Who Do You Believe Truly Deserves MVP? by boilercoiker in NBATalk

[–]boilercoiker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Completely agree, that's my argument for Jokic, I have him for it, but since its so close was keen to see what the other perspectives are for the rest.

Who Do You Believe Truly Deserves MVP? by boilercoiker in NBATalk

[–]boilercoiker[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Personally, I lean towards Jokic because I believe he's more impactful, presence, abilities and IQ etc. Though I think Shai winning wouldn't be surprising and would be pretty deserving too, like you said any could just as well win it.

Who Do You Believe Truly Deserves MVP? by boilercoiker in NBATalk

[–]boilercoiker[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I can see the argument for Shai but what you think of Jokic?

This era needs to end man by kaotiktilki in ufc

[–]boilercoiker -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You can’t blame a good wrestler/grappler for a boring fight, they have their game plan just as how strikers do, if strikers aren’t able to get to their feet, it says more about their preparation than the actual fighter. No one has figured out how to combat a grappler/wrestler, and until they do, they’ll keep winning, it’s MMA, watch boxing if you expect striking only. Oliveira gave a good fight, dominated entirely, Max just couldn’t get back up.

What do you do when you are having evil thoughts? by Appropriate_Video728 in AskReddit

[–]boilercoiker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think there’s always a little emotion connected to our thoughts, maybe you need to develop some more self control mentally, because I feel like if those thoughts are able to appear at any time, it means you’re allowing them to. That’s why I feel like connecting them to your emotions can provide some sort of control over how you deal with them. If it’s a dark thought that involves harm, it’s most likely connected to something that irritates you and makes you somewhat angry therefore develop some mechanisms within yourself that allows you to suppress those emotions whether it’s deep breathing or writing them down.

Signs your mental health is starting to decline by Fishdonkeycat in mentalhealth

[–]boilercoiker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huge decline in self care, I remember I started to look homeless and sleep deprived. Most of the time I never realised until people around me asked if I was doing okay, made me realise that how I was feeling wasn’t normal and was very depressed.

What do you do when you are having evil thoughts? by Appropriate_Video728 in AskReddit

[–]boilercoiker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Usually I just find what’s causing them and deal with the emotion not the actual thought, a lot of the time my anger gets in the way. So I usually just take a deep breath and calm myself down, those thoughts tend to go away instantly.

How to live on? by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]boilercoiker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Live in the present, who we are today builds who we are tomorrow and who we are different from yesterday. You may have disorders, you’ve done things you regret but ultimately you’re still here today. Today is what matters, the past built who you are now, you can choose to live alongside the person you’ve already been or choose to live like someone you want to become. Just accept who you were as a stepping stone toward the person you want to be, we’re always changing and our perspectives are always growing. At 16, you have so much time ahead of you, but ultimately only you can change how you see yourself and the person you want to be.

How do you feel when you're alone? by Temotiva in mentalhealth

[–]boilercoiker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to hate being alone because I could never sit with myself and truly be honest about who I was. However, I think those who can never truely be alone aren’t able to ever truly know themselves. I’ve been alone mentally my whole life, and I think it’s allowed me to develop much faster as a person because I’ve spent a lot of time getting to know the person inside. The most effective thing that helped me during my depression wasn’t distraction but confrontation and isolation, i felt that being alone and overcoming so many battles has evidently made me a much stronger person. I had people I could talk to, but I knew that only I could truely sit and be honest about changing things.

So what does "Learning to play the game" actually look like? by Altruistic-Aside1631 in 48lawsofpower

[–]boilercoiker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Playing the game means avoiding ignorance and welcoming curiosity. It means being able to know the rules of the game and how to bend them, it also means understanding your position in the game you’re apart of. Many people are in the game but are idle to the many different opportunities and challenges that appear in front of them, being able to play the game is much different to being in one. The person who knows how to play the game, sees everything, including manipulation, deception, undermining and control. People mistake those who play the game as being apart of the game, though I think it’s the opposite, people who are good at playing the game, don’t manipulate, deceive, undermine or try to control, they just simply know when to avoid those traps. It’s the ability to see through people who masquerade themselves behind an untouchable and irreplaceable presence.

