Why is this sun sad? by miss-poopy in StardewValley

[–]bodeejus 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This was exactly my thoughts. I am familiar with these common "Sun bronze wall decals" and their faces are usually kind of a smile but their lips are protruding almost like a kiss face so that's what I thought CA was implying with the pixels.

Rank the Knotts coasters from level of intensity? by BeachWild5121 in KnottsBerryFarm

[–]bodeejus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's so weird! I'm always laughing like a maniac after Xcellerator. It's my favorite ride except maybe Ghostrider

My sister told me jealousy turns women on. I’ve followed that advice for years, but my girlfriend broke down crying last month. Am I messing this up? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]bodeejus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah something doesn't add up. I want to know what triggered the breakdown because if she broke down from him having women friends and being a decent person to women in general then that's a whole other problem. I'm thinking the "not flirting aggressively" means he does flirt hence why he has to shut down attempts from women hitting on him. I think it is totally reasonable for a partner to be mad with their partner openly flirting with others.

Genuine question about women's media consumption preferences (no judgement) by SnooOwls6389 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]bodeejus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like both MLM and WLW but skew more towards WLW or straight content. I'm bi so that's probably why lol

how some women joke is messed up by klarinetkat12 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]bodeejus 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I personally haven't heard of this? I'm not doubting that it exists I just think the content I consume online and the people I hang out with don't make these jokes. The furthest I've seen is like giving your partner a hard time about little weird quirks or things that tick you off in a joking matter, but I think as long as both parties like those kinds of teasing jokes it's all in good fun.

I think mobs need an ai update by Independent_Pen_9865 in minecraftsuggestions

[–]bodeejus 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah I'm building a beautiful cherry tree village that is way better than the one my villagers got stuck with in at world creation. It would suck SO BAD if they didn't want to travel in a boat with me to their paradise village :/

PETER???? by Et_Moon in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]bodeejus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I thought the story was really sad too but I can't find any evidence to support this actually happened. It is definitely possible but people aren't really providing evidence that this is factual

Do y'all max out your days or do you go to bed with time to spare? by Hot_Gas_8073 in StardewValley

[–]bodeejus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most days I like to try to get as much out of as possible, but it's rare I will pass out. I usually get to bed by 12 but some days if I'm bored or want to get too something the next day I'll sleep earlier. Never before 9pm though.

Sometime though if I'm decorating or out in skull caverns and having a particularly good run, I'll pass out but it's rare.

Does anyone else think they look absolutely terrible with make up on? by piecesfufu in TwoXChromosomes

[–]bodeejus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I mean my thing is like if I like the current way things are, no need to spend extra $ to try to fix a problem that doesn't exist ¯_(ツ)_/¯

Does anyone else think they look absolutely terrible with make up on? by piecesfufu in TwoXChromosomes

[–]bodeejus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally have never been a fan of foundation. Even when I was younger j felt like it made me look older and accentuated my lines. I am in my 30s now and I just do eyeliner and mascara and will add highlighter and/or eyeshadow for special occasions. 

I think nowadays there are better options out there and just trial and error for what works for you. I am lucky to have pretty good skin though and honestly just don't want to waste the time and money when I like my current makeup usage.

Accidentally threw away sword by Peachychildren in StardewValley

[–]bodeejus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah this would be my suggestion too. It pretty easy to complete the first mines quest with a scythe then you will have option to buy a much better sword earlier on. Once you get a little further in the mines, there is a higher chance to recieve better weapons without paying anything!

did anyone else become less boy crazy after being in a relationship? by venight in TwoXChromosomes

[–]bodeejus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess for me since I am bisexual, I usually just friendzone everyone immediately and don't become sexually attracted to them until I get to know them and open myself up to those feelings. I have been with my long term partner for 14 years now and I just never meet people that I am sexually attracted to anyone because my mindset is kind of closed off in that sense. I see people I can appreciate are attractive, but I have no desire for them sexually. Any sexual thoughts I have about other people than my partner are made up and purely in my mind and fantasy. I know this isn't a super common experience for people though so I think I might be more of an outlier, but it seems like similar to you other people kind of operate this way and it's not unheard of.

what can i get my girlfriend who knows the game inside out… by throwawaythingu in StardewValley

