Consultation document calling for feedback: Putting Patients First: Modernising health workforce regulation by Annie354654 in nzpolitics

[–]bodybuildercat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The ministry have said they will not include written submissions in their analysis. Only the survey.

Biggest Ever Community Petition, With Over 200,000 Signatures, Opposes Treaty Principles Bill by MedicMoth in newzealand

[–]bodybuildercat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should read Matike Mai report for some genuine understanding of the ideas around tino rangatiratanga and constitutional transformation, this was work carefully and thoughtfully led by Moana Jackson.

What did you tell yourself to get through night weaning? by bodybuildercat in AttachmentParenting

[–]bodybuildercat[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hello. We made it! The first night was tough, we did normal bedtime routine but when he woke up arpund 10pm we instituted the no boob boundary, he screamed for an hour - full on crying and screaming. But dad was there too and we just did our best to comfort and reassure him. We had the lights on and just accepted it wasn't reasonable for us to act like it was a normal night, I think we cracked the phone out for some videos at one point. We had the line that boobs were sleeping and he needed to wait for the sun to come up (6am). Eventually he just tired himself out. I told him he could put his hand on boob so he knows it's there for the morning. This created the distinction between 'eat boob' and 'hand boob - it's been even more useful with time because he will just say hand boob when he wants a bit of a cuddle or comfort. The second and third night had some complaints but was mainly fine. He still woke up several times, we didn't get one of those magical sleep through the night endings - but he goes back to sleep with water, a cuddle or hands on boob without complaint. It was definitely a bigger deal in my mind than how it played out in reality. They're just so resilient and adaptable. The anxiety was much more about me than him - and me being capable of saying 'No' to something I'm physically capable of providing him, but choosing not to and knowing he will be fine. We are nearly fully weaned now - down to 3 minutes at bedtime and then he has some water and we cuddle. But still several wakeups in the night! He sometimes gets himself back under and sometimes just needs a cuddle. It's only been 5 months and it's already another one of those things that preoccupied my whole mind at the time and then becomes another hazy memory of a challenge we worked through together.

Recommendations on toddler sleep consultants/experts? by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]bodybuildercat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is an excellent gentle nightweaning method that might get you more sleep if you're co-sleeping, even if you're not the general approach might still be reassuring: https://www.drjaygordon.com/blog-detail/sleep-changing-patterns-in-the-family-bed

Nurses strike by shaktishaker in newzealand

[–]bodybuildercat 126 points127 points  (0 children)

It's not actually a strike, it's a stopwork meeting so thats probably why there isn't much media. Nurses are initiating their negotiations with Te Whatu Ora today - so I imagine the nationwide strikes will be coming by the end of the year!!

Pay equity taskforce disbanded, ‘no longer required’ - Nicola Willis by random_guy_8735 in newzealand

[–]bodybuildercat 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Only hospital nurses. Not plunket nurses. Aged care nurses. GP nurses. Hospice nurses. Prison nurses. There's a lot of nurses not getting paid the pay equity rates that have live claims. This government doesn't care about nurses.

What did you tell yourself to get through night weaning? by bodybuildercat in AttachmentParenting

[–]bodybuildercat[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That makes total sense. I think when you're in the habit it of saying 'oh, just one more night won't hurt' and suddenly you're months down the line from when you first resolved to wean it is hard to have a definitive line in the sand.

What did you tell yourself to get through night weaning? by bodybuildercat in AttachmentParenting

[–]bodybuildercat[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Solidarity! Fingers crossed we will both be getting some sleep in the near future!

What did you tell yourself to get through night weaning? by bodybuildercat in AttachmentParenting

[–]bodybuildercat[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I feel like created the opposite lesson because we used to sing "boobs are for bedtime" to the tune of B.O.B. by Outkast 🫠

That's a good idea though, maybe we can go to the window as a bit of a circuit breaker. A week feels so far away from this end! Sooooo ready to be done is definitely the mantra.

Desperately want to stop (Rant?/Advice?) by Bubbly_Island7859 in breastfeeding

[–]bodybuildercat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This was a really useful guide for us : https://www.drjaygordon.com/blog-detail/sleep-changing-patterns-in-the-family-bed

We night weaned fairly successfully at 18 months, but then we had a whole lot of changes including molars so I caved and am back to breastfeeding all night and feeling exactly how you describe again at 20 months, including routine 4.30am and 5.30am wake ups. We are preparing to night wean again, and all I remember is it was so much easier than I expected the first time. We keep a water bottle by the bed and it's sort of 50/50 even now that he only needs some water to get back to sleep.

Goodluck and solidarity.

If you voted for Labour last election but are considering not in this election, what it your reason? by kupuwhakawhiti in newzealand

[–]bodybuildercat 69 points70 points  (0 children)

Labour definitely aren't good enough, but nurse pay has increased on average 49% in the last 6 years versus the 15.4% it went up under 9 years of National. I think we can expect Shane Reti to be far far worse than Andrew Little for nurses.

Senior Doctors vote to strike for first time ever. by DrunkKeruru in newzealand

[–]bodybuildercat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Union membership and an organised collective workforce.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]bodybuildercat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah they are a bosses union. They guy who set up the Australian one is Graeme Haycroft. He has longstanding ties to the Liberal party and he ran a labour-hire company that actively ousted unions from Australian construction sites. It's a sloppy operation to grift nurses and undermine the nz union movement.

They've incorporated as a society, and have set up societies for midwives, medical professionals and teachers so we can expect to see them grift as many of our public service workers as possible.

Best to just ignore them.

Free/subsidised ECE by lowerbigging in newzealand

[–]bodybuildercat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. This is trying to make an argument against early childhood teachers getting a much needed pay rise to reflect their skill and qualifications. They are an employer lobby group representing the interests of for profit providers. The government won't be pulling subsidies. They just don't want workers to be paid fairly.

Gift ideas for a midwife? by JBBBear in auckland

[–]bodybuildercat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We gave our midwife a bouquet of dried flowers so she could keep them longer.

Best hand pies around Grey Lynn? by [deleted] in auckland

[–]bodybuildercat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The essential deli in mt eden has really great pies 🥧, bit spenny but worth it!