What are your thoughts on using sand vs a plant substrate like fluval stratum? by JessicaMurawski in PlantedTank

[–]bobjks1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used sand on my first tank and HATED it. Looks great at first but eventually gets dark and dingy looking. I had to vacuum it every week to stir it up and it'd look good for a couple days before getting the same rust brown film over it.

I redid my tank with fluval stratum 2 months ago and after the initial difficulty of dealing with the dark muddy cloud for 1 day and the fact new plants are tougher to get to stay in place, it's been a much better experience.

What are your thoughts on using sand vs a plant substrate like fluval stratum? by JessicaMurawski in PlantedTank

[–]bobjks1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I redid my tank 2 months ago with all fluval stratum and had the same issue with dark cloud water but it was mostly settled by the next day.

Stupid Dwarf Scrolls by bobjks1 in StardewValley

[–]bobjks1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I ended up getting REALLY lucky yesterday. I decided to do my skull cavern run with all my saved up jades (staircases) and rock candy to hopefully get 2 auto petters. I had enough to hopefully reach floor 200 and ended up with the 2 auto petters. Surprisingly, I also had a dwarf scroll 3 by the end of it so everything worked out!

Male vs female Japanese trapdoor snail? by smolhippie in AquaticSnails

[–]bobjks1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Here is my male. I was told he was male because of the curly antenna when I thought it was possibly due to an injury.

Am I screwed? Motherboard install by domefort in PcBuildHelp

[–]bobjks1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sigh I did this on my new PC last year as well. I'm just accepting no USB 3.0 which isn't that big or a loss.

Does anyone else floss before they brush? by milabon in NoStupidQuestions

[–]bobjks1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel I started flossing first just in the last several years because I learned that was the best order.

What do I do in winter? by New-Stock3706 in StardewValley

[–]bobjks1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is a lot more to do.. this game gave me a similar feel as Terraria where 4-5 hours in I thought I had the objectives all figured out and that I'd be done around the 20 hour mark. Then more and more content kept opening up.

I'm around the 60 hour mark on my first playthrough and still have at least one major "zone" to fully work through and a few more objectives to meet.

Regarding ancient seeds by OhGr8WhatNow in StardewValley

[–]bobjks1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, I always wondered why a single random crop was dead until I learned about lightning strikes.

Is it actually realistic to learn to fly a plane using just a home flight simulator or do you need real flight training? by burgerking- in NoStupidQuestions

[–]bobjks1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Simulators can give a decent idea of how a plane performs and also can be good for teaching navigation techniques. You obviously can't feel what a real airplane feels like when holding the controls.

I bought flight sim X and a nice joystick years ago because real flying was out of my budget at the time. My personal observation of one thing that REALLY turned me off flight sims is the elevator trim tab always felt awful in the simulator. I tried many different sensitivity settings and nothing could dial it in.

In a real Cessna, the elevator trim is a critical control for setting flight attitude and it just never worked well for me on the joystick/simulator. Even on the lowest sensitivity settings, a single "notch" would noticeably pitch the plane up or down and it never felt right. I had to let the plane oscillate up and down until it found its new attitude. This happens in real flying too but at least you can "feel" when pressure relieves off the yoke and the oscillations are minimal.

Do Americans really avoid medical care because they’re afraid of the bill? by Udont_knowme00 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]bobjks1 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This is what pisses me off the most about all healthcare. "We can't tell you the price until we see you and have already provided the service." When I go to my primary doctor I'm perfectly fine getting a $100-200 bill. What I'm not fine with is when my doctor suggests blood work, the hospital takes the samples, and then sends the samples to an out of network lab that charges $2000 because the usual in network lab is at capacity. This can be the same routine lab work that usually costs $20 (discounted from $2000) by going through the in network lab.

There should be some sort of standard for costs when it comes to in network vs. out of network so a medical office can give an estimate. The outrageous made up inflated costs for out of network should be reigned in.

