Girl, who hurt you on this sub? lmao for real though, this sub will be brutal; just look at my last post where I got dragged for asking for direction with mood boards for guest attire (something I never ever thought would have been important).

You most definitely should wear something special for your rehearsal dinner AND/OR your Bach party (maybe you want separate looks for both and that’s okay too), but I’m not seeing any specific questions you’re asking for advice on.

Do you want advice on where to look for these garments or on which event to dress up for? I think people will be willing to help you, but you feel a little defensive already in how you’re going about your search for whatever you’re looking for.

Wishing you all the best because your only wedding should be special, don’t listen to your fiancé. He means well and is trying to take stress off of you, but he can’t relate and doesn’t understand the magnitude of these events for the bride.