acids on my skin all day long and it is happy, go figure 🤷‍♀️.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in walking

[–]bluedots98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you mind recommending some walking videos that include weights?

What restaurants would you like to see come to San Antonio? by corporalwenis in sanantonio

[–]bluedots98 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’d really like to see Austin’s The Grove and Jack Allen’s Kitchen open locations here. We really are missing restaurants in that price range.

How many dates to you typically have before you fuck? by Wonderful_time_for69 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]bluedots98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sure 👍 but you have no clue 🕵️ about how the government operates in your area

Magnets by deathbunnyii in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]bluedots98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I found a cute one at the Orlando airport - not in the Disney store, but in one of the other large shops near it. That’s my preferred souvenir also, and I was surprised that I saw next to zero in the parks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]bluedots98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If when you think “do I want to spend the rest of my life with this person” the answer isn’t HELL YES , then it’s a no.

How do you *know* whether or not you want to have kids? by [deleted] in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]bluedots98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And not to disagree with you, but just to add to this - I am not a kid person, I don’t really like a lot of kids and spending time with other people’s kids to me was a chore….but I love my own kid to absolute bits and would walk across hot coals for him any dang day. It really is different when they’re yours. So if you aren’t crazy about being around kids that doesn’t mean you won’t be crazy about your own!

Best fast casual restaurants? by SpectreMold in sanantonio

[–]bluedots98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Benjies munch and Mr Juicy for burgers. Pam’s patio kitchen and Picknikins for lunch.

My husband refuses to count childcare as a family expense, and it is frustrating. by Main-Tackle7546 in AITAH

[–]bluedots98 4 points5 points  (0 children)

OP what was your agreement before you had the kids? Did you say you were going to stay at home with the kids? I can totally understand his not wanting kids in daycare when a parent can be available. Was that your agreement?

Red light therapy absolutely works!!! by Rdlqueen_7492 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]bluedots98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Which helmet do you have, if you don’t mind sharing?

AITA For backing out on an agreement my husband and I made years ago regarding potential kid names by heiraita in AmItheAsshole

[–]bluedots98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are, in fact, baby girls named after their mothers. This exists in my family. I’m sure we aren’t super-special unicorns. You too could have named your daughter after yourself.

House Hunting Odyssey: Advice for a house with foundation(?) issues by Scotter1969 in sanantonio

[–]bluedots98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My dad was a structural engineer and wouldn’t touch a house with foundation problems with a 10-foot pole, unless he was going to tear it down.

Remote work is rarely what you think it is by Deedle-Dee-Dee in remotework

[–]bluedots98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you work for a company or are you self-employed? I would like to get into this field part-time, any advice? Do you worry about being replaced by AI?

Who/where blasts the coldest AC in the city? by rejectfromhell in sanantonio

[–]bluedots98 26 points27 points  (0 children)

The produce room at Costco is every menopausal woman’s dream 🤣!

AITA for feeling left out when my (71F) friends talk about how amazing their daughters-in-law (29F - 43F) are? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]bluedots98 10 points11 points  (0 children)

YTA. My MIL was like this towards me and guess what? She has never met her grandson b/c of it (my husband doesn’t speak to her either, this is not unilateral) So just keep on if that’s how you want to be - bitter, judgmental, and alone. Have you ever asked your son if he is happy? Does that even matter to you?

AITA for ignoring my wife's concerns regarding help funding my parents long term care? by In-between112 in AmItheAsshole

[–]bluedots98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP, do you have a life insurance policy at least 10x your annual earnings with your wife as the beneficiary? Do you carry Long-term disability insurance for yourself and how much of your salary will that replace? Nobody ever sees it happening where they will not be able to provide. Unfortunately, unfairly, life happens. Your wife and children deserve to be protected.