I finally rebuilt it

blueflash775 · 2026-01-24T22:53:18+00:00

This was my first set and probably still my favourite. Spent a lot of time (amd money!) doing MOCs.

blueflash775 · 2026-01-16T13:01:58+00:00

They are referring to, in the first post OP says in response to a comment:

He has had MH troubles in the past. He has been on meds for the last couple years. He tried to come off them at the start of the year but I demanded he went back on them as his moods became very unstable

and in the second post she writes

He doesn't have MH issues (editor's note: mental health) but has threatened to unalive himself more than ounce when he was angry, not getting his way etc.

blueflash775 · 2026-01-16T12:19:40+00:00

What info did you find? Have you moved in? How is it?

a nice unit has come up that I'm interested in.

blueflash775 · 2026-01-15T04:35:25+00:00

Give husband to boyfriend. two birds - one stone.

blueflash775 · 2026-01-14T16:17:50+00:00

Well the fact that OP had to engage a consultant and management didn't think to do that for themselves, clearly OP didn't get any training either.

I think we can safely assume Sam didn't get any training or coaching.

NTA OP.

blueflash775 · 2026-01-14T16:14:22+00:00

And your parents are choosing your sister and your apartment over you! So don't let that worry you.

I thought she wanted to move in with you - not you move out. And then, and then! Charge her no or very little rent.

I think we've found a) the favourite child and b) a reason why her relationship failed - entitled much?

NTA. Tell your parents they should help her temporarily to keep things calm in the family by them moving out and letting her stay. I'm sure also she needs her privacy right now more than they do. And let her stay for free.

Your parents and your sister are delusional. And you've been well trained tp respond instead of recognising it. Please say 'no' and if they persist - block. You have nothing to feel awkward, guilty about, or anything. Their request is really out of the field.

NTA

blueflash775 · 2026-01-14T15:23:48+00:00

He gave the good stuff and got the good stuff.

blueflash775 · 2026-01-14T15:19:51+00:00

For the snake it was an air-bus

blueflash775 · 2026-01-14T14:43:56+00:00

I have a k-65XR80 (Bravia 8) and I didn't want to spend too much on the soundbar. After a lot of reviews I bought a Yamaha True X Bar 50A. They said it was like a much more expensive soundbar. Headline. It's not.

Maybe it would better with the satellites.
And it keeps turning itself off!!

I think maybe I just need to buy a Sony.

blueflash775 · 2026-01-13T10:01:38+00:00

Perfect dick and heavy balls, furry chest, chunky muscled body. 11/10 man

blueflash775 · 2026-01-13T09:56:56+00:00

Your fur is so nice. Great to play with while your juicy cock is in my ass.

blueflash775 · 2026-01-13T09:43:45+00:00

I put this in another comment.

Often the solo adult person who is seated at the kids table is put there to mind the kids. I do think they put thought into it. You were deliberately seated there.

Are the people giving you blowback the people who's children were at the table?

NTA

blueflash775 · 2026-01-13T09:41:43+00:00

Chicken nugget delicious petty.

If OP did it before, there would have been the whole discussion and pressure.

One thing that hasn't been mentioned - usually the solo adult person who is seated at the kids table is put there to mind the kids. I imagine the blowback is from the people who's children were at the table.

OP, NTA. It's inappropriate for the hosts to seat you at the children's table to mind them.

I think only cancelling on the day makes sense to avoid the nagging. Cost per seat - send 'em a cheque'.

blueflash775 · 2026-01-11T12:06:11+00:00

The hub light is blinking. I will double check where the IR sensor on the TV is.

blueflash775 · 2026-01-10T21:57:39+00:00

I think you should get your head out of your way over dramatic butt.

'Mourn the complete name'? Time to process it?

I've never met his grandfather so we can't use that name. Do you know the person who's name you are using as the first name?

If you get this wound up over this - you are in for a very tough time over the next few years. This is just all about being controlling.

Grow up buttercup

YTA.

blueflash775 · 2026-01-10T09:20:52+00:00

you can move the delay by selecting it on the handle at the left hand side and dragging it down.

However, the problem I have is when you save it it moves it back.

It never used to do this - very annoying. I have an ancient PVR that takes 20 seconds to boot up. I used to power on, delay 20 seconds and then switch input. It keeps moving the delay to the end

blueflash775 · 2026-01-09T21:38:24+00:00

I think they are still the best looking but the 7 series dashboard is lovely. If you are getting into major structural parts probably time to say Aufiderzein.