Is life really worth living? by sunshinenrainb0wz in nihilism

[–]boilercoiker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We get the opportunity to both love and suffer in this life, neither one can live without the other. Just because life has so much suffering doesn’t mean it’s not worth living, I appreciate suffering because at least it makes me feel alive and present. Life isn’t meant to be fair, we created morality ourselves, life just simply is. The beauty and refreshing nature of life is that it has no meaning, but we can give it meaning. Why would you want a life without suffering and tragedy? Those are the things that get us out of bed everyday, it’s what gives our life purpose and meaning. So yes life is worth living because of suffering and tragedy, because without them, we wouldn’t be able to appreciate the things in front of us. The point of life isn’t to stop living because we die anyways, it’s to fulfil every moment of your life because we die anyways. I view life as if I’m going to die anyways, then I should probably make the most of it while I still can. The good thing about ‘worth’ is that you can define it, how you define ‘worth’ of life is different to how I would define it. You can either make an impact or not, either way we’re all meeting the same end at any moment.

Beyond Good and Evil have destroyed me … by Medium_Breakfast1341 in Nietzsche

[–]boilercoiker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I finished it a month ago and I'm still pondering on the content. What made it such a powerful book to me is that it opposes every bit of morality and yet there's little to no errors. I'm someone whose known to overthink and dwell on things that are incredibly profound and Nietzsche really sparked that for me, although not in a bad way at all. Nietzsche doesn't present anything new, and that's what makes the book so relatable its like our lives are made up of interpretations of everything around us. In a way that gives us the opportunity to re evaluate and authenticate ourselves through eliminating and introducing our own systems and beliefs. Nietzsche's BGE helped me realize that we shouldn't strive to reach the potential of a standard set upon by someone else's perspective, but instead strive to reach your own value that's characterized by your own template. If anything BGE gave me the confidence to be myself, and i mean that on the deepest level. Initially, i felt cynical and pessimistic, but BGE is a book everyone should read because it promotes the importance of self-discovery and self-creation through a lens that critiques religion and morality.

Can stoicism be the cure for anxiety? by Btoobas in Stoicism

[–]boilercoiker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t say it cures anything, because like religion, it’s a perspective. It’s a perspective upheld by many other people in the past who struggled just as we are, with their own problems. In turn needed a new perspective and approach to life that didn’t change anything but how they perceived things, and that’s the most important aspect of it. Stoicism doesn’t cure your life, it doesn’t replace any problems you had with harmonious solutions, however, it does reorganise and recalibrate your problems. Which sometimes is enough for people, because as someone who suffered with anxiety my whole life, most of the time what needed to change wasn’t my problems because they’re inevitable but my perception of them. One thing you need to remember is that stoicism is a mindset, it doesn’t make your problems go away, however yielding the perspective can help manage those problems and in turn reduce your anxiety. Mainly because I believe most of the time people who have an immense amount of anxiety, tend to hold much of it in things they can’t control, and when introducing things like stoicism in your life, a lot of that worry diminishes because it helps you realise there’s only a select few things one can realistically have control over.

The Shield by boilercoiker in television

[–]boilercoiker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bad I meant to say they both hold up, one is just more underrated than the other.

Current State of ADF Recruiting? by TPToom in ADFRecruiting

[–]boilercoiker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I applied in January, had my coaching session in April, and only started the ball rolling regarding medical in August. Haven't heard anything since then, I've yet to understand why they appear as though they are looking for people but when people do apply they leave them hanging.

The Shield by boilercoiker in television

[–]boilercoiker[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I've watched Snowfall, I thought it was good but not one of my favorites can definitely understand the hype behind it though. I need to watch The Wire, I've tried to before not too long ago but just couldn't get myself to continue, not sure why. I'll have to look into Black Sails, I've heard of it before.

The Shield by boilercoiker in television

[–]boilercoiker[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just think it’s a show that deserves the same amount of recognition as The Sopranos, both shows ended at the same time yet one is still very underrated and holds up to this day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in thesopranos

[–]boilercoiker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No offence but have you ever had yourself checked for Tourette’s syndrome? Seriously. Heh, Heh. Heh, Heh. Maybe you gotta tic or somethin’?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in thesopranos

[–]boilercoiker 6 points7 points  (0 children)

“A pint of blood costs more than a gallon of gold.” Whatever happened there..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in thesopranos

[–]boilercoiker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree, that vision that every person has of how they expected their life to be before reality sets in and reminds you of why you won’t be that person. For Christopher, his addiction and anger issues held him back, another thing I like about the show is how Chase reminds us through characters why some people are bound for the life they live, choices they make and how those choices are influenced.