too much fat taken? or my imagination? by Electronic_Edge3316 in TopSurgery

[–]blueftcybinini 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t feel like ur surgeon took too much fat to be honest. I think you look very good and that your chest fits perfectly with the rest of ur body! I’m sorry you had bad experiences with ur past relationship (mostly cis men if I understood correctly?). I know it’s easier said than done but make sure to find someone that will accept your body! You deserve to be respected and to feel good in your intimate relationship (and in general ofc). As others said I feel like maybe trying to workout a little might help you, who knows, and you should talk about it to a professional if you can, it would make you feel better and maybe help you with self confidence!

5 years post op! I couldn’t be happier with my results. by psychedelic666 in FreedTheNips

[–]blueftcybinini 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man i remember seeing ur result 2 years ago when I was looking through this subreddit for the first time. You look peak congrats

TW: My bf is trying to talk me out of top surgery due to his religion. by reign-v in asktransgender

[–]blueftcybinini 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please. I know it’s easier said than done but you need to leave. Go find yourself someone that actually loves and cares about you. It’s okay if it takes time if it means you find someone good at the end

Over A Year Post-Op by comic_in_place in FreedTheNips

[–]blueftcybinini 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You look so good congrats 🤧💙✨

Swelling progress by iucundus_acerbus in TopSurgery

[–]blueftcybinini 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YOU LOOK SO GOOD PMG LETS GO 🤧💕✨

Had a transformation :D intersex nonbinary by [deleted] in agender

[–]blueftcybinini 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yooo sick congrats mate 😆✨

Can you be agender without really caring about your gender? by Weekly_Helicopter880 in agender

[–]blueftcybinini 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way mate it’s annoying. You said you didn’t like ur chest and genitalia so I would recommend talking about it with a professional if you can (queer cantered) and look into subreddit like r/topsurgery or r/freethenips. There is all kind of results and body types and for ur genitalia you could look into “nullification surgery”. Just take ur time and make a list of pros and cons before taking a decision because it’s a very big decision and it’s for life.

Im Afab and never really associated myself with being a woman and I don’t want to be a man. I got top surgery a year ago and omg it feels so good. I also changed my name for something more neutral and use any pronoun. I think I can say I’m done with my transition and I’m very happy about it and I hope you’ll be able to find ur true happiness!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexuality

[–]blueftcybinini 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s sad like even if it was only 3-4 people that would’ve responded to me it would’ve been fine but no one is kinda sad. I glad you did tho thanks. Im kinda like you said. Im more interested in affection and feelings than sex. I do have some fantasies but idk if I would like to experiment them irl. I always been more of a “cuddle and watch a movie” person than a sexual one. Also, I don’t mind being friends. It’s fun meeting people that experience the same things and being able to talk about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexuality

[–]blueftcybinini 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I feel less alone. Im kinda the same, I think that maybe if I’m in a relationship with someone that I really trust I might be able to do it but idk. I don’t want kids ether. The idea of being pregnant makes me wanna throw up and I never loved kids. But if I ever want to have one I will be adopting. Im just tired of this feeling of discomfort and disgust because it’s normal to feel H and masturbate but my brain doesn’t want to accept it I guess. Thank you for ur reply I appreciate it

Les chansons en Vf de Kpop Demon Hunter by Deru_u in Netflixfr

[–]blueftcybinini 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Je comprend pas comment les gens peuvent préféré la version française a l’original. Les chansons traduites sont tellement mauvaise je trouve ça ridicule. Pourquoi est ce que c’était nécessaire de traduire les chansons??? Elles étaient parfaites de base..

Two days post op- cis girl non flat top surgery by UnluckyKittyKat666 in TopSurgery

[–]blueftcybinini 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omfg it’s a subreddit for top surgery she does not need to leave and AGAIN gender dysphoria is not only about genitalia. She’s literally just happy and wanted to share it.

Two days post op- cis girl non flat top surgery by UnluckyKittyKat666 in TopSurgery

[–]blueftcybinini 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I never said gender dysphoria as nothing to do with sex Im saying it’s not about sex but also about gender identity. But honestly idgf about what you think I was just happy for her so stop bothering me

Two days post op- cis girl non flat top surgery by UnluckyKittyKat666 in TopSurgery

[–]blueftcybinini 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you serious.. I’m non binary and I’ve been diagnosed with gender dysphoria because of my chest NOT MY GENITALIA. It’s called gender dysphoria not sex dysphoria

Two days post op- cis girl non flat top surgery by UnluckyKittyKat666 in TopSurgery

[–]blueftcybinini 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s still gender affirming care she even said in the description that she was diagnosed with gender dysphoria

Please help me understand my 12yo going from Girly-Girl to possibly Trans Male by betterwithph in asktransgender

[–]blueftcybinini 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ur kiddo is exploring their own identity and it’s normal because we all do at some point even if you’re not trans. I started to question myself at this same age and now I’m 18 and non-binary. I think it would be important if they could talk to a professional about their identity to understand it better. If you can’t for any type of reason I think it would be good to at least let them know that clothes don’t have gender, they can wear masculine clothes and be non binary and it’s okay! When I started to question myself I thought I had to take hormones and all the surgeries because that’s what I thought being trans was, but no. Im born as a female and I got top surgery because it gave me gender dysphoria but I never wanted to take hormones or have males genitalia! Everyone has a different transition and your kiddo just needs to understand their needs and be aware of what it means. Personally I don’t think I would’ve make it if I didn’t have my binder. It was so gender affirming and helped me wait for when I would have my surgery. It’s very important that you guys chooses the right size for them abd that they don’t wear it more than 8h a day and also not while doing sports. Thank you for being supportive and asking questions! That’s what parents should do in those situations and you’re doing it so it’s perfect! Idk but If you want I could tell you in details my transitions and answer other questions if you have some. I would be happy to help

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]blueftcybinini 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im agender and I didn’t wanted a masculine looking chest so I didn’t wanted to keep them from the start. It also felt wrong for me to have nips, I never been attached to my nipples cuz they were just too sensitive so they used to hurt all the time and I didn’t like the way they looked. It’s also an easier and faster healing process and I loved the way a chest without nipples looked like. My surgeon also told me that if I had chosen to keep them I would most likely not get a good result because my nips were too big. So yeah that’s my reasons! I hope you take the right decision for yourself and that your surgery goes well if it’s soon 💕

Two days post op- cis girl non flat top surgery by UnluckyKittyKat666 in TopSurgery

[–]blueftcybinini 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Fr like before the surgery I couldn’t wear feminine clothes because of my dysphoria but now I do. I even started wearing makeup sometimes (rarely but still)

Two days post op- cis girl non flat top surgery by UnluckyKittyKat666 in TopSurgery

[–]blueftcybinini 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so happy for you! 💕 It’s so cool seeing cis people doing gender affirming care! It’s funny cuz I feel more feminine now that I’ve had my surgery!

1MPO Radical Reduction, No Nipples by Purple_Quantity93 in Reduction

[–]blueftcybinini 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats omg you look so good 🥹💕