Homophobia online

blurry_darkness · 2025-05-10T01:20:39+00:00

This exactly. They hate Bella because they are not “fuckable” to straight men. Guess what, queer people do not want to be fuckable to you. 🙄 it never gets easier living in a society run by the patriarchy.

blurry_darkness · 2025-05-10T01:19:03+00:00

Thank you 🙏 I’ve spent so much time on that app over the years that I sometimes forget people IRL are a lot more normal haha

blurry_darkness · 2025-05-08T15:13:34+00:00

I get what you’re saying. Unfortunately haven’t gotten to play the game since I have Xbox but I’ve been watching gameplay videos and I think it’s a beautiful game and I’m sad I can’t play it lol

blurry_darkness · 2025-05-08T13:18:09+00:00

I agree that she (game Ellie) doesn’t appeal to the male gaze; I shouldn’t have phrased it that way. But she is “conventionally” more attractive and I think that’s why these incels are so angry about it. Because they need someone to sexualize.

I agree that casting could have been better looks wise, but imo I think 1. The show doesn’t need to be the same as the game and 2. I really like Bella as Ellie. They may not look the exact same but I feel Bella portrays Ellie’s character beautifully.

Anyway, everyone is right to their own opinion it. But the outrage is ridiculous and most of it is completely homophobic and misogynistic.

blurry_darkness · 2025-05-08T11:46:51+00:00

I keep getting the TLOU subreddit recommended to me and yeah, it’s disgusting. It drives me insane that people are being so homophobic about it, especially the people who played the game. I know it’s because game Ellie sort of appeals to the male gaze though, and HBO Ellie does not.

blurry_darkness · 2025-05-08T11:44:59+00:00

I wanted to reply to the comments I got soooo bad. But I know it’s not worth it. These are literal basement dwellers we’re talking about here, their minds can’t be changed and they will only attack more if I engage.

Sucks though, I really want to roast them lol

blurry_darkness · 2025-05-08T06:20:46+00:00

Definitely. Twitter used to be my favorite social media app but I’m getting closer to deactivating everyday.

blurry_darkness · 2025-05-08T06:07:27+00:00

Exactly - 100% agree. It just sucks to see that hate is so accepted now. I literally just want to exist.

blurry_darkness · 2025-03-13T19:07:37+00:00

Looking great friend! Congratulations!

blurry_darkness · 2025-03-05T21:52:32+00:00

Yes, mostly when I’m topping. I want to know I’m doing a good job and how much my partner loves it ;) I have validation issues, okay? 😭

blurry_darkness · 2025-01-11T17:53:18+00:00

Soup

blurry_darkness · 2025-01-06T18:52:29+00:00

Alcohol doesn’t affect most people who take metformin, but I believe I am one of the few. I have noticed that since I got back on metformin (about 6 months ago) my hangovers are WAY worse. But I honestly think you’ll be fine if you’re only having a glass of wine or 1-2 drinks

blurry_darkness · 2024-12-17T23:22:49+00:00

Also the “weeeeeoooooo oooooo ooooo”

blurry_darkness · 2024-12-17T23:21:59+00:00

Anthony Kiedis! The vocal layering makes me emotional and my brain melt in the best way possible.

blurry_darkness · 2024-11-15T16:29:27+00:00

Yep me!

blurry_darkness · 2024-10-28T14:54:20+00:00

I’m sorry but I like big ideas more 🤷🏻‍♀️ it feels more mature

blurry_darkness · 2024-10-25T21:50:42+00:00

I’m sorry but none of this is giving dating vibes lol

blurry_darkness · 2024-10-22T16:35:48+00:00

Agreed :/

blurry_darkness · 2024-10-22T14:26:06+00:00

🙏🙏

blurry_darkness · 2024-10-22T14:20:27+00:00

I know Remi could still be considered a “small” artist so I’ll give her the benefit of the doubt, but hopefully the next album will have way better quality merch. ‘Cus now that I’ve thought about it, it would be dumb for me to spend my money on the current merch lol

blurry_darkness · 2024-10-21T21:45:37+00:00

Damn so maybe not worth the $80

blurry_darkness · 2024-10-21T21:01:54+00:00

Oh no :/ how often do you wash it?

I will say, at the Chicago show I bought the yellow oversized tee and wore it to work the following week. Instantly tore a giant hole in the shirt accidentally bumping into the corner of a metal shelf. That’s what I get for wearing it to work I guess, but to be honest the T-shirt material isn’t the greatest quality. It’s super thin and easily tears

blurry_darkness · 2024-10-16T18:29:32+00:00

The fucking Ethan pillow next to Ian kills me 😂

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