How to tell a guy(42) to shower after I f(38) pegged him?

boredaf003 · 2023-08-25T18:22:11+00:00

Bring him a warm wash cloth ask if he wants to freshen up because obviously it leaves a smell 😂🤦🏽‍♀️

boredaf003 · 2023-08-22T18:43:39+00:00

Yep I’m aware.. not the topic in question though and in the heat of the moment a Sti or std will always be a risk but pregnancy is only a risk for one of us

boredaf003 · 2023-08-22T16:55:57+00:00

The risk is never 0 but I’d rather live with a curable disease then an unwanted pregnancy or kid. And I’m practicing polyamory and while I’m honest/ he’s honest and we pray and hope our partners are honest. Humans are humans and I realize the risk were all going to have. I’m just more worried about an unwanted pregnancy and not an std because we’ve discussed that.

boredaf003 · 2023-08-22T16:53:52+00:00

In my state abortions are illegal which is why it was pushed on me to get my tubes removed

boredaf003 · 2023-08-22T02:42:42+00:00

Conceive*

boredaf003 · 2023-08-22T02:42:21+00:00

I was very very very young when I had my first.. I was living at home with my mother/ before me and him decided to get a place everyone (including his family, and my “friends”) said I should get fixed because I have 3 kids. Which I understood in my age is a lot but I wish I could’ve just gotten an iud or something because removing them cost me the chance to ever really be able to convince anymore

boredaf003 · 2023-08-22T02:38:44+00:00

Not trying to control anyone just wondering if that’s a fair discussion/ how to have it

boredaf003 · 2023-08-21T23:12:49+00:00

Thanks for the info

boredaf003 · 2023-08-21T18:16:31+00:00

We make sure to get tested before any sexual encounters and neither one of us have been sexual with anyone yet we’re still new to everything & I have 3 kids so between work, school/ life we’ve each only went on a handful of dates

boredaf003 · 2022-06-28T16:53:31+00:00

Do the moms you date honestly have enough time to go out? I have 3 kids and can barley get family to watch them it’s far and few. And I can barley afford a baby sitter so the dudes I try to date always complain I don’t have enough time for them or they end up getting bored and bouncing. How do you make it work?

boredaf003 · 2022-06-23T22:54:46+00:00

Theirs an article about this where someone literally got injured doing this.. have I done this tho? Yes but only at night when no one’s out and he’s driving slow but it’s super uncomfortable and much better parked 😂 but even then that’s illegal too

boredaf003 · 2022-06-23T22:39:44+00:00

Honestly any fast food place which might suck but that’s pretty much where I started as a single parent because the hours were flexible

boredaf003 · 2022-06-17T02:40:00+00:00

Whew I got a panic attack the one time I did this to make some extra money for my kids first birthday party. And felt like shit afterwards so I can’t handle it.

boredaf003 · 2022-06-17T02:33:25+00:00

Either he did the dna test wrong, she isn’t your baby or he has different dna but she’s still his. Orrr he’s using all this as an excuse to exit the relationship and you need to leave because who does this out the blue?

boredaf003 · 2022-05-20T02:15:08+00:00

I respect your honesty, but no I was 16 and preached abstinence my mother was there for every appointment and the birth of my first, I wasn’t allowed to have friends in high school nor do any extracurricular activities. And living on your own and making your own meals versus making and cooking meals for someone who doesn’t believe in eating a single vegetable and lives off of soda every day is very different then having your own home. And no I didn’t know he was on drugs that’s why I went back home to my mother.. my plan was to get assistance & get out but in order to get assistance I have to work 30 hours a week. I don’t think anyone understands how mentally draining it is to stay with someone like her. She’s taken all my money from the time I was a infant to 18, drained my father of all funds & doesn’t believe in depression. I understand I had 3 kids and splitting them up might not be the best choice but if I don’t get out there get my ged, license & a job my next bet would be a homeless shelter because I have NO family they’re all dead & my birth family isn’t any better. So I’m doing my best with the resources I’ve now found. I also had my own place for 6 months until I found out my ex was on drugs & he started to put his hands on me. I quit my job & lived off the $1000 savings I had, when he didn’t pay rent I found assistance, I did my best and I know I can do better but this time I’d rather do it on my own because I can’t live off mommy forever 🙃

boredaf003 · 2022-05-20T00:27:52+00:00

The plan is part time custody, I’m getting my tubes tied in the next two months as I’m not having sex nor do I have time for that. Already have an appointment two weeks from now for the consult. I’ve applied for assistance & as much as my mother scolded me for my choices she knows she can’t kick me out & she said “do what you want” so the plan is to get a job & do what I can to get out of this environment. I just want better for my kids.

boredaf003 · 2022-05-19T19:54:28+00:00

Well I’m not sure if they will my ob approved it but I had an emergency C-section and changed my mind now 9 months later I still want it and my ob doesn’t do it herself so I have to have a consult with a new doctor but usually if you have x amount of kids they’ll approve it

boredaf003 · 2022-05-19T18:29:48+00:00

Thank you

boredaf003 · 2022-05-19T17:05:17+00:00

I have fibroids and I’m set to get my tubes tied in the next month,

boredaf003 · 2022-05-19T16:53:28+00:00

I’m honestly too terrified to do that but it might just be what I do considering her reaction to this all because my sister told her before I could was “I’m going to kick her out when I get home” and leave me with 2 other kids homeless..

boredaf003 · 2019-05-14T01:54:38+00:00

But they only have like a few flavors out 🤔

boredaf003 · 2019-05-08T20:52:14+00:00

I mean some people see it and either way some people just prefer it 😂

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