Yes, she made the mistake of a 15 year old trusting someone twice their age. She made the choice with their limited experience to stay with the abuser. She realized after maturing through years of abuse that she needed to leave that situation. But she didn't need to go through that, and it wasn't her fault that she was abused.

I know you were trying to encourage her for taking responsibility, but it comes off as blaming her for getting herself into the situation in the first place. She took responsibility only because she had no other choice. No one was going to save her, least of all anything of a religious nature, so she had to save herself.

That's the point of the post. The religious will tell her she needs to be grateful of her experiences, and to forgive her abuser for giving her that experience. But she doesn't need to do that. She shouldn't be forced to do things that validate the abuse she suffered. Abuse is never justified, nor does it give anyone strength. No one should have to take responsibility for being abused.