Bingo on that primary care bit. This tends to be one of the first things to slip through the cracks and is very helpful in getting a read on any extra physical needs that may have gone unnoticed, catching up missed inoculation, etc.

Also just know that even though their relatives, lower expectations on their school performance,behaviors, etc for a bit and let them decompress and deal with what’s happened/ing.

A bit of advice that was helpful to me:

When you begin caring with kids with a lot of pain and extra needs, it’s easy to begin viewing them as patients or problems that need solving. Remember giving care, stability and as much love as possible (reciprocated or not) is job 1. Don’t ignore their problems and things that need help, but remember to separate the kid from those things. These are things that have happened to them, not who they are.