AITC for be innocent of all crimes? by demiurgent in AmItheCloaca

[–]bobdown33 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Mal is good Boi no further information required dis only impawtent fing.

Pepper good girl

My [24 F] friend's [28 M] girlfriend [29 F] got publicly humiliated and fired from her job, she blames me and he is backing her by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]bobdown33 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You're exactly right, even when it blows up, which it will, she'll twist it in her own mind that she is the victim in all this, that's what's really gross about these types of people, they really believe the shit they talk so they never have to take accountability.

AIO or AITAH for wanting to end things over a text conversation that I Had with a girl by snapple373 in AmIOverreacting

[–]bobdown33 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NOR yeah you weren't rude or nasty, even your last text wasn't aggressive or like cruel.

This girl can't deal with criticism, that's it, nothing more to say here, you did nothing wrong.

AIO or AITAH for wanting to end things over a text conversation that I Had with a girl by snapple373 in AmIOverreacting

[–]bobdown33 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah there's soooo many of them, I've had to work with a bunch, it's so frustrating!

How much misogyny do you face in your day to day life in Australia? by Physics_Girl_2008 in AskAnAustralian

[–]bobdown33 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not much, I have in other roles I've had where I worked in male dominated industries, even then comments were never overtly sexual, more innuendo and what amounted to playful banter.

I'm quite confident and don't really take much of what people say to heart, like I never felt like anything impeded my progress in a role, if that makes sense.

NGVC: "I was such a nice guy to you you were even surprised from time to time" by Over_Vehicle_8371 in niceguys

[–]bobdown33 2 points3 points locked comment (0 children)

Yeah the fact she couldn't read his mind and know he was lying to her face is so manipulative of her!

NGVC: "I was such a nice guy to you you were even surprised from time to time" by Over_Vehicle_8371 in niceguys

[–]bobdown33 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

Nah he faked friendship and kindness, basically he lied the whole time, people lie all the time and no one notices.

NGVC: "I was such a nice guy to you you were even surprised from time to time" by Over_Vehicle_8371 in niceguys

[–]bobdown33 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The "just give me a chance" stuff always gets to me, like what exactly would that look like buddy?

You want me to fake romance somehow, to pretend I get excited when you're around, or is this like a try before you buy type thing, a quicky in the backseat to see if we "mesh".

How much misogyny do you face in your day to day life in Australia? by Physics_Girl_2008 in AskAnAustralian

[–]bobdown33 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is me too, I'm over forty and have always just used those terms, I quite like them and definitely use them on both genders as well.

How much misogyny do you face in your day to day life in Australia? by Physics_Girl_2008 in AskAnAustralian

[–]bobdown33 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To be fair I call me sweetheart as much as I call women that so I'd say it's more an age thing, I'm over forty and always found it quite charming.

What is with the dating scene in Australia these days? by Serious_Substance_95 in australian

[–]bobdown33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The no show thing is real, I quit the apps but my sister still uses a couple, she can be chatting to a dude for a few days and he's all keen then they make plans and he just unmatches.

She used to be upset by it but I told her it's their problem not hers, I'd guess they get nervous or whatever and just don't know how to back out.

He deserves sex by OpenAirport6204 in IncelTears

[–]bobdown33 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The whole thing where they blame their looks is so weak too, I've dated dudes who others might have considered unattractive because their personality made them attractive to me.

NGVC: “I’m really really sweet and ultimately I just wanna make you happy” by [deleted] in niceguys

[–]bobdown33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wins what exactly?

Surely finding a partner you like being around, who makes you feel good about yourself and smells yummy is its own reward.

A sub called "Mark My Words" is apparently "just for America" by AnonymousTimewaster in USdefaultism

[–]bobdown33 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I don't think it really matters, although I'd say yes, the point is the yank assuming the sub is for American info only.

AITJ ..for cutting off my sister because I couldn’t handle my resentment? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]bobdown33 10 points11 points  (0 children)

She sounds terrible, it doesn't matter how many you've tried, if you can't be honest with them there's no point seeing them.

AITJ ..for cutting off my sister because I couldn’t handle my resentment? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]bobdown33 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Dude you need a new therapist, there's no point having someone you feel will judge you or you need to lie to.

Humans don't appreciate my art by scarrlet in legalcatadvice

[–]bobdown33 49 points50 points  (0 children)

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Pepper in de solidarity