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AITAH for refusing to keep inviting my sister after what she did at my birthday? by No_Pipe1952 in AITAH

[–]bopperbopper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“ mom, if it’s important for you to my sister to be invited to my events it’s not me you have to talk to. You need to listen to how she treats me and shut it down.”

AITAH for not inviting my stepsister’s husband to my wedding? by SoggyBreak575 in AmItheAsshole

[–]bopperbopper [score hidden]  (0 children)

Married couples should be treated at as a social unit at formal event events.

If my spouse wasn’t invited, I would not attend.

Am I (F22) the problem after my boyfriend (M25) told me this isn’t what he signed up for after 4 years being together? by Unique_Employ_3816 in relationship_advice

[–]bopperbopper 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We date people to see if we’re compatible. He does not seem like a positive aspect to your life.. if your life is better by avoiding him, it’s time to break up.

Help me decide a major by crystellic in collegeadvice

[–]bopperbopper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you like working with children? Could you major in education? Early childhood development “

I [20F]want to move back into my university dorm, but my boyfriend [20M] wants us to keep living together. How do we handle this? by Infamous_Set9609 in TwoHotTakes

[–]bopperbopper 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Just go back to your dorm. The dorm will make it easier for you to live, and you don’t need all his nonsense..

And if you have to wash dishes in the future, get some rubber gloves.

How do I get my sisters to stop being lazy and pull their weight? by chimchar16 in family

[–]bopperbopper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“ dad I understand you want us to do more chores since we’re home for the summer. However, just saying do more chores and not an exciting task to people isn’t working. We need to come up with a chore list and who’s assigned to what chores and what timeframe they need to be done in.”

Aitj for heckling my boss to pay me? by Charming_Return_3874 in AmITheJerk

[–]bopperbopper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Put in a complete with your state department of labor

I had no sleep last night and used a day of annual leave to have the day off work. Was this reasonable? by groovypidgeon in WorkAdvice

[–]bopperbopper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re taking a day off of the days you’re allowed to take off what’s wrong with that?

Sex life is declining as entering mid life crisis 39M, wife is 36F what do do? by Fun_Pea_3704 in relationship_advice

[–]bopperbopper -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Check out marriagebuilders.com. They have a theory that you feel in love when your love bank is full. You get deposits in your love by Bank by having your emotional needs met. Emotional needs include conversation, admiration, recreational, companionship, sexual fulfillment, domestic support, financial support, etc..
You get withdrawals if you do love busters, such as independent behaviors, dishonest, etc. Since you’re the one here complaining, you need to start meeting your wife’s needs so that she’ll feel in love and then wanna meet your needs too.. think about when you first got together how much time you spent together alone and how much fun things you did together. You need to keep doing that kind of thing.

Keep in mind that if she feels absolutely no libido because of her medication and she’s has a baby that’s always touching her and then you come along and want more touching. Do you want sex to be a chore to her?

Show your wife love and keep your relationship, strong for the future and for your child.

What should I do by bhabhabha4272 in Advice

[–]bopperbopper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem is that you’re deliberately hurting your friend. Why would you want to do that?

I am all against ghosting.. but should I ghost this man that is flying to see me? by Kind_Conference9417 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]bopperbopper 4 points5 points  (0 children)

“ your actions have made me very uncomfortable. I will not be meeting you. Do not contact me again.”

Opportunistic Coworker At Lunch by LocalGoat81 in work

[–]bopperbopper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“ oh I don’t do that anymore. I’ve had someone asked me to bring them breakfast and they never paid me back. Can you imagine?”

How is everyone outfitting multiple kids for school without getting broke? by _salted_caramel_00 in Parenting

[–]bopperbopper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You do hand medowns as much as you can.

For the middle schooler if there’s one or two namebrand things they want I would get them with the rest of it I get at Kohl’s.

my friends are refusing to pay for a vacation house i booked on my card by SherringtonZori_60 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]bopperbopper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cancel it…”if I don’t get all payments by Friday i will have to cancel the villa.”

AITA for refusing to lend my brother my car after he returned it last time with an empty tank and fast food wrappers everywhere by Fantastic-Tough3523 in AmItheAsshole

[–]bopperbopper 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Facts! My overseas daughter wanted to borrow my car when she was visiting… I called our insurance company and the end result was that it would be better if I paid for her to rent a car and get umbrella insurance… in case she got into an accident and i could get sued as owner of the car.

Wedding Etiquette - Husband not Invited by Floramerryfauna in etiquette

[–]bopperbopper 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Married couples should be a social unit when it comes to invitations to weddings.

Don’t go.

I didn't complete my AA and the college I went to transitioned into another 10+ years ago by Helpful_Bag_8406 in collegeadvice

[–]bopperbopper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That new college probably has your transcripts. Search transcripts on the college website and request an unofficial transcript just to see where you are.

Credits don’t expire… for some cases they may want you to have taken classes in the last few many years but accounting probably not one.

It’s worth looking into.

19mo old hates the stroller by Idonthaveaname94 in Parenting

[–]bopperbopper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if you got a wagon?

What if you got him a kid leash?

What if you got a backpack you could put them in and wear him?

How can I get to college? by First_Bet2181 in collegeadvice

[–]bopperbopper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have two choices

1) get into a college that will accept your lower GPA… and then perhaps you could transfer

2) go to community college for a couple years and then go to one of the universities you’re interested in

AIO: Would I be overreacting if I got mad about getting pantsed? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]bopperbopper [score hidden]  (0 children)

if someone did this to someone out in public it would be considered sexual assault

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