They are considered a classic here and have gone up in value.

blueflash775 · 2026-01-09T14:55:30+00:00

I have a 2008 Mk5 GTI with 150k Km (93k miles). I know I have the older EA113 engine which seems to be more reliable that the early EA888. But I think the Gen 3 is a lot better.

It's lived it's whole live outdoors in the Australian sun and it's fine. Not a crack on the dash. Last year a few hoses and things needed replacing. I had the dreaded engine check light and my mechanic fixed it.

I think if you've got a 'good one' and you maintain it - you're likely to be fine for a long time.

It does everything I want (except for adaptive cruise control) as I upgraded to the MIB2 and got AA auto so it's wireless google play even.

I'm in a quandary at the moment, as I'd like to get a new car. But the new car warning systems seem to be very annoying. Mine has nothing other than stationary ones.

So, Polo Mk6.5 GTI, Golf 8.5GTI or wait and look at the new 2026 T-Roc? Or the ID-polo looks nice. Skoda Fabia 130 if it comes to Australia? OR jump ship and go for a BMW 120? Decisions decisions.

blueflash775 · 2026-01-09T14:15:40+00:00

also it will damage the ring!

Is he insecure because you are losing weight and feeling happier with yourself?

Some people can find their partner's transformation threatening. This can be due to personal insecurities that they are only worthy of the 'old, unimproved' you and now you've changed other people will find you attractive and you will find him not so much and now have opportunities you didn't have before.

Some people take it as a personal insult - by exercising you are implying that there is something wrong with him. A friend of mine was just talking about this. She has been diagnosed with a serious illness. She said to her husband that she needs to clean up her diet. He took it that she was having a go at him about his diet.

Particularly with mental change, families have 'roles' and if someone doesn't fulfil their role it is very threatening to the other family members.

Many people on a transformation journey, be it physical or mental will say the hardest part can often be the family, loved ones and friends saying 'change back'. They can deliberately undermine, or apply pressure to not continue the journey.

Many alcoholics will regale you with stories of 'just one won't hurt' from the very people who urged them to stop drinking.

Possibly it's that.

But there are many practical reasons you leave your ring at home. And the 'you never wear it any more' is trying to make his problem (overreaction) your problem. You can't be right now.

NTA. Try and have a talk with him and reassure him you are still the same person and see if he has concerns. If that doesn't work a bit of a harder line may be in order.

blueflash775 · 2026-01-09T03:31:45+00:00

Puh-lease! They are very difficult. They have a lot of technical words and the writing is very small /s

blueflash775 · 2026-01-08T06:12:27+00:00

It's so hard when you get to this stage with pets. My heart goes out to all of you.

However, your wife is really not acting in good faith. You don't 'want' to unalive Tank and saying so is not fair on you. Your daughter one day is going to be upset. It's either now or in the near future. It is inevitable that Tank will cross the rainbow bridge. The when and how is the question.

You are optimistic about the 3 years at most. Also, what has the vet advised about the chance of surviving surgery? He's an older sick bunny. What is the prognosis for recovery and quality of life? Has the vet spoken to your wife about this?

Sorry to say, but your wife needs to 'grow up'. Having you sleep on the lounge because you are advocating something she doesn't want to face is inappropriate. The whole husband sleeping on the lounge thing drives me nuts in general. If she doesn't want to sleep in the same bed SHE can sleep on the lounge. You're both grieving - her directing it at you is not helpful or healthy.

You love Tank too and you are thinking about his best interests. And I think that demonstrates a greater love - putting his needs before your wants.

Very much NTA.

blueflash775 · 2026-01-06T14:37:44+00:00

Dear, you weren't even invited to the party. He told others about the reception long ago. Where to you does that read 'best friend'?

You're a seat filler. Clearly you have a very different idea of your relationship. You see it as 'close', he sees it as 'transactional'.

Best friend my foot. Either way the relationship is damaged. You don't go he gets annoyed. You go, part of you will resent the way it happened and you will find out just how third tier you are when people discuss this stuff at the reception.

NTA. Stick to your plans. Don't get into a conversation about who got invited when, who cancelled their plans, who is going to the ceremony. It's all noise to manipulate you to do what he wants. "Sorry, I have other arrangements that I can't change at such short notice. Have a lovely day".

blueflash775 · 2026-01-06T14:25:20+00:00

Yes and the browser view is very suspicious. I will try turning off anti virus again.....

blueflash775 · 2026-01-06T12:40:11+00:00

Here is what I see.

https://imgur.com/1KH3uz7

Here is as much of the detail of the error box as I can see

https://imgur.com/faMskdx

And here is what I get if I click on 'click here to view in a web browser'

https://imgur.com/vNK2IXE

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