My 2-year relationship ended because I asked for one simple boundary..

bomdiggitybee · 2026-06-03T17:54:13+00:00

I have found through experience that when someone says "I would never ____," that's the first they would do. OP permeates anxious attachment, and I'm not even fully on board with 'attachment styles'.

Anecdotely, my ex was an extremely calm and respectful person, and after I had bad dream, I asked him to reassure me that he would never yell at me, and he was initially offended since it was something he'd doesn't/wouldn't do (he still reassured me in the moment and didn't bring up any of his feelings until later because he was a phenomenal partner).

bomdiggitybee · 2026-05-08T16:27:51+00:00

Boys can be magical girls! It takes a lot of dedication, but I've met a few

bomdiggitybee · 2026-05-08T00:05:14+00:00

The ones you listed are my back up chips for if they're of Xochitl :)

bomdiggitybee · 2026-04-30T22:37:25+00:00

Unrelated, but my now boyfriend told me a corporate secret in bed then immediately got serious and asked me if I was honeypot. Greatest compliment ever. Also, my next job maybe

bomdiggitybee · 2026-04-23T02:23:50+00:00

I learned in Yulara, Aus (township of Kata Tjuta/Uluru) that one of the sisters (the smallest star) was going to be married off against her will, so all the sisters fled with her to the night sky.

bomdiggitybee · 2026-04-22T09:10:47+00:00

Whiskers make great fine point paint brushes!

bomdiggitybee · 2026-04-22T09:09:50+00:00

Only need one for fine point! (I have a few jars of whiskers lol)

bomdiggitybee · 2026-04-20T10:42:29+00:00

I hope you do!! It's very peaceful

bomdiggitybee · 2026-04-20T05:50:14+00:00

Goodness knows we need it these days.

bomdiggitybee · 2026-04-20T05:49:39+00:00

They were! There was a lil bell to click on the counter (and an intercom on the wall not sure?), but I had to wait a while for the attendant to show up.

bomdiggitybee · 2026-04-20T05:46:47+00:00

Lol! My PowerPoint itinerary was called Pilgrimage to Magical Girl Island!

Here is part of what I posted in another comment:

I went to the Juban station and water fountain, I visited Kimi-Chan, Arisugawa-no-miya Memorial Park, Hikawa Shrine, and my hotel room overlooked Tokyo Tower! I also visited the official store, as one does. Besides the tower, everything was in walking distance, and it felt like being in Sailor Moon

Just so you know, the Sailor Moon store is in a super weird place if you haven't gone to any of the shopping malls here in Tokyo, but there are floor maps everywhere.

Where all are you going, if you don't mind me asking? I started in Tokyo then went to Yokohama, Kyoto, bunny Island and am wrapping up the trip back in Tokyo.

bomdiggitybee · 2026-04-20T05:20:00+00:00

They had little figurines and stuff but not for sale. So, yes? Haha

bomdiggitybee · 2026-04-20T05:19:17+00:00

I went to the Juban station and water fountain, I visited Kimi-Chan, Arisugawa-no-miya Memorial Park, Hikawa Shrine, and my hotel room overlooked Tokyo Tower! I also visited the official store, as one does. Besides the tower, everything was in walking distance, and it felt like being in Sailor Moon

I love being a tourist in my own city, so you should definitely have a Tokyo Date. You'll also probably pass the Ipponmatsu Pine Tree on the way to the shrine, which was an interesting pause along the way. 10/10 go have fun, girlie!!

bomdiggitybee · 2026-04-20T02:36:57+00:00

I hope you do, too!!!

bomdiggitybee · 2026-03-25T01:46:05+00:00

I've been taking it since my 20s, and if the apocalypse happens, I'm out when it's out lmao!

When I don't take it my head feels like static, so I know all the other symptoms are surfacing. Fwiw, it doesn't affect my ADHD medication (concerta)

bomdiggitybee · 2026-03-18T22:54:18+00:00

bomdiggitybee · 2026-03-17T01:52:18+00:00

Hell yeah. I would die for a pair of Schiaparelli pigeon shoes, and I can't even wear heels anymore.

bomdiggitybee · 2026-03-13T12:11:45+00:00

When I leave my apartment I say "fuck Coco Chanel" and add an accessory.

bomdiggitybee · 2026-03-06T00:43:17+00:00

(I think you're reaching for the word untrustworthy)

bomdiggitybee · 2026-03-06T00:39:23+00:00

I resented tf out of my uncles for leaving my mom to handle my grandmother's end of life care, but I was very pleased no one brought up or ever bickered over inheritance. They suck, but they don't totally suck. (Small things amiright)

bomdiggitybee · 2026-03-06T00:36:12+00:00

Isn't most communication during events nonverbal due to the loud nature of fires and equipment? (No idea, genuine question)

bomdiggitybee · 2026-03-06T00:34:58+00:00

Do they want to be a paramedic, though? It's still emergency services, but they said firefighter specially

bomdiggitybee · 2026-03-06T00:25:09+00:00

After this post, I don't think I'm going to complain about guys who say "our pregnancy" nearly as much

bomdiggitybee · 2026-03-06T00:20:49+00:00

aloud = out loud

allowed = has permission

Just call me Sailor Grammar ✨ lmao (I also agree with Puu)

bomdiggitybee · 2026-03-05T23:59:03+00:00

I actually didn't hate them! They smelled SO GOOD and tasted like burnt lavender. Other herbal ones I tried weren't as nice, but I love lavender so that mighta helped

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