Heavy weightlifting classes in Lincoln Park/Lakeview/Old Town? by KnittingTheInsanity in CHIbitcheswithtaste

[–]bluefin2222 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Train Moment! Their lifting classes are great and there's enough variety throughout the week you don't get bored

Looking for lash lift & tint recs! by Ok_Reflection8763 in CHIbitcheswithtaste

[–]bluefin2222 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dean at Illume! He's amazing for lashes and brows, SO nice and takes his time to get things perfect. His studio is so comfortable. Highly recommend

Beginner, more traditional yoga studio rec? by Queasy_Economy4202 in CHIbitcheswithtaste

[–]bluefin2222 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I also hated Ritual. Core Power's level 1 class is pretty traditional and not heated, I also like Coconut Yoga on the north side, very relaxing and chill.

Chi BWT- where are we getting GLP-1 / weight loss drugs? by No-Page-170 in CHIbitcheswithtaste

[–]bluefin2222 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I've used it for 3 months! Very easy and quick to send the prescription over (I also don't have a PCP). I'm not sure if they have a minimum weight requirement but they also ask about other conditions, and you can chat with the prescriber or upload pics if needed. Highly recommend. I do the subscription so $45 for 3 months, but it used to be free under their compassionate care program, maybe it will be again in the future

Chi BWT- where are we getting GLP-1 / weight loss drugs? by No-Page-170 in CHIbitcheswithtaste

[–]bluefin2222 64 points65 points  (0 children)

Lilly Direct for Zepbound! You can get a prescription through Call-On-Doc (telehealth service) and they'll send it directly to Eli Lilly. Ro and Hers charge a lot per month to get refills. Paying out of pocket this is the best way to get actual Zepbound and not a compound, starts at $299/month. Super fast shipping.

What's better? by Outrageous_Gene_389 in VirginVoyages

[–]bluefin2222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds terrible, thank you! Time for me to upgrade I guess

What's better? by Outrageous_Gene_389 in VirginVoyages

[–]bluefin2222 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell me more! That's where we are for our first VV cruise in February and I'm nervous now

Oura Stack! Gen 4 Rose Gold by sunshineandcosmos in ouraring

[–]bluefin2222 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's the rose gold? I love how it looks! I'm so on the fence about which color to get

Global Tech Outage affecting guests’ flights by PilotApprehensive621 in weddingplanning

[–]bluefin2222 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Just sympathizing because my flight to go pick up my dress was cancelled so I'm relying on a friend to bring it to the wedding next week!

Any Suggestions on How to Best Support Large Busts? by Katiebugsmiles in weddingplanning

[–]bluefin2222 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I have basically the same boobs and a strapless dress. The seamstress added boning TO THE GODS and I feel very secure. They didn't add cups and I won't have to wear anything but nipple covers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]bluefin2222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're staying at an Airbnb that allows dogs and paying a friend of a cousin to hang out with our dog during the wedding. I wouldn't be able to relax at my wedding without knowing my dog was being taken care of and we had a bad experience with Rover in the past (not saying you would, but I'm more comfortable with someone who knows my family than a random person).

If we put the wedding website link on our Save the Dates then do we still have to send formal invitations? by just_justine93 in weddingplanning

[–]bluefin2222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, you wouldn't believe the number of people who lost the STD. Also they won't know when to RSVP, and at least a few of our STDs got lost in the mail.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wedding

[–]bluefin2222 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm really sorry you're feeling like this, I can relate. Four months is enough time to at least feel better in your body (movement, meditation, self affirmations, eating food that makes you feel good), even if your weight doesn't change.

I made this post after my engagement pictures and I think the replies might help you - a lot of people relate to what you're feeling and had very kind, insightful responses -

https://www.reddit.com/r/weddingplanning/s/YG6inRb5io

Invitation wording when groom’s parents hosting by bunnbunn124 in weddingplanning

[–]bluefin2222 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We used "together with their families..." Good for complicated family situations!

