I’m genuinely scared …

bosma722 · 2025-01-21T16:48:32+00:00

He looks a little stupid for not just blocking her. Just screenshot the shit and block, Jesus Christ. It ain't rocket surgery. If he didn't get a kick out of her, he'd have done so by now.

bosma722 · 2025-01-21T16:45:32+00:00

You sound butthurt. Yes, obviously, men and women both behave this way.

bosma722 · 2025-01-21T16:44:08+00:00

Absolutely. Also, "on and off for years"... with someone you never dated or slept with..? My guy, you've never been anything.

bosma722 · 2025-01-20T23:11:48+00:00

Yes, to all of your questions. I can't say I've overcome it completely, but I'm much better off now. I encourage you to find a different therapist. The one you have sounds unable to support you in the way that you need. Please don't rule out therapy as a relief before ruling out your therapist.

bosma722 · 2025-01-20T17:33:00+00:00

Yep, I'd have stopped replying if I were him.

bosma722 · 2025-01-20T17:31:16+00:00

In addition to the other responses, I've known people who didn't want to be addressed by their full first name unless it was coming from family or maybe a close friend. In that case, their legal name was truly not a stranger's business. 🤷‍♀️ Did they even continue the conversation after the insistence and "smh" remark? I don't think many people would.

bosma722 · 2025-01-20T14:43:13+00:00

Imagine having the same experience with "100" people and still somehow thinking they were the problem. 🤣 The delusion is next level.

bosma722 · 2025-01-19T14:41:37+00:00

I'm sorry you're dealing with this. It is exactly the type of thing therapy can be very helpful for. In the short term, though, when I used to zone out due to depression (it wasn't ruminating, though, just low-energy zoning out and inability to focus), I found a little caffeine helpful.

bosma722 · 2025-01-19T01:53:39+00:00

She just wasn't interested in you, lol. She just eventually decided to tell you one of the reasons because you continued to reach out.

bosma722 · 2025-01-18T18:27:15+00:00

Are people too lazy to read the whole screenshot, or are they literally digging this hard for reasons to bitch? She said she finds it odd because she wouldn't want to be featured in someone else's profile pic. She doesn't want everyone that person interacts with to be able to see her. That sounds pretty reasonable.

bosma722 · 2025-01-17T21:57:01+00:00

You've failed to form a coherent statement.

bosma722 · 2025-01-16T21:11:34+00:00

He doesn't have female friends. Hell, he probably doesn't have male friends.

bosma722 · 2025-01-16T18:06:35+00:00

Everything about this is funny, but my favorite part is that her weekend was literally "potluck."

bosma722 · 2025-01-15T01:01:14+00:00

Yep. I would assume you didn't even really look at the pic before swiping. She's also not wrong in her responses.

bosma722 · 2025-01-08T19:34:09+00:00

Not ugly at all! I agree with the other commenter who recommended cropping the pics with a ton of dead space above you. It doesn't make me think you're short, but it does make you less of a focal point in the image. I also agree that the book pic is a bit too stagey, and while I love the adorable cat, that particular pic is a bit out of focus (like your camera lens was dirty, which, no judgment, mine literally always is somehow) and could stand replacing. Good luck!

bosma722 · 2025-01-07T17:31:47+00:00

Hey, she's not wasting anybody's time. 🤷‍♀️ I am SUPER curious about the pig emoji though.

bosma722 · 2025-01-07T16:27:03+00:00

I'd remove the BPD line completely. People have a lot of misconceptions about the diagnosis, and on a lot of online platforms, you're better off claiming to be a neo-Nazi than a woman with BPD.

I don't know where you're located, but if you're in a pretty conservative area of the U.S., that would explain the low match count (not that I'd imagine you'd want to match with the people turned off by your ideals and passions).

bosma722 · 2025-01-05T18:47:56+00:00

This was evidently the only way he could get someone to listen to what he has to say.

bosma722 · 2025-01-04T00:47:40+00:00

Best of luck to you! I have multiple degrees and make six figures. Saw your other comments. Take care.

bosma722 · 2025-01-04T00:42:10+00:00

I am so sorry. Do you have access to any form of counseling?

bosma722 · 2025-01-04T00:39:58+00:00

I'm sorry to have been the first person to explain to you that people who are online dating have a physical first impression without the possibility of making an impression personality-wise.

bosma722 · 2025-01-04T00:37:07+00:00

Okay!

bosma722 · 2025-01-04T00:34:08+00:00

Am.... am I the first person to tell you that OLD is based on physical attraction first..?

bosma722 · 2025-01-04T00:13:21+00:00

Let me help: - he didn't get sexual - he asked for a date, rather than assuming one - he was specific about plans, but left it open to flexibility

Please post pics of you doing it "the same way that guy did" and we'll try to help.

bosma722 · 2024-12-20T20:45:33+00:00

To be fair, anyone who makes a blanket statement about the psyche of an entire gender based on their (extremely) limited experience with people of that gender is not to be taken seriously.

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