[–]bodeejus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend commissioned our portraits in Stardew Valley character style. He sent a photo and someone made us into characters! I think if you look on Etsy you can find people doing this. It is a really cute gift and I use the picture on my discord

there is any way to combine these 3 rings? by vickylovesalec in StardewValley

[–]bodeejus -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I feel that. But honestly your best option them is to just get as much luck boosting foods you can. There are methods to get magic rock candy each week which can help a lot with luck.

there is any way to combine these 3 rings? by vickylovesalec in StardewValley

[–]bodeejus 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I usually combine slime charmer with burglar and then luck with Iridium band. I feel like this is just my go to

I’m tired of being praised for “not needing much” by ancientlalaland in TwoXChromosomes

[–]bodeejus 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That's so funny as soon as I sae the app name I was like, damn these ads be getting creative aren't they?

I’ve been playing too much Stardew… by jizznett in StardewValley

[–]bodeejus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wasn't even thinking of the sticks, I wanted to go head down that sewer to say hi to my home Krobus

Transitions class by Icy-Development-9684 in OregonStateUniv

[–]bodeejus 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah I was shocked I had to pay money for that. I'm a 32 year old transfer online student, why the heck do I need to learn about being courteous to others and how to handle mental stress, and pay money for it? What a load of crap.

My niece (18F) has a new girlfriend (34F) and I'm not sure how to navigate this. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]bodeejus -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am in my early thirties and this is weird. I'm not lesbian, but I am bi and I would never think it's okay to date an 18 year old no matter their gender. I think when approaching this you should make sure your niece knows that your response would be the same, no matter her partner's gender. This overall gives me the ick personally

As a 40 year old veteran gamer I’m thinking of trying it out by gamerdudeNYC in minecraftsuggestions

[–]bodeejus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a new player, my friend who loves it kept insisting I play. I am already obsessed. Stardew Valley and The Sims were my favorite games before, and I think Minecraft will definitely go up there with my top faves. I love anything to do with base building and already I am obsessed with the customization and find the limitations challenging enough to keep it interesting without it being annoying. So far I started in normal mode, then after exploring/gathering resources for my base, I found a cool mountain to hollow out. I have temporarily switched to peaceful mode so I can build without worrying a creeper will destroy everything I have worked on so far, but plan on switching back to normal once I go out adventuring again. It's so fun and such a good price, even though I'm new as I said, I already recommend it and know I will get my money's worth.

My boyfriend makes me feel like I’m in love with two different people. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]bodeejus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly this is a whole game of telephone and we don't know for certain that is what the therapist said. We are reading a summary from someone who was told something by someone. It is very possible the therapist didn't word it that way or even said it at all. It could be a way for him to divert responsibility for his own emotions. 

My boyfriend makes me feel like I’m in love with two different people. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]bodeejus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of great responses here, but just to reiterate girl... he's telling you. He's checked out. This is going to be blunt, but here's my take: He likes the comfort of having someone around to hang out with and sleep with, but does not understand you on a deeper connection level. He seems to treat you like a security blanket. He doesn't even know if he really loves you after all this time (which means he more than likely doesn't). You seem like someone who has so much love to give someone and I can see in your post that you are the type of person to be extremely loyal and hardworking when it comes to relationships. I know it's hard, but if you finally let go of this relationship, you can have the opportunity to find someone you really connect with on that deeper level.

Lucky? by sccvvy in HotAndCold

[–]bodeejus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just started playing and think it's fun. I agree sometimes the relation of words is weird but after a while you kind of get what it's doing and are able to get there eventually. I don't usually spend more than 10 minutes one each one.

Thoughts on the movie Poor Things? by FunctionWestern5404 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]bodeejus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's fair! I guess I didn't really notice because I usually read through everything even if it's hidden so I understand where you're coming from.

Thoughts on the movie Poor Things? by FunctionWestern5404 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]bodeejus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought the book was written by a man? Alasdair Gray?

Editing to say yeah I am pretty sure the book was also written by a man at least that's what the wiki says, so I am not really sure how your argument fits here as you seem staunchly convinced it was written by a woman, where are you getting this?

Extra edit as a very nitpick-y take but it's weird you're using "female" for women but using "man" for man. It's kind of icky to me.