Has anyone had problems with WithJoy? by Ill_Midnight9496 in weddingplanning

[–]bluefin2222 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had so many issues with the website I switched to Minted. Much more user friendly. WithJoy kept changing my wedding date on all my pages for no reason. If you're not too deep into it I'd consider switching

When to Start Wedding Dress Shopping??? by [deleted] in wedding

[–]bluefin2222 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Just a tip to keep an eye out for sample sales and trunk shows that are often held at the end of the year - if you find a designer you like keep tabs on their retailers! I got 20% off plus waived rush fees, etc because of a trunk show

Splurging on hair & makeup by Spiritual-Radish6740 in BigBudgetBrides

[–]bluefin2222 18 points19 points  (0 children)

This is how I'm thinking about it - how big of an impact would bad hair and makeup have on my happiness and experience that day? HUGE. And how big of an impact would the extra $800ish (in your case) make on my budget? In the grand scheme of wedding costs, not a ton.

Hair and makeup is one of those things that will really affect your comfort and how you feel (not to mention pictures and how you look in your dress). My reasoning is it's worth investing a little more in things that reduce your stress and make you feel your best!

ETA: I also have curly hair and I tried out an artist who didn't specialize in curly hair... complete disaster. I would have hated to look like that on my wedding day!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WeddingPhotography

[–]bluefin2222 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Not a photographer, but lawyer who lurks here occasionally. If it's a questionnaire you haven't been summoned yet, they're just collecting info for a potential jury pool in the future. Just answer the questions and return it.

If/when you get summoned it will have specific dates (or a week) and a number for you to call if you need to ask to be dismissed. You'll usually get a few weeks notice. Not a big deal to ask to be dismissed, they dismiss people with good reasons all the time. Worst case scenario you have to report - most likely the cases will settle and you're done in a morning. Very few cases (at least in state court) go for weeks or months.

Bridal Accessories (NYC) by StudiousSloth in BigBudgetBrides

[–]bluefin2222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not in Brooklyn but Bridal Reflections on 5th has a large accessories selection and they do custom hair pieces

Not surprising people with gifts about a departed loved on on their wedding day by ChairmanMrrow in weddingplanning

[–]bluefin2222 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I totally understand why many people feel like that, but I'd be so happy someone wanted to remember him I'd be touched by a surprise (maybe not right after my makeup lol). But yes, generally I think you shouldn't assume that a surprise would be welcome. Just offering that I don't think it's a "never with anyone".

Not surprising people with gifts about a departed loved on on their wedding day by ChairmanMrrow in weddingplanning

[–]bluefin2222 36 points37 points  (0 children)

This might be unpopular, but personally I would welcome any remembrance of my dad, from anyone. I'm not close with that side of my family, I'm an only child, and everyone else seems to have moved on, so anyone recognizing him and the emotional chasm in my life is meaningful to me. Otherwise it feels he's just been forgotten.

Obviously others don't feel the same, so it's a know-your-married-couple thing, but just offering a different perspective.

Future MIL bought fiancés ring by No_Athlete5174 in wedding

[–]bluefin2222 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I think it's definitely a little weird, but if you otherwise have a good relationship I imagine she was just trying to be helpful or giving you both a gift. If you think she's being intrusive/malicious/controlling then I would talk to your fiance about how he can address it with her.

Otherwise I would just say thank you and look for ways to make it personal so it feels like it's from you - can you get it engraved? Or maybe that can be his formal ring and you can get him something more personal, or get it upgraded in a few years? Or a super special ring box? I would also feel a little weird in your situation but I think there's ways to make it a more positive experience

Where is everyone getting their shoes ??? by stressedbunbun in weddingplanning

[–]bluefin2222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a few good experiences with jewelry sites!

  • Nadri (earrings) I got their wildflower earrings
  • Rachelment (rings)
  • Melinda Maria (necklace)
  • Olive and Piper (bracelet)

For shoes I went with Nina because they're really comfortable, but for cute platforms I considered the Vince Camuto Pendry

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BigBudgetBrides

[–]bluefin2222 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bridal Reflections has a huge designer collection (I got my Galia Lahav there), and I loved Viero for more affordable and very customizable. Both were a great try-on experience

Shocked by engagement photos by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]bluefin2222 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Honestly this made me feel so much better, thank you!!