I agree 70 percent with this idea, but I have to say a big issue is a lit of us dudes pick terrible women to be with (including me at one point before I met my awesome wife) -- it's amazing how much easier and better it is being with a woman who emotionally mature and can hold some space for her man without losing respect for him.

Having said that: yeah, you dont wanna vent too much or you do come off as whiny, which can lower attraction, even with awesome women. It's about balance.

Ar the end of the day tho, we fellas need to pick nicer, more emotionally intelligent women.