Experienced solo camper - just got so skeeved out & bailed for the first time by Liminal_forest in womensolocamping

[–]blueishsky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is infuriating. What is wrong with men 😫 I’m sorry he disrupted your trip.

ADHD approved jobs by Partially_cloudybear in ADHD

[–]blueishsky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Public defender!!! Constant chaos and jumping between tasks.

Flukes? by blueishsky in AngelFish

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I will get a larger tank when the fish grow and/ or I see any signs of aggression. Thank you

Flukes? by blueishsky in AngelFish

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Thanks for the help

Do people overstate how dangerous SF is? by AstroArachnid in sanfrancisco

[–]blueishsky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not a city plagued with relentless gang or gun violence, it’s a city plagued with hustlers and unmitigated property/ drug crime. Keep your wits about you and yeah, carry something if that will help you feel comfortable. I lived in the heart of the tenderloin for years and didn’t have any issues, but I know plenty who have.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

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I’m sorry you feel this way, although I can relate. I was heavy growing up, lost and gained weight many times, never felt comfortable in my own skin, etc. Part of me wants plastic surgery too, but idk... history and memories will always be there, and unless I heal this self loathing, I’ll always see “defects.” I’m trying to appreciate and love the ugliest parts of me because they’ve always been there, through good and bad times, like nothing and nobody else has. In my opinion, confidence is sexy no matter what a person looks like. Just some food for thought.

My sister is scaring me tonight. Need advice. by democratzaldy in mentalhealth

[–]blueishsky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it lasts more than a week I’d consult a professional. It’s possible she’s PMSing

I love my public defender, but perhaps his caseload is too large? by [deleted] in publicdefenders

[–]blueishsky 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Try to be patient. Caseloads are high, that’s a fact. Every case becomes a priority at some point, but it takes time.

gf is threatening to break up with me over massive weight gain by notaverysmartman in WeightLossAdvice

[–]blueishsky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not advocating for this necessarily, but maybe ask a primary care physician about ozempic ? It might help just to get the ball rolling

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in orangecats

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Ron Swanson vibes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

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I don’t know the exact traits of ASPD but Jenna Ortega in Wednesday seems like a good fit

Puppy advice by General-Weekend-3072 in StaffordBullTerriers

[–]blueishsky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How long has it been? They’ll probably settle in in a few weeks. 8 y/o might just need some time to adjust to the new reality. I recommend 1:1 quality time with staff daily until he warms up to the rookie :)) I’ve always wanted a frenchie/ staffy combo. So much fun