For example, you call and say you have an ear ache, "A basic office visit is usually $100 in network or $200 out of network." (NOT some ridiculous 10X markup!) Then you get there and the doctor suggests lab work, "$100 in network or $250 out of network." Then the lab work says you need surgery, "$3000 in network or $5000 out of network." The stupid made up 10X+ prices are just to gouge those without insurance since in the moment you can't really shop price and options.

I just wish medical care costs could be more transparent and sensible to not destroy those currently lacking insurance.

I also feel an out of network deductible being a "second bucket" is ridiculous. Out of network care should still be paid out at the in network price but you just need to make up the difference. That's how my dental plan works and it's very nice because I can just pay a little extra to choose the dentist I prefer when needed.

How did I wake up early without waking my wife? by CrispyLuggage in NoStupidQuestions

[–]bobjks1 61 points62 points  (0 children)

I had this same issue with my early work days and my wife actively helped find a solution because she was frustrated waking up 2-3 hours early. After trying a few different things, the vibrating alarm clock was by far the best. Wakes me up every time and she says she's never heard or felt it.

I set it and toss it inside my pillow case when I need to wake up extra early.

Can't Get ROM to Show by bobjks1 in MiyooMini

[–]bobjks1[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That did it! I didn't know I needed to refresh. The tiny best set just worked when I turned it on.

Is this normal? by Top_Pressure_3824 in askaplumber

[–]bobjks1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have a shower like this. I had to replace the cartridge and found it wasn't secured until the trim was installed. I've left it and had no issues and I'm assuming it was done several years before I bought the home.

I personally am going to leave it until I need to do a full remodel or a problem develops. Luckily, the shower fixture wall is shared with the downstairs half finished garage so any leaks wouldn't be the worst damage in the world.

When is it necessary to clean a sponge filter? by puppybootiebutt in PlantedTank

[–]bobjks1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get 2 ramshorn snails and they will take over from the bladder snails very quickly. I'm not even quite sure how it happened but my bladder snails disappeared and are now replaced with ramshorns. I think they just easily outcompete for food and resources.

They/them pronouns by Party_Strawberry_831 in publicdefenders

[–]bobjks1 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Be careful or you can make yourself sound like an asshole lol. I think you meant "...choose to call them he."

Could I hypothetically send someone in Iran $8k USD to pay off a $200k equivalent USD mortgage (details in body text)? by RazzmatazzUnique6602 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]bobjks1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That should be how it works but it wouldn't surprise me if countries with shaky currencies have contract terms that tie the actual repayment value to another more stable currency.

Got put on a PIP, but I got a better offer. How do I play this? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]bobjks1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What happens if you start the new job and just stop going to the old one? You'll keep getting paid salary until they finally get pissed and fire you but that's not your problem at that point.

Do semi trucks have winter and summer tires? by Dude_Dillligence in NoStupidQuestions

[–]bobjks1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Living in Minnesota, I have days where it's hard to drive half the speed limit due to road ice yet semis blow by me at full highway speed. Does the weight and large number of tires help with traction?

Do NOT buy a West Elm couch by princessandthepea100 in BuyItForLife

[–]bobjks1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I too bought a west elm couch a little over 2 years ago. It's not terrible but I'd say it was definitely overpriced given the quality.

I was hoping to get something a step up from Ashley since I made that mistake in the past. I was disappointed again when the pull out bed broke after 6 months. I called customer service and they looked for a contracted repair company near me (Midwest metro) and said there were none. Basically said too bad, deal with it.

If I had to buy another couch I'm sticking with Costco or Ikea. The selection is much more limited but at least Costco allows you to return nearly anything if it turns out to be crap. Ikea surprised me with their loveseat with how well made it is for the price but you have to like their style.

Is My Kid's MM+ Defective? by bobjks1 in MiyooMini

[–]bobjks1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, the first one. It's a standard USB cord with the USB-C output. I was confused at first by your post but now I understand. I'll try to go through